Battle of the sexes

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Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the thing


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Oct 14, 2013
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#1
Women always worry about the things that men forget;
men always worry about the things
women remember



true or false
 
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rachelsedge

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I voted for all three options. Just to be a bum, but also because all three of them are true, with none of them being absolutely and solely true but true some of the time.

I'm sure that women do worry about the things that men forget and that men worry about the things women remember, but that's not all each gender worries about; there are gender specific worries that the other gender will never truly understand as well as just other things on their mind in general that don't always have to do with someone else.

So there's my answer, though really I don't understand the purpose of this in the first place...?
 
Sep 6, 2013
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#3
That about sums it up! I don't know for sure if men worry about the things women remember, but women probably do remember more than they should. :rolleyes:
 
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nw2u

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#4
Women always worry about the things that men forget;
men always worry about the things
women remember



true or false
Always, in this case is a lie. This is subjective.

False
 
Oct 14, 2013
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#5
hmmm in my country these questions are asked and some of my international friends ask the same


thank you
Is seem you are worriying right now hmm God said dont worry ok .
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#6
I would hope as Christian men & women there is no "battle of the sexes". That whole idea is pretty worldly based & just causes division based on the fact that God made man & women differently with specific traits. The thing we should be focused on is that we are all children of The Most High God,and that men & women need one another no matter what. We are helpers to one another,and that should be renewed in our minds and hearts daily.


(Another message brought to you by Captain Bringdown...we now return you to your thread already in progress) :)
 
Oct 14, 2013
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Hmmm women always worry about if the guy would remember their annerversery , birthday etc but most of the time men seem to forget . Hmmm at least the movies got something right though . Tell me if i am wrong on this ladies thank you . I am humblely learning still blessss
 
Oct 14, 2013
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I disagree then why are women battling to be pastors when the bible forbids it hmmmm just a thought
 

seoulsearch

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Maybe it's just me... but I'm always them most worried about the things that I can't remember... :)
 
Oct 14, 2013
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Thanks for all the ladies replies hmmm guys should take a note . ironically these things break up relationship because the guy failed to remember when they first met . but women cherish these more than men
 
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Jullianna

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#12
Worry is a waste of time
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#13
Thanks for all the ladies replies hmmm guys should take a note . ironically these things break up relationship because the guy failed to remember when they first met . but women cherish these more than men

I hate to break this to you,but I was married for 9 yrs & knew my ex-wife for a total of 11. In that time I remembered every important & unimportant date between us that we shared. Even doggie vet appointments...heck..if it weren't for me she'd have gotten fired from her job in the first 6 months she worked there,due to her not setting her alarm or sleeping through it.
Women don't cherish these dates more than men,it's just that men think every day is just as important as any other when they are with the woman they love! Hmmmppff! :p
 
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Relena7

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Hmmm women always worry about if the guy would remember their annerversery , birthday etc but most of the time men seem to forget . Hmmm at least the movies got something right though . Tell me if i am wrong on this ladies thank you . I am humblely learning still blessss
Maybe you should stop taking life lessons from movies. They are full of stereotypes.

As for your question, I imagine some of the time it is true, but not always. If the scenario were applied to me, I think it would not be a concern. Because I'm the type of person to mention that my birthday or any significant dates are near within a week of them happening (I'll bring it up as a conversation topic). If my guy had a terrible memory, he would hear me say it and have an easier time remembering. No big deal. Dates can be tricky and slip by. I have forgotten my own 5 year relationship anniversary this year. I remembered a day later, did a facepalm, and me and my guy laughed together over it and we just celebrated it a day late. It would have been extra special if we had remembered on the day.... but I didn't stress over it. It doesn't mean we don't love each other. =)
I am not offended if he doesn't remember my birthday without the help of Facebook. I might make fun of him a little though. :p
 
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CatHerder

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Mar 20, 2013
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hmmmm......I wasn't sure what was meant in the initial post, or the poll for that matter. But subsequent posts seem to be heading toward the stereotype of the woman being a faultfinding shrew who is difficult to please, and a bumbling man who is always screwing up. It is not a flattering picture of the man nor the woman.

Yes, I see that a lot..even in the church. But is this representative of the marriages within the church? Or even with marriages among unbelievers? Thankfully, no.
 
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FireWire

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#16
Matthew 6:34

[SUP] [/SUP]“So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
 

Fenner

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I forget a lot of things, I don't work full time so I have to remind myself what day it is sometimes and if it weren't for my husband I may never wake up to get my kids to school. I have a hard time waking up, so thankfully he will not stop until I'm up. I am grateful for that.
 
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KeeganGentle

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#18
I think men have life easier, we get sports, beer, fast cars ect And women get shoes and make-up:rolleyes:
 
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ServantStrike

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#19
Bwahahahaha.

Seoul your brand of self deprecating humor Cracks me up.

Is it bad if the thing we usually can't remember is some ones name? I do that one all the time. It gets embarrassing. Some Times I havr to
ask two or three times. Sometimes in the same conversation. ..


If we can't laugh at ourselves who can we laugh at?
 
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Ugly

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#20
Another gender debate thread full of generalizations.