Newlywed Divorce

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Actually, I figured out you were a fraud in your first post. Your story is inconsistent and you clearly don't know how pregnancy tests work. If you tested positive 2 weeks after intercoursr which you claim
was day 12 of your missed period that would mean you were on or about to be on your period. Very unlikely to be fertile at that stage.
Hmmmm... you got me thinking now! I hope your field of expertise is private investigator. You have one of those minds:) lol
 

Elizabeth619

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Hmmmm... you got me thinking now! I hope your field of expertise is private investigator. You have one of those minds:) lol
No investigator, but a single mom who took 8 pregnancy tests
 
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Actually, I figured out you were a fraud in your first post. Your story is inconsistent and you clearly don't know how pregnancy tests work. If you tested positive 2 weeks after intercoursr which you claim
was day 12 of your missed period that would mean you were on or about to be on your period. Very unlikely to be fertile at that stage.
Yes I thought there was something wrong with that too. Now that I think of it, you had to do those tests after at least the first period and then 2 weeks or something.
 
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Lol reminds me of a guy who used to work at the office. We were quietly drawing our maps. All of a sudden he says: hey I just get a sms. I'm becoming a dad, with this dry voice, we hardly knew the guy. He had been dating a girl and they split up quite quick, but she had become pregnant. Then he just went back to her and married her.
 

blue_ladybug

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Who are you talking to? I never got nasty with others on a public forum? I love your rose-colored glasses.

Never got nasty regarding your pre-marriage choices, Lynn. Not never gets nasty in general..lol
 

Angela53510

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I can't talk to my parents because I don't have a close relationship with them. I am in my 30s so it's not like they have a true say anyhow. I don't have his parents information and his parental situation is not a stable one either. As far as divorce goes, I don't believe in it and I did not come here for anyone to tell me to get one. I'm here because this is supposed to be a Christian support chat. Since when did Christians advocate divorce and such? Anyhow, I will continue to seek guidance from God and whatever happens must be His will. Thanks for your response and my hope is in the Lord.

OK, here is the post that twigged me to this troll. It is post #5 on page 1. The OP is screaming at people for telling her to get a divorce. Except not one person said a thing about divorce in posts 2 through 4. So who was she talking to? No one, it was just a script.

Then there was the obvious contradiction of being a firm Christian and not believing in divorce, but premarital sex was just fine. Strange brand of Christian ethics!

I only read the first two pages, so I apologize if someone has already brought up the above points!
 
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I never even stopped to think if she was a troll or not

but it seems you guys who say so are right

I just jumped in because of the general attitude of condemnation and judgement that certain people think passes for good advice

no good deed it seems

well, I'm a little more educated than yesterday

have a great day y'all :)
 
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I never even stopped to think if she was a troll or not

but it seems you guys who say so are right

I just jumped in because of the general attitude of condemnation and judgement that certain people think passes for good advice

no good deed it seems

well, I'm a little more educated than yesterday

have a great day y'all :)
My last post on this. Christians can judge other Christians. It is a way we hold each other accountable. Now if you doing without love then you have issues. So stop saying we can't judge or we are wrong for judging. If you don't want to judge then that is a personal choice but don't act like it is a sin when we want to share the truth with someone who claims to be a Christian and is hurting their walk with the Lord with their actions.
 
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My last post on this. Christians can judge other Christians. It is a way we hold each other accountable. Now if you doing without love then you have issues. So stop saying we can't judge or we are wrong for judging. If you don't want to judge then that is a personal choice but don't act like it is a sin when we want to share the truth with someone who claims to be a Christian and is hurting their walk with the Lord with their actions.
the most interesting thing is, I never said don't judge...but all you judgers took it that way because that is what you do

my first post simply said don't gang up on her

apparently, I hit a nerve right down the middle

let's put aside for the moment, that the op may very well be a troll

if the op was genuine, you folks need to learn to let the stuff thrown at you just wash off...instead, folks took offense

that is not an adult way or a Christian way to deal with folks needing counselling...thing is, most of you here are wannabe counselors...not equipped...so you take it personally

I have judged plenty in my lifetime and paid the price...God has dealt with me on that and will continue to do so I lsuspect

before someone judges, they need to go out with a heart that is humble before God and not fulll of indignation

people were so offended by the op's response....that is why I posted

I am not sure you will understand even yet what I am saying, so I won't answer again unless you have some questions

I don't know how I could be clearer...frankly, even my posts were taken as offensive and they were not

so, you know...can't help someone who (by the way I don't mean you personally) thinks that judging is a God given right to Christians to baste others in their sins with

that's it that's all
 
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but don't act like it is a sin when we want to share the truth with someone who claims to be a Christian and is hurting their walk with the Lord with their actions.
you think that is what I was doing?

I don't act...I might react from time to time...but I'm not an actor

sharing the truth? first go and learn about HONEST judgement then come on back and teach me
 
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So when we are sinning, it is God's plan? Please explain that.

I'll just be blunt here and expect another sucker punch (not from you)

anyone who believes sin or sinning is included in God's plan, needs to re-read the Bible from Genesis 1 on

there are a number of people on this board who seem to think it is God's will if a child gets run over by a car

they should also study the words redemption and salvation
 
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the most interesting thing is, I never said don't judge...but all you judgers took it that way because that is what you do

my first post simply said don't gang up on her

apparently, I hit a nerve right down the middle

let's put aside for the moment, that the op may very well be a troll

if the op was genuine, you folks need to learn to let the stuff thrown at you just wash off...instead, folks took offense

that is not an adult way or a Christian way to deal with folks needing counselling...thing is, most of you here are wannabe counselors...not equipped...so you take it personally

I have judged plenty in my lifetime and paid the price...God has dealt with me on that and will continue to do so I lsuspect

before someone judges, they need to go out with a heart that is humble before God and not fulll of indignation

people were so offended by the op's response....that is why I posted

I am not sure you will understand even yet what I am saying, so I won't answer again unless you have some questions

I don't know how I could be clearer...frankly, even my posts were taken as offensive and they were not

so, you know...can't help someone who (by the way I don't mean you personally) thinks that judging is a God given right to Christians to baste others in their sins with

that's it that's all
And That is the reason the trolls come trolling. If everyone responded without taking offense and in Love it would be no fun to troll.
 
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And That is the reason the trolls come trolling. If everyone responded without taking offense and in Love it would be no fun to troll.
yup :)

they just love the warring Christians and mud-slinging
 

blue_ladybug

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Personally, I agree with a post that kayla made, about how she's sick and tired of people coming on here, airing their dirty laundry, asking for help, then getting mad at US for trying to offer advice and opinions. If they don't want advice, then they shouldn't air their personal problems!! Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between a troll's bs and a genuine person's plea for help, even if they don't want advice. There's so many whiney butts who come here and get offended at the first hard truth that comes their way.. :mad:
 
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Txroads

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So it wasn't nothin but a troll............ (deep sigh)........... That's what gets me in trouble every time.......dont you just wanna quit sometimes..... Ugh........
 
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Personally, I agree with a post that kayla made, about how she's sick and tired of people coming on here, airing their dirty laundry, asking for help, then getting mad at US for trying to offer advice and opinions. If they don't want advice, then they shouldn't air their personal problems!! Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between a troll's bs and a genuine person's plea for help, even if they don't want advice. There's so many whiney butts who come here and get offended at the first hard truth that comes their way.. :mad:
kayla is a gentle soul...further, she does not get all huffed up and self-righteous

I basically agree with that post as well
 

blue_ladybug

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kayla is a gentle soul...further, she does not get all huffed up and self-righteous

I basically agree with that post as well

I'm talking about the ones who ask for advice, then get mad when it isn't what they want to hear. It happens here at least 98% of the time..
 
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I'm talking about the ones who ask for advice, then get mad when it isn't what they want to hear. It happens here at least 98% of the time..

yeah yeah

got it LOL!

just stick 'em all under a bridge...when it gets crowded, maybe they will move downstream