Guys, what about girls MOST confuses you. And, girls? you got it ;)

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Ritter

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Jullianna said:
I don't think it's a myth :) Maybe it's a place to store what may seem inconsequential at the time, but at some point something within that box may become of importance or the stimulus for something greater.
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Oh it is. The waffles v. spaghetti system is a poor metaphorical depiction of male and female thought processes. I will design my own system, post it to my blog, and link to a thread on here sometime in the next year.

Speaking for myself, I know I don't have a nothing box because I'm always thinking about something. Then again I have some weird LD, so it might have trashed my ability to fit into a cozy gender stereotype.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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All of Ritter's sentences confuse me. Except for the ones that have small readable words in them. Like cat, dog it or the.
 
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Jullianna

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Ugly said:
This is likely all about the guy really likes you, but probably feels you are 'out of his league'. So he see's you, thinks about you, wants to be with you, gets around you, realizes how awesome you are and thinks 'oh crap, what am i doing, i could never make this person happy'. I can relate to that feeling. To be honest there are a number of women on this site i feel that way about. Though i don't believe i've taken it as far as how you were talking. In fact, i don't think most even know i have an attraction to them. But it no doubt would be very frustrating to receive that treatment, no matter what the reason.
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Ugly...you're awesome. I love the way your mind works (as well as your heart). [You really should change that nickname btw, as there is nothing ugly about you.]

THANK YOU for being one of those seemingly rare guys who understands how cruel it is to lead a lady on with whom you knowingly never intend to have a relationship for whatever reason. I can't begin to tell you how much I respect that.

Many guys who feel you are "out of their league" will indeed do this (and they're probably wrong btw). Guys who want virgin brides will do this to ladies who are not. It's just...selfish.

Thank you for posting this first. I've wanted to say it for quite some time, but I was concerned that it wouldn't be taken seriously coming from a lady. :)
 
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Ritter said:
Oh it is. The waffles v. spaghetti system is a poor metaphorical depiction of male and female thought processes. I will design my own system, post it to my blog, and link to a thread on here sometime in the next year.

Speaking for myself, I know I don't have a nothing box because I'm always thinking about something. Then again I have some weird LD, so it might have trashed my ability to fit into a cozy gender stereotype.
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Only a fool would attempt to stereotype you in any way.
 
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Jullianna said:
Only a fool would attempt to stereotype you in any way.
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Really? Cause i tried... im still trying right this second actually. I'll get back to you on my scientific sterotyping results. ;)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Ritter said:
I'll down a couple bottles of cough medicine before my next post. ;)
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That would be much appreciated :D

I may be able to make out what your saying then
 
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Jullianna

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
Really? Cause i tried... im still trying right this second actually. I'll get back to you on my scientific sterotyping results. ;)
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LOL I'll be counting the minutes until your post :)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
Really? Cause i tried... im still trying right this second actually. I'll get back to you on my scientific sterotyping results. ;)
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Why not just make it a thread open to everyone? "Stereotype Ritter" or "Notes toward an empirical definition of Ritter"
 
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I take full responsibility for this thread's derailment.
 
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megan89

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COMMUNICATION! pretty sure some men suck at it, yes i said some, i'm yet to go out with a guy that is good at it :(
 
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megan89 said:
COMMUNICATION! pretty sure some men suck at it, yes i said some, i'm yet to go out with a guy that is good at it :(
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I hate to say it, but men and women communicate very differently. Most men don't communicate well in the eyes of most women because of those differences. Part of the fun in life is learning to decode what the other gender is saying because although we may speak the same language, the way we use it is far from the same.
 
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Relena7

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I don't have any problems communicating with my boyfriend. He and I are best friends. :D:D
 
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Relena7 said:
I don't have any problems communicating with my boyfriend. He and I are best friends. :D:D
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And here we see how proper relationships transpire. Thank you, Relena.
 
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I am thinking about nothing now. Got nothing to saY. :D

And, I mean that, I got nothing. Did laugh at this thought.... oh, I guess I do got something. It's true. :)
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I have heard that guys seem to process a lot less verbally than women. Seems like it's true. I wish I could turn my brain off. LOL
 
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echelonlove said:
I have heard that guys seem to process a lot less verbally than women. Seems like it's true. I wish I could turn my brain off. LOL
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I think I must live in a strange land full of women who would rather have nothing better to do that be entertained and go shopping. Conversation and meaningful discussion are rare, if ever found here.

If its not shoes shiny or money related its hard to extract more than about a 5 word vocabulary.

I'm probably just an old bitter man with nothing better to do but rant about such things but still.
 
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Liamson said:
I think I must live in a strange land full of women who would rather have nothing better to do that be entertained and go shopping. Conversation and meaningful discussion are rare, if ever found here.

If its not shoes shiny or money related its hard to extract more than about a 5 word vocabulary.

I'm probably just an old bitter man with nothing better to do but rant about such things but still.
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I agree with this statement. You're not alone.
 
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Relena7

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Liamson said:
I think I must live in a strange land full of women who would rather have nothing better to do that be entertained and go shopping. Conversation and meaningful discussion are rare, if ever found here.

If its not shoes shiny or money related its hard to extract more than about a 5 word vocabulary.

I'm probably just an old bitter man with nothing better to do but rant about such things but still.
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Not all women like sticking to meaningless convo, material things, and being obsessed with shopping.

I'm not like that. I couldn't be if I tried.
 
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