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Well said, I kind of listened and understood what you said above but really clicked to the words below. I like the song that says 'I am crucified with Christ.' Beautiful truth.
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Nods,.BTW,.your small talk is beautiful.
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And, ritt? Got Nyquil?
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And julieannie, I take you much more as a long talker of talk and, it is beautiful too
Well said, I kind of listened and understood what you said above but really clicked to the words below. I like the song that says 'I am crucified with Christ.' Beautiful truth.
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Nods,.BTW,.your small talk is beautiful.
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And, ritt? Got Nyquil?
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And julieannie, I take you much more as a long talker of talk and, it is beautiful too
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I find it mildly disappointing when I catch someone doing something that I think conveys a sense of pure genius, only later to discover that it was just pure coincidence. Like seeing a woman wearing a 'Kierkegaard Exists' T-shirt, only to discover that she is doing it because she thought his hair was wild.
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Tell me (all you men) if this is a general male thing:
My love language is generally speaking acts of service. Im nearing the end of my degree this month then starting full time work in January. Im always super busy. BUT I cook for myself and my husband the majority of the week and I thoroughly enjoy it. Hes fantastic at doing really obvious cleaning jobs like taking out trash/recycling, doing the dishes, hanging out laundry. But when it comes to smaller less obvious jobs like cleaning certain areas in bathroom/toilet or remembering to keep the cupboard that keeps the plastic containers in a tidy condition hes average. Not dissing my husband at all, Im very grateful for the wonderful husband God has given me.
But Ive also been room mates with a couple of guys when I was at university and they were the same. Great with doing the dishes, but if theyd ever shave and leave their hair all over the sink they wouldn't do anything until I complained but then theyd hardly make it a priority. Also they seem to be fond of the idea that if "you can't see the mess then its not there" myth, example being not regularly cleaning the toilet rim, until it got so bad there was a permanent poo stain (shudder).
Is being detail orientated re cleaning kryptonite to men?
My love language is generally speaking acts of service. Im nearing the end of my degree this month then starting full time work in January. Im always super busy. BUT I cook for myself and my husband the majority of the week and I thoroughly enjoy it. Hes fantastic at doing really obvious cleaning jobs like taking out trash/recycling, doing the dishes, hanging out laundry. But when it comes to smaller less obvious jobs like cleaning certain areas in bathroom/toilet or remembering to keep the cupboard that keeps the plastic containers in a tidy condition hes average. Not dissing my husband at all, Im very grateful for the wonderful husband God has given me.
But Ive also been room mates with a couple of guys when I was at university and they were the same. Great with doing the dishes, but if theyd ever shave and leave their hair all over the sink they wouldn't do anything until I complained but then theyd hardly make it a priority. Also they seem to be fond of the idea that if "you can't see the mess then its not there" myth, example being not regularly cleaning the toilet rim, until it got so bad there was a permanent poo stain (shudder).
Is being detail orientated re cleaning kryptonite to men?
No, I think its a personality type thing.
The fact that you said that your love language was acts of service and that you are detail oriented means that you are probably a very good citizen, thorough and methodical with most things in your life. There are men like you, just as there are women who leave their hair and skin products strewn all over the bathroom like a war zone, surrounded by hair and skin debris, they see no error in being like this. Men and women both create sink abominations with miscellaneous dishes water and food left for the goblins to wash in the night, and since there are no dish washing goblins eventually someone does them.
I was in the Navy with a guy who used to Iron his underwear at 3 in the morning. He was the most methodical human being I know but, to the credit of his profession they tend to attract and promote those kinds of people.
The fact that you said that your love language was acts of service and that you are detail oriented means that you are probably a very good citizen, thorough and methodical with most things in your life. There are men like you, just as there are women who leave their hair and skin products strewn all over the bathroom like a war zone, surrounded by hair and skin debris, they see no error in being like this. Men and women both create sink abominations with miscellaneous dishes water and food left for the goblins to wash in the night, and since there are no dish washing goblins eventually someone does them.
I was in the Navy with a guy who used to Iron his underwear at 3 in the morning. He was the most methodical human being I know but, to the credit of his profession they tend to attract and promote those kinds of people.