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Hi! Im almost 26. And im all in Gods hands. I need a men by my side but God have not sent one on my way. So i guess im here just to find friends 
God bless you all!
God bless you all!
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Sometimes he doesn't just immediately send them into your hands, but I agree that you will know when you meet them. I hope you are having a pleasant day.
A
Ive been single for 15 years till now I was so broken hearted and being cheated so many time...I was fooled and so in pain...I thank God for being there for my down moments and hardships...I know I cant move on or accept the things that are very hard to accept I thank God for helping me to move on....I also tried joining in a dating sites but still Ive encounter so many scammmers just asking for money and some fun and pleasure which is so ungodly and worldly...Still I am single but very much happy...being single does not mean your not happy there are so many things that a single person can do to make themself happy...to praise and worship God is one thing to make me happy....and make others person happy and to be a blessing to others.....so be happy...Ill pray for the right man for me....
A
Love this!! and same here regarding not being able to find men who reject all the worldiness ...I want a Jesus freak like me and they aren't out there... well they are but they are my kids ages LOL and um..no thank you!
and they aren't out there... well they are but they are my kids ages LOL and um..no thank you!
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C
I know this sounds weird.. but there is, but isn't a void?
I mean.. now that my son is living here with me and we are helping each other get on our feet, and my work is so heavy.there is not time to miss a relationship..
but there are times that I feel that void...not often but times
so it's both.. there is one but there isn't one
if that makes sense! God knows what He is doing let's put it that way but thank you!
I appreciate the encourage ment!!!
C
this is sweet!! and there is truth here..
I just know that when my kids were young.. my husband and I were such messes.. there was no time to be the mother I desired then..
I have that time now .. and honestly though you are right and my kids are not my companions, including my oldest who stays with me for the time being while I get on my feet and he gets on his, (he left when I divorced 10 years ago at age 18 and just last year came home... I was so happy!)
thought they aren't my companions.. I know God is in control and HE just doesn't have a man for me at this time..
and I am ok with that.. never ever thought I'd say that ...seriously..
I think I am one of the several token single women in my church and they are kind of our covering in a way..
though God ultimately is
I often think that I would not want to live alone forever.. however I feel like if love comes along and I'm like 70 or so..by then whats the point lol
I also think about what life will be like if God wills me to live at an older age, living by myself.. would I die alone?
those thoughts are sad so I just trust God to take care of my heart and it's desires and know He has the best plan for me
thank you again for the peace and blessings and the very sweet and sincere message that I truly understand
I just know that when my kids were young.. my husband and I were such messes.. there was no time to be the mother I desired then..
I have that time now .. and honestly though you are right and my kids are not my companions, including my oldest who stays with me for the time being while I get on my feet and he gets on his, (he left when I divorced 10 years ago at age 18 and just last year came home... I was so happy!)
thought they aren't my companions.. I know God is in control and HE just doesn't have a man for me at this time..
and I am ok with that.. never ever thought I'd say that ...seriously..
I think I am one of the several token single women in my church
and they are kind of our covering in a way..though God ultimately is
I often think that I would not want to live alone forever.. however I feel like if love comes along and I'm like 70 or so..by then whats the point
lolI also think about what life will be like if God wills me to live at an older age, living by myself.. would I die alone?
those thoughts are sad so I just trust God to take care of my heart and it's desires and know He has the best plan for me
thank you again for the peace and blessings and the very sweet and sincere message that I truly understand
C
Don't know about Wal-Mart but you don't think men actually go grocery shopping to buy groceries do ya?
Churches, Grocery Stores, Malls, and, yes, Laundry Mats..............chick gathering places...........hunters paradise!
Churches, Grocery Stores, Malls, and, yes, Laundry Mats..............chick gathering places...........hunters paradise!
HAHAHA..
ok so see? I heard one time that we should go to grocery stores on friday nights because that's where the men who have their kids on the weekend go to get groceries on those nights (this was a couple of years ago).. I thought that was too funny!!
but when I do go , first you don't know if the men are single and second, if a man was to even look at me.. I look away.. I don't even smile at them.I feel a smile obligates me to have a conversation and ..gosh I am just not sure what to do anymore
lol!!I just accept the fact that I am single and will be single..and I don't even try to mingle..
and I will NEVER chase a man..
Ladies , don't chase men!! hear?? and Men??? if a woman chases you? RUN!!!!! that is a doomed relationship.. Listen to me!
That's wisdom there! forill!Anyway yea my friends laugh at me cause I won't smile at a guy..
just too many variables ..
I think I'd rather meet someone on accident.. and just have a spontaneous conversation and I know it will be good timing.. and God will have it all planned if it's to happen so I don't even try
HI, Amy!
May I be permitted to say it openly, Amy?
Scammers are all over the world, it doesn´t matter the gender or their moment.
Online "facilities" serve people to approach to know those persons profilactically, without spending too much time in guessing WHO they are and how their real situation is, it be physically, mentally or economically.
Online people tend to cheat on more "easily" than personally, becasue you don´t monitor what they do in their privacy but, as you said, some want easy and fast sex, money, or make believe they still have some sex appeal (just by saying "they own a big company" or that they "travel a lot, several countries").
If those people are seeking an airplane ticket or a visa, they will tell you and, perhaps, the best person you needed is the one you despised more...
I hope that you don´t waste too much time to realize that it is too late: When a person reached his 53, there´s not too much time for dating (or having a new try).
May I be permitted to say it openly, Amy?
Scammers are all over the world, it doesn´t matter the gender or their moment.
Online "facilities" serve people to approach to know those persons profilactically, without spending too much time in guessing WHO they are and how their real situation is, it be physically, mentally or economically.
Online people tend to cheat on more "easily" than personally, becasue you don´t monitor what they do in their privacy but, as you said, some want easy and fast sex, money, or make believe they still have some sex appeal (just by saying "they own a big company" or that they "travel a lot, several countries").
If those people are seeking an airplane ticket or a visa, they will tell you and, perhaps, the best person you needed is the one you despised more...
I hope that you don´t waste too much time to realize that it is too late: When a person reached his 53, there´s not too much time for dating (or having a new try).
HAHAHA..
ok so see? I heard one time that we should go to grocery stores on friday nights because that's where the men who have their kids on the weekend go to get groceries on those nights (this was a couple of years ago).. I thought that was too funny!! but when I do go , first you don't know if the men are single and second, if a man was to even look at me.. I look away.. I don't even smile at them.
I feel a smile obligates me to have a conversation and ..gosh I am just not sure what to do anymore lol!!
I just accept the fact that I am single and will be single..and I don't even try to mingle..
and I will NEVER chase a man..
Ladies , don't chase men!! hear?? and Men??? if a woman chases you? RUN!!!!! that is a doomed relationship.. Listen to me! That's wisdom there! forill!
Anyway yea my friends laugh at me cause I won't smile at a guy..
just too many variables ..
I think I'd rather meet someone on accident.. and just have a spontaneous conversation and I know it will be good timing.. and God will have it all planned if it's to happen so I don't even try
ok so see? I heard one time that we should go to grocery stores on friday nights because that's where the men who have their kids on the weekend go to get groceries on those nights (this was a couple of years ago).. I thought that was too funny!!
but when I do go , first you don't know if the men are single and second, if a man was to even look at me.. I look away.. I don't even smile at them.I feel a smile obligates me to have a conversation and ..gosh I am just not sure what to do anymore
lol!!I just accept the fact that I am single and will be single..and I don't even try to mingle..
and I will NEVER chase a man..
Ladies , don't chase men!! hear?? and Men??? if a woman chases you? RUN!!!!! that is a doomed relationship.. Listen to me!
That's wisdom there! forill!Anyway yea my friends laugh at me cause I won't smile at a guy..
just too many variables ..
I think I'd rather meet someone on accident.. and just have a spontaneous conversation and I know it will be good timing.. and God will have it all planned if it's to happen so I don't even try
Hey, it can happen!!
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I enjoyed reading your statement and the way God, through Jesus, gave you a real relationship with HIM. I have never been married and do not have kids, so i could not understand your experience. But as a woman SEEKING GOD's will as a constant, i can relate with the position we are placed at times, with wanting to please others and justify it as being testimonies of God's life here on earth. It is hard to put JESUS first when you are trying to please the world. Once you die,the daily task, it becomes easier. So that i could understand,Tolive is in Christ and die is gain. Belive me that i know. But my best to you,in your fresh start with our Lord Jesus. I hope all is well. God bless.
C
I was at work on Thursday and one of my tasks was to collect some empty boxes because the instructors upstairs needed to pack their offices up because they are getting new carpet. Anyway, I went to the bookstore to ask if they had empty boxes and the manager took me in the back room where awaited me was about fifteen boxes. He asked if it would be easier with a hand truck and I said yes. He loaded it for me and told me that he would offer to take it down for me, but all of a sudden they got really busy so he ended up declining me. I told him that I appreciated the gesture and that meant a lot to me. Granted, he was too old for me but I guess like everyone is saying it could be everywhere.
Don't know about Wal-Mart but you don't think men actually go grocery shopping to buy groceries do ya?
Churches, Grocery Stores, Malls, and, yes, Laundry Mats..............chick gathering places...........hunters paradise!
Churches, Grocery Stores, Malls, and, yes, Laundry Mats..............chick gathering places...........hunters paradise!
D
Too afraid to try. The rejection of having an unfaithful and supposedly "Christian" husband has scarred me so. I busy myself with working 2 jobs and working for my church doing things - directing choir, worship team, playing keyboard and making all the slides. Sometimes I wish I mattered to someone, but the busyness fills the hours. It has been 5 years since the divorce and I have barely said "hi" to anyone. I think it is a part of my life that is just over.