i only dont understand this desire people have to be married...I enjoy being single and having a place all to myself. Its nice knowing if i want to come home and relax there is nothing stopping me, same as if i want to blast music and stay up til 6am on a friday night. I just cant see another person fitting into my life that seriously
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Oh, and you have scripture to back this up? 
I never read that one in the Bible before.
It's the Christian Female powerplay on Christian Men.. where a Christian woman imposes her ideal walk with God and how Christian Men should be on Christian Men.. holding them to there own standard of what it means to be a Christian. It's evident in your post here that you have a whole laundry sheet of opinions on Christian men.. just sayin'. The quote itself sounds like a 'fairytale' .
I never read that one in the Bible before.
It's the Christian Female powerplay on Christian Men.. where a Christian woman imposes her ideal walk with God and how Christian Men should be on Christian Men.. holding them to there own standard of what it means to be a Christian. It's evident in your post here that you have a whole laundry sheet of opinions on Christian men.. just sayin'. The quote itself sounds like a 'fairytale' .
Oh, and you have scripture to back this up?
I never read that one in the Bible before.
It's the Christian Female powerplay on Christian Men.. where a Christian woman imposes her ideal walk with God and how Christian Men should be on Christian Men.. holding them to there own standard of what it means to be a Christian. It's evident in your post here that you have a whole laundry sheet of opinions on Christian men.. just sayin'. The quote itself sounds like a 'fairytale' .
I never read that one in the Bible before.
It's the Christian Female powerplay on Christian Men.. where a Christian woman imposes her ideal walk with God and how Christian Men should be on Christian Men.. holding them to there own standard of what it means to be a Christian. It's evident in your post here that you have a whole laundry sheet of opinions on Christian men.. just sayin'. The quote itself sounds like a 'fairytale' .
Second of all, to say that it is a 'fairytale' shows that you know little about the heart of God. A father protects his daughter, is the one that the man should go to in order to marry her, and should teach her her value. Would you expect anything less from our Heavenly Father?
To me, any person that dismisses this quote has no right to my heart. The Bible says that we are to love Christ above father and mother and spouse and friends and children...in other words, to love Him above ALL others. This is part of what it means to hide your heart within His.
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“Set your mind on things above, not on the things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” Col. 3:2-3
This quest for a hidden heart in Christ results in a set apart lifestyle that is lived differently than those who are in the world. We don’t (shouldn’t) act, dress, talk, or behave like the world, because we don’t seek the things the world seeks. We seek that which is above – that is Jesus our Lord and the virtues He bestows.
Our hearts seek no one else for the happiness we find in Jesus. And if it be His will, He blesses us with an earthly man who can represent to us Christ Himself in many ways. For the woman whose heart is truly hidden in Christ is favored to receive a man seeking after God’s heart in all his ways – including finding her. (A Heart Hidden in Christ | In Love With Christ)
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My heart belongs solely to Christ Jesus. It is in Him that I find all my value, worth, purpose, direction, and all else that I need. My heart is planted in His, joined to His, and that will never ever change. No man on earth is worth losing my beloved Jesus.
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I see eye-to-eye with you on most things. This one I agree with what you're saying, and I also understand what Sunshine is saying too.
Let me explain: In a relationship, a man is the one to take the lead. Each party is equal, yes, but it is the man's job to set the pace. It's just the way God designed it. I'm not saying that the woman cannot say no, of course she can but at the same time, women respond to what the man does. Men lead and women follow. She is just as much at fault as he is, but I do see why women might see it this way. A guy that's got the right vibe and saying the right things can kinda bypass a woman's "scruples" (I think that's the word lol)
Let me explain: In a relationship, a man is the one to take the lead. Each party is equal, yes, but it is the man's job to set the pace. It's just the way God designed it. I'm not saying that the woman cannot say no, of course she can but at the same time, women respond to what the man does. Men lead and women follow. She is just as much at fault as he is, but I do see why women might see it this way. A guy that's got the right vibe and saying the right things can kinda bypass a woman's "scruples" (I think that's the word lol)
