WHO LIKES WHO?

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goth4god

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I didnt say love, I said crushes.... there is a difference. Love is deeper than a crush.
well all the girls I know that have crushes tend to obsess over the guy they like.
I admit I have had crushes, but I would just push it out of my mind rather quickly cuz I knew nothing would ever happen
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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crushes may be less then love, but I dont see them as a bad thing. I guess you might be talking about lust, but theres a huge difference between crushes and lust too.
 
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goth4god

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yeah, true, but most ppl I see crushes and lust go hand in hand
 
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Kay_Kay

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crushes... a fleeting emotional feeling that just strays ones thoughts from the Lord.
God created romance, chemistry, and crushes. I love men just as He created me to, so I will continue to enjoy my crushes.
 
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I have a crush on some of the men on the cooking channel.
 
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shanaynay-deleted

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I have a crush on the Holy Spirit. :)
 
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lol

And, no, I don't have a crush on anyone at the moment. A few times I've surprisingly felt that intimacy with a woman would be repulsive. I don't know how I was able to feel that, and I've tried to correct it, too. But, no, I'm not gay either. Intimacy with men would be far more repulsive.

There's one girl I was attracted to recently who was attracted to me, too. I know for a fact that she has a crush on me, because I've heard as much and she's actually told me that I was hot. But she's not a Christian. I told her right up front that I wasn't looking for a relationship right now and that even if I were I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't a very specific kind of Christian. So she knows my feelings about her, but she still has a crush on me. The heart does what the heart wills I guess. It's hard to control our feelings sometimes. I'm flattered, but I'm also worried for her because I've told her already I wasn't interested. And I'm sure as heck not going to budge.
 

Pheonix

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And, no, I don't have a crush on anyone at the moment. A few times I've surprisingly felt that intimacy with a woman would be repulsive. I don't know how I was able to feel that, and I've tried to correct it, too. But, no, I'm not gay either. Intimacy with men would be far more repulsive.

There's one girl I was attracted to recently who was attracted to me, too. I know for a fact that she has a crush on me, because I've heard as much and she's actually told me that I was hot. But she's not a Christian. I told her right up front that I wasn't looking for a relationship right now and that even if I were I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't a very specific kind of Christian. So she knows my feelings about her, but she still has a crush on me. The heart does what the heart wills I guess. It's hard to control our feelings sometimes. I'm flattered, but I'm also worried for her because I've told her already I wasn't interested. And I'm sure as heck not going to budge.
Perhaps you should explain your beliefs to her. Who knows maybe she'll come to believe what you do. Although instead of doing it in a preaching manner make it like a conversation. Though take any professions on her part with a grain of salt and wait and see if she really has come to believe. Her life will tell the truth. Don't make her think you'll come running if she makes a profession, that kind of change will just end up reversing later on.

A guy at work has run into that. His girlfriend changed for him. Before they met she smoked, drank, and took drugs. He was a christian so he says, they got married and now after almost two years, she's heading back to what she was before they met. She's started smoking, and drinking again. Needless to say they are having problems now.
 

QuestionTime

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I have a crush on some of the men on the cooking channel.
I had a crush on the star of the movie: "Enchanted." It's been a while since I saw that movie though.

While there is no woman in the real world like her, I wish there was. So innocent and always unafraid to share her feelings and always positive. I can't even remember all the reasons why I liked her. She just seems like what a woman ought to be.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRYU4cqUAUs

Maybe I'm just a crazy romantic...

Quest
 
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I think crushes suck because it implies that the person u have a crush on doesnt know how much u like them so by default it means that you are not the object of THIER affection. Which leaves you frustrated and desperate to make that deep connection with this person...and that sucks.
 
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christiancollegegirl

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I usually keep my 'crushes' to myself.
 
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jimmydiggs

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I had a crush on this 'Yard O' Beef'. I don't know why, but I ate this crush..... WHY!?!?!
 
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christiancollegegirl

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Is that like a 3 foot long Slim Jim???? That would be totally cool!!!
 
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shanaynay-deleted

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OMG ...as he bites his fist.. roflm:eek:o.. I soo love her! If ever woman had that freedom. Great hair too.

I had a crush on the star of the movie: "Enchanted." It's been a while since I saw that movie though.

While there is no woman in the real world like her, I wish there was. So innocent and always unafraid to share her feelings and always positive. I can't even remember all the reasons why I liked her. She just seems like what a woman ought to be.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRYU4cqUAUs

Maybe I'm just a crazy romantic...

Quest