When are contraceptives allowed?

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Elizabeth619

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o not true it is simply you making it an argument the fact of me saying you would saying i know you would take it out of context because every time the old testament is brought up thats what everyone says just because i predicted it doesnt mean im starting an argument and as for saying im attacking your opinion when have i. i have just been asking question mainly about you to see what kind of person you are
i just explained the ot thing.

also... one reason why i said i was backing out of the convo was because i was getting to harsh as well. I just told someone in PM if i cant debate nicely then i need to shut up....that is what i tried doing. Give me some credit here man.. lol
 
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wolfywolfs

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i just explained the ot thing.

also... one reason why i said i was backing out of the convo was because i was getting to harsh as well. I just told someone in PM if i cant debate nicely then i need to shut up....that is what i tried doing. Give me some credit here man.. lol
O debates always get heated stop being hard on yourself its the same as someone haveing a negative view of your opinion like my opinion on abortion is its up to the person freedom of choice. If the person had sex without protection they are idiots and I belive abortion shouldn't be an option after 12 weeks of pregnancy (basiclly after the cell stage). Now I bet you someone out the would proberly call me evil and other things for beliveing that and I don't care :)
 

Elizabeth619

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O debates always get heated stop being hard on yourself its the same as someone haveing a negative view of your opinion like my opinion on abortion is its up to the person freedom of choice. If the person had sex without protection they are idiots and I belive abortion shouldn't be an option after 12 weeks of pregnancy (basiclly after the cell stage). Now I bet you someone out the would proberly call me evil and other things for beliveing that and I don't care :)
I don't think you are evil, and I can see where and why people believe that way. I do not agree, and the reason why is I believe that the unborn has a soul from the moment of conception. So when am asked about certain situations where abortion may be looked at as "ok". I consider that child is human, and the decision should not be taken lightly.

Also, if someone sees you as EVIL then call them a Pharisee and move on... lol. (ok that was mean)
 
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wolfywolfs

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I don't think you are evil, and I can see where and why people believe that way. I do not agree, and the reason why is I believe that the unborn has a soul from the moment of conception. So when am asked about certain situations where abortion may be looked at as "ok". I consider that child is human, and the decision should not be taken lightly.

Also, if someone sees you as EVIL then call them a Pharisee and move on... lol. (ok that was mean)
I normally play along and go yes im an evil non believer run children before I steal your soul and sell them to buy video game muhahaha

O its fun to role play :p
 
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Bloodbought

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True but if its not the mothers fault I find it cruel to force her to carry around a reminder of her rape for nine months. Also I find it it cruel to make a mother birth a child that might kill her. So it depends who has more value a living breathing human being, or a cluster of cells that will in nine months be a living breathing human being
No baby is EVER a mistake- it is a gift of life, one that should be treasured at all costs. Isn't it amazing that these days those who commit murder have the right to life, but to kill an innocent baby (which is one at the moment of conception - I don't care what science says about it not being a human!) seems to be in fashion lately. I cannot accept the killing of an innocent child- I will not judge those who have had an abortion, that I believe is between them and their maker to sort out, but I cannot imagine that an abortion in the case of rape could help and let it all be forgotten. I think that mother will often have feelings of guilt, which satan will use in her future to cripple that mother with. We cannot spill innocent blood and expect to get away with it. Rape is one thing, as ugly and violent as it may be, but MURDER- that seems worse than the first.
The birth issue, these days the medical fields have so advanced, I think is would be wise to check first whether you will be able to carry a full term pregnancy, if you don't feel you want to do it by faith and go all the way, have yourself "fixed".
 

Nautilus

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Or you know life begins at birth since throughout the bible it describes the breath of life, and God breathed life into adam, indicating breath is a good sign of life. But lets only take bits and pieces of the bible...since life beginning at birth completely destroys the entire murder argument. Not to mention in hebrew the word rauch is used for breath and spirit and the greek equivalent for soul and spirit in pneuma...
 
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oracle2world

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Life is not cut and dried in each individual case. Sorry. There was the case of a teen with terminal cancer who had a chance to live longer, maybe even go into remission and live a long time. After getting pregnant, she stopped any further treatment, gave birth, and died a couple of weeks later.

What would you have done? She really did have a statistically significant chance of living longer through treatment.

Seems easy from a distance, but when your life is on the line, maybe not so easy.

Pregnancy through rape or incest, and aborting the pregnancy? Well, a woman was in a (very probably) permanent coma, gets raped by one of the caretaker attendants, gives birth. Did the girl's parents even think once of aborting the pregnancy? I rather doubt it. No matter how bad the circumstances, they did get a grandchild out of it (sorry if that sounds a little cynical).

I do not think we have to approve of everything, just understand there will always be circumstances whose results we can never fathom. These results can span a lot of time from the past into the future. (There are plenty of mundane examples of this happening.)
 

Elizabeth619

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Or you know life begins at birth since throughout the bible it describes the breath of life, and God breathed life into adam, indicating breath is a good sign of life. But lets only take bits and pieces of the bible...since life beginning at birth completely destroys the entire murder argument. Not to mention in hebrew the word rauch is used for breath and spirit and the greek equivalent for soul and spirit in pneuma...
The breath of life is in reference to God being the giver of life. Human life.
You keep using Adam as an example yet Adam was not born of woman. According to the bible he was formed as an adult male.
A body without a spirit is dead. A spirit without a body is incomplete. There is never one without the other. When a person dies, their spirit is no longer part of the physical body.
When a child is concieved it is obvious their is life due to the fact it grows in the uterus. Therefore there has to be a spirit/soul. There are even passages in the bible that shows that God considers and values the life of the unborn.

When Elizabeth was told that Mary was pregnant with Jesus, John the Baptist "leaped" in her womb. It is clear that he was filled with the Holy Spirit before he was even born.


Oh yeah, one more thing... since we all agree that God is the giver of life....shouldn't he be the one to "take" life as well?
 
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Ugly

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Suppose it is in God' plan that a fetus be aborted. Please do not say God would not plan that. It's putting a limit on God. Suppose that the aborted fetus would be donated to stem cell research and that research from that single fetus provided enough information to save the lives of millions of children who are/would have suffered from CP.
This gave me a chuckle. You ask a question, then tell me i can't give the answer i want to give. Guess what, i'm going to give it anyways. God would not plan to murder an unborn human. If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question.
And no, absolutely not, that is not putting 'God in a box'. Declaring wrong as wrong and sin as sin is not putting God in a box.
 
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smithbr8

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This gave me a chuckle. You ask a question, then tell me i can't give the answer i want to give. Guess what, i'm going to give it anyways. God would not plan to murder an unborn human. If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question.
And no, absolutely not, that is not putting 'God in a box'. Declaring wrong as wrong and sin as sin is not putting God in a box.
Why? Why is it wrong? Why would God never "kill an unborn human"? What happens with stillbirths or miscarriages? Not trying to argue, just God does... I mean it happens all the time.
 

Elizabeth619

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Why? Why is it wrong? Why would God never "kill an unborn human"? What happens with stillbirths or miscarriages? Not trying to argue, just God does... I mean it happens all the time.
A stillbirth and miscarriage is different than a forced abortion. When a person intentionally eliminates a pregnancy there lies the issue. A child dying in the womb spontaneously is something a woman has no control over.

Also, if someone does have an abortion and later on regrets it and see it is a sin and asks for forgiveness then God forgives them and the sin is wiped away.
 
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smithbr8

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A stillbirth and miscarriage is different than a forced abortion. When a person intentionally eliminates a pregnancy there lies the issue. A child dying in the womb spontaneously is something a woman has no control over.

Also, if someone does have an abortion and later on regrets it and see it is a sin and asks for forgiveness then God forgives them and the sin is wiped away.
But is a miscarriage God killing the child in the womb? That was my question with your post. You said God doesn't kill unborn humans. Is a stillbirth or miscarriage caused by God?
 

Elizabeth619

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But is a miscarriage God killing the child in the womb? That was my question with your post. You said God doesn't kill unborn humans. Is a stillbirth or miscarriage caused by God?

Ok let me rephrase it. You actually got me here! lol
God doesn't murder. God should never be "blamed" for anyone's death. Whether it is an unborn child or an elderly person. God also did not create our bodies to last forever, and we do not have control of how long we will be alive.
Is it fair for a woman to suffer a muscarriage? No. It isn't but I will never say "God did it."

Also, if you want to know why we actually have "death" it is because of sin. The sin of Eve. Because of this, sin entered in to the world.
 
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smithbr8

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Ok let me rephrase it. You actually got me here! lol
God doesn't murder. God should never be "blamed" for anyone's death. Whether it is an unborn child or an elderly person. God also did not create our bodies to last forever, and we do not have control of how long we will be alive.
Is it fair for a woman to suffer a muscarriage? No. It isn't but I will never say "God did it."

Also, if you want to know why we actually have "death" it is because of sin. The sin of Eve. Because of this, sin entered in to the world.
Ok, that makes more sense. I personally believe that miscarriages are caused by God, but not necessarily as a punishment...it's a grey area for me, but I understand where you're coming from. Thank you so much for clarifying :)
 

Elizabeth619

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Ok, that makes more sense. I personally believe that miscarriages are caused by God, but not necessarily as a punishment...it's a grey area for me, but I understand where you're coming from. Thank you so much for clarifying :)
No problem. I will try me best to answer the best way I can. You have some great questions, and eventhough I may "know" the answer I still see myself turning to the bible before responding.

One thing about death... God also comforts us. It is a hard thing to swallow that God "allows" someone we love so dear to leave us. No matter their age, but one thing I learned last year when I lost my sister was God was with me during tht horrible time. He still is. I may not see him, but I do "feel" him.
Also, my sister is with him now. Her physical body is gone, but her soul never died. It went home. To Heaven. And I will see her again one day. :)
Whether a baby is "aborted" or is miscarried I do believe the unborn has a soul. When the baby dies their soul goes back to God.