The reconciliation thread.

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JosephsDreams

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Coby, I can't see how you may have offended anyone, but then again, we can all have our days I guess.
 
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This has to be the fakest, most insincere apology I've ever heard. That's just placating her and being condescending IMO..
I think that was her point in writing that "example" apology that way. LOL
 
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kaylagrl

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I didn't read it all that well. You said Kayla said nothing accusing, but she did. It annoyed me too. It's the same as the pants thread. You accuse someone and then wonder: what did I do wrong? I bet Magenta wears tight jeans too. Her pastor wears jeans. It's the accusations and judgements that I think irritated her too.
It's like you have a thread about a pastor who is a legalist and teaches real evil stuff, then you all say oh that's bad and then I say: look at that suit he wears. It's way too strict. You can't wear that. If you wear that you're not a christian and you have a legalism demon. You happen to wear the exact same suit, tell me it's nonsense and I say yeah but don't you agree that pastor is bad? I wasn't talking about you.


Quote "You said Kayla said nothing accusing, but she did. It annoyed me too. "

No,Kayla did not say anything accusing. And you were annoyed for your own reasons. This is a reconciliation thread and you are maligning me behind my back. Where did I accuse her?


Quote " I bet Magenta wears tight jeans too. Her pastor wears jeans. It's the accusations and judgements that I think irritated her too."

Nor did I accuse Magenta or say anything about her jeans.


Quote "Never said she wasn't a Christian,nor that she couldnt wear it. I said it was too tight and inappropriate and if she wore a long shirt it would have been fine.

Quote " you have a legalism demon"

The Bible talks about modesty. And there is no such thing as a legalism demon.


 
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kaylagrl

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​Forget about pm'ing ME.. Magenta is who you need to pm.. I ain't gonna apologize to her for you. That's YOUR duty. :)
He doesn't need to apologize. Not for that thread anyhow.He didn't say anything wrong. He backed me and Magenta got upset.
 
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coby2

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Quote "You said Kayla said nothing accusing, but she did. It annoyed me too. "

No,Kayla did not say anything accusing. And you were annoyed for your own reasons. This is a reconciliation thread and you are maligning me behind my back. Where did I accuse her?


Quote " I bet Magenta wears tight jeans too. Her pastor wears jeans. It's the accusations and judgements that I think irritated her too."

Nor did I accuse Magenta or say anything about her jeans.


Quote "Never said she wasn't a Christian,nor that she couldnt wear it. I said it was too tight and inappropriate and if she wore a long shirt it would have been fine.

Quote " you have a legalism demon"

The Bible talks about modesty. And there is no such thing as a legalism demon.


Read back what you wrote. If you think that's normal I don't care.
 

blue_ladybug

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He doesn't need to apologize. Not for that thread anyhow.He didn't say anything wrong. He backed me and Magenta got upset.

He WANTS to apologize to her. I was referring to the thread where Brittany asked YOU to apologize to me for HER. I told her don't ask kayla to do what YOU wanted to do. Thus my comment, saying that I wasn't going to apologize to Magenta FOR BrotherJustin. :)
 
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coby2

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Quote "You said Kayla said nothing accusing, but she did. It annoyed me too. "

No,Kayla did not say anything accusing. And you were annoyed for your own reasons. This is a reconciliation thread and you are maligning me behind my back. Where did I accuse her?


Quote " I bet Magenta wears tight jeans too. Her pastor wears jeans. It's the accusations and judgements that I think irritated her too."

Nor did I accuse Magenta or say anything about her jeans.


Quote "Never said she wasn't a Christian,nor that she couldnt wear it. I said it was too tight and inappropriate and if she wore a long shirt it would have been fine.

Quote " you have a legalism demon"

The Bible talks about modesty. And there is no such thing as a legalism demon.


Behind your back? In your face. You can read this I suppose.
I'm trying to reconcile Magenta and BrotherJustin. I stand up for her, after yesterday she was accused by who I hope is a troll for being a viper woman, then she bumped in today again. accusing her.
You accused Paula White, Benny Hinn and all women who wear tight jeans, 'lets talk about Dutch christian ladies' (oh so the ones who wear tight jeans aren't christian), Magenta posted a pic with stop accusing people and you started to accuse her.
 

JosephsDreams

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In my innocent voice,"I wear tight jeans." But seriously I do, because I have been lifting weights and I gained about 15 pounds in the last few months and now I need new jeans...

Okay, interruption ended, carry on...
 

PhnxPr2416

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If I ever accidentally insult, or annoy someone here on CC, feel free to PM me about it. I'm just saying. I tend to like the people of CC. I know I can't be friends with everyone, but I would like to at least not make things unnecessarily bad, if I can help it. I always feel like I have something to apologize for(and for all I know, I probably do).
 
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kaylagrl

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He WANTS to apologize to her. I was referring to the thread where Brittany asked YOU to apologize to me for HER. I told her don't ask kayla to do what YOU wanted to do. Thus my comment, saying that I wasn't going to apologize to Magenta FOR BrotherJustin. :)
Ya,I actually thought that once I had posted. After all the fuss my brain is slow mode. Nasty attitudes here and they're still not over it.
 
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kaylagrl

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Read back what you wrote. If you think that's normal I don't care.
I answered what you said so I dont know what you mean by not being normal. I'm not going to derail the OPs thread. If you were a pastors wife then forgiveness shouldn't be an issue for you. I didnt say anything about the jeans you were personally wearing.I was talking about Paula only. I said nothing about your picture. Now lets let it go and agree to disagree.
 
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kaylagrl

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Behind your back? In your face. You can read this I suppose.
I'm trying to reconcile Magenta and BrotherJustin. I stand up for her, after yesterday she was accused by who I hope is a troll for being a viper woman, then she bumped in today again. accusing her.
You accused Paula White, Benny Hinn and all women who wear tight jeans, 'lets talk about Dutch christian ladies' (oh so the ones who wear tight jeans aren't christian), Magenta posted a pic with stop accusing people and you started to accuse her.

Coby you aren't about to let this go. Magenta can well speak for herself. She doesn't need you running behind her attacking people. And no one asked you to reconcile them.I'm not responsible for her being called a viper woman. I accused her of nothing.I'm not guilty of any of that.She jumped me,not the other way round.

I said Paula white was inappropriate with tight jeans,and that IF SHE WORE A LONG SHIRT it wouldnt be inappropriate. I believe Hinn is a false preacher,yes I do and I stand by that 100% My parents know a man that had a brain tumor and thought if Hinn would pray for him he would be healed. His family called Hinns ministry and they said it would cost him several hundred dollars. He paid the money and went to have Hinn pray for him,he died a year later. If don't think there is something wrong with Hinn you dont know your Bible. As I said a pastor friend had him in and no one but his assistant could touch his jacket. He said the man was arrogant. On top of that go to Youtube and listen to what he preaches. If you still agree then you REALLY don't know your Bible. And Paula is the same way.I posted videos in that thread of her,in her own words,saying things against what the Bible teaches. Like Jesus isn't the only begotten son. So no,Im not going to back down to suit you. I'll stick with what the Bible says.

Secondly you totally misunderstood what I was saying about the video you shared. I only watched the first minute of it. I had watched the other video on how to treat a Dutch woman and it was clearly not talking about church people.It was tongue in cheek,humorous. So I was saying share a video of what Christian Dutch women wear. I assumed the second video was funny like the first you shared. I dont have a problem with jeans,never said I did. Nor did I say who wear tight jeans arent Christian. Thats YOUR words not mine! And I accused Magenta of nothing,you are dead wrong.I told her that from the picture she posted one would assume she was talking of prostitutes. Instead of her simply saying,"no,you misunderstood me" she ripped into me. Then when Brother Justin spoke up she tore into him. Your backing her because you're mad at me. Thats all. So enough of this now. Before this thread gets shut down. You have a grudge against me now,thats fine. But Im not arguing nonsense with you in every forum I go to. Its time to act like adults here if we cant act like Christians.
 
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coby2

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Coby you aren't about to let this go. Magenta can well speak for herself. She doesn't need you running behind her attacking people. And no one asked you to reconcile them.I'm not responsible for her being called a viper woman. I accused her of nothing.I'm not guilty of any of that.She jumped me,not the other way round.

I said Paula white was inappropriate with tight jeans,and that IF SHE WORE A LONG SHIRT it wouldnt be inappropriate. I believe Hinn is a false preacher,yes I do and I stand by that 100% My parents know a man that had a brain tumor and thought if Hinn would pray for him he would be healed. His family called Hinns ministry and they said it would cost him several hundred dollars. He paid the money and went to have Hinn pray for him,he died a year later. If don't think there is something wrong with Hinn you dont know your Bible. As I said a pastor friend had him in and no one but his assistant could touch his jacket. He said the man was arrogant. On top of that go to Youtube and listen to what he preaches. If you still agree then you REALLY don't know your Bible. And Paula is the same way.I posted videos in that thread of her,in her own words,saying things against what the Bible teaches. Like Jesus isn't the only begotten son. So no,Im not going to back down to suit you. I'll stick with what the Bible says.

Secondly you totally misunderstood what I was saying about the video you shared. I only watched the first minute of it. I had watched the other video on how to treat a Dutch woman and it was clearly not talking about church people.It was tongue in cheek,humorous. So I was saying share a video of what Christian Dutch women wear. I assumed the second video was funny like the first you shared. I dont have a problem with jeans,never said I did. Nor did I say who wear tight jeans arent Christian. Thats YOUR words not mine! And I accused Magenta of nothing,you are dead wrong.I told her that from the picture she posted one would assume she was talking of prostitutes. Instead of her simply saying,"no,you misunderstood me" she ripped into me. Then when Brother Justin spoke up she tore into him. Your backing her because you're mad at me. Thats all. So enough of this now. Before this thread gets shut down. You have a grudge against me now,thats fine. But Im not arguing nonsense with you in every forum I go to. Its time to act like adults here if we cant act like Christians.
No I don't have a grudge. Glad you cleared that up. Guess I misunderstood then. Magenta was just kicked in a corner and I stepped up for her like you stepped up for Blue.
 
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Reconciliation is about getting to a place where one can be non defensive and try to understand the other side. It isn't the battle that hurts people as much as it's the continuation of the war.
 

JosephsDreams

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That's cuz you never stick your neck out there. Maybe you are wise or afraid. I really cannot make a determination on that from here.
I thought his post was funny, actually, in the context of all his other 6 word posts. I got a good laugh from it.
But yeah, he may be smarter then most of us...
 
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coby2

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I thought his post was funny, actually, in the context of all his other 6 word posts. I got a good laugh from it.
But yeah, he may be smarter then most of us...
He's very wise.
 
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I thought his post was funny, actually, in the context of all his other 6 word posts. I got a good laugh from it.
But yeah, he may be smarter then most of us...
My brother in law is really quiet. I like that about him. When he has something to say it is usually pretty profound. I sort of think that way about the beardman.
 
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kaylagrl

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No I don't have a grudge. Glad you cleared that up. Guess I misunderstood then. Magenta was just kicked in a corner and I stepped up for her like you stepped up for Blue.
Ok thats fair.I did step in for Blue. I respect that. Lets let by gones be by gones. Btw way my aunt is Danish. Im not sure how close that is to you. She talks about all these dishes she makes that Ive never heard of and says how beautiful it is over there. She lives in Canada now but grew up there. Shes really funny too,sarcastic,she cracks me up. :)