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I was talking with some friends about loveless marriages today, both those who have been married to the same person for an extended period of time and those who have been through divorces and remarried, to see what they thought about it. Some of them had married very youth because they thought it was the thing to do..everyone else was doing it. Some got married due to a pregnancy. Some married the first person who asked. Some thought they had loved the person, but later found it was only infatuation. Some actually married the person they loved and were still very happily married. Some were Christians, some were not.
However, several of those who were Christians and non-Christians indicated that they married someone they did not love the first time and were far happier now. I asked them whether they thought this might be the cause of many divorces and infidelities and, after some thought, they indicated that they did.
We all know that in a perfect world Christians never divorce or commit adultery, but in reality the divorce stats of Christians are no better than those of non-Christians. I'm wondering if this, along with marrying because you "don't want to burn with lust" is a reason for many Christian divorces.
In the course of the discussions, someone brought up this song:
[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKWja2qDpRM[/video]
However, several of those who were Christians and non-Christians indicated that they married someone they did not love the first time and were far happier now. I asked them whether they thought this might be the cause of many divorces and infidelities and, after some thought, they indicated that they did.
We all know that in a perfect world Christians never divorce or commit adultery, but in reality the divorce stats of Christians are no better than those of non-Christians. I'm wondering if this, along with marrying because you "don't want to burn with lust" is a reason for many Christian divorces.
In the course of the discussions, someone brought up this song:
[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKWja2qDpRM[/video]
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