Hi Zoii,
First, I really appreciate the fact that you're drawing attention to some problems that are deeply entrenched in contemporary society, including the church -- various forms of gross sexual immorality, ranging from pornography to rape, pedophilia, and other evils. A crime like this pastor's should never be excused. And from what I can tell, no one on this forum has made an excuse for him, or defended him.
When cases like this come up, we need to respond to them in a Christian way. And how we ought to respond individually as Christians will depend on our place in life. So, first of all, you're correct that we should be concerned about the welfare of the girl(s) (and/or other victims). They need to be loved, counselled, protected, encouraged, and otherwise treated in a godly way. She probably also needs to be put in a position where her privacy is respected, as she is likely very humiliated right now despite the fact that she is not responsible for what happened.
And as for the man? We need to respond Biblically to him, too.
For instance, Biblically:
The civil government ought to try this man and, if found guilty, punish him for being a rapist. Biblically, the punishment for rape can be as severe as the death penalty. (Deut. 22:25-27) So a slap on the wrist isn't appropriate for his crimes.
The church government should be concerned with his soul -- his overall spiritual state. So, they should be seeking repentance from him or, if he refuses to repent after appropriate steps, excommunicating him in the hope that he will repent and return.
And Christian individuals, like us, are still required to love this man and seek his spiritual well-being. Of course, if he hasn't been turned in to the authorities we ought to do that, too. We should never protect him from the legal consequences of this sin, nor should we do anything that would enable him to harm additional people/children. But we are still obligated to love him, desire the best for him, hope that he repents and is restored to the faith, etc. Remember: Jesus came to seek and save the lost. This man needs Christ as well, and he'll only find Christ if there is someone willing to share the Gospel with him.
Thanks for bringing attention to this very serious and emotional case. It is important that we all take whatever steps we can to prevent predators from harming more children and young people.
Regards,
Hind Let Loose