I agree with you and Utah .
I will say though that there are many ways in which to say one thing. Tact goes a long long way and it is an art to get ones point across in a graceful Christlike manner. Like I said, there are many ways to say the one thing we want to say. If we dont care how we are received, what good is what we said to the one whom we convey it to?
Its convenient to dismiss our approach to one characteristic of ourselves or another ie geography,upbringing, etc,.....that way we leave ourselves an escape goat instead of trying to change and surrendering to acting as Christ would have us act! The real truth of the matter is we are supposed to be NEW CREATIONS IN CHRIST. That is the reality of it right? Choosing ones words wisely has never gone out of style.
I think we all grow in grace if we surrender to it AND I also think that if we hesitated more frequently before responding, perhaps different perceptions would be formed . Dont claim Christ if you wont continue to work on controlling your tongue. Its pretty cut and dry! The tongue is the smallest weapon and the MOST damaging. We have the Lord to help us. That is HUGE!!
There will always be that opportunity to type what we want to say but it is forever there online(more importantly God is recording every idle word
) to see by all when we jump the gun and act like a heathen
I am preaching to the choir on this because I think we all (me included)need a friendly reminder to walk according to the spirit therefore demonstrating the fruit and to NOT walk in the flesh demonstrating the way of the world. $00.02
Heres some scriptures for us all to meditate on. Gods truth is the renewing of our minds. Praise God!
James 1:19
My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,
Proverbs 10:19
Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.
Proverbs 17:27
The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.
Proverbs 29:20
Do you see someone who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for them.