Maybe that narrows it down a bit more, but I still think it's hard to know if they aren't lying. But it's confusing since they also make a distinction between born-again Christians and other Christians, that's like saying Christians and fake Christians(who then, I suppose, aren't Christians) . Anyways...not to make it more confusing I believe that someone who really takes marriage as seriously as God does, wouldn't consider getting divorced so easily. Taking marriage seriously is a direct result of taking God seriously, in my opinion.