How do you know when a date is going really bad?
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C
haha...
funny! Though, yawning can be just a sign of being tired, not bored.
you know when a date is going really bad when your date goes into the bathroom and doesn't come back (btw this has not happened to me )
""" when your date says that you just wear your eyeliner dark so that your eyes will look bluer (UGH! this did happen to me)
funny! Though, yawning can be just a sign of being tired, not bored.
you know when a date is going really bad when your date goes into the bathroom and doesn't come back
(btw this has not happened to me )""" when your date says that you just wear your eyeliner dark so that your eyes will look bluer (UGH! this did happen to me)
That is SO funny because once, many moons ago, I was signed up for Yahoo! personals and they sent me my matches and one of them was my brother. Yeah. You figure us both having the same last name and living in the same house would have tipped them off just a little bit. They need a better processing system. Ha ha.
Yeah. You figure us both having the same last name and living in the same house would have tipped them off just a little bit. They need a better processing system. Ha ha.
When they don't get your jokes or tell no jokes of their own.
When they messing with how they look every 3 seconds. Or talk about how everyone else looks in a condescending way.
When they are high maintenance, finicky, or fragile.
Complaining about their ex or they are just plain debbie downer about life. No optimism and no enthusiasm.
When they talk trash about the service wherever we go or they are rude to other people.
And if by the end of the date, I can't remember their name, Its my sign to myself that I am really not interested.
When they messing with how they look every 3 seconds. Or talk about how everyone else looks in a condescending way.
When they are high maintenance, finicky, or fragile.
Complaining about their ex or they are just plain debbie downer about life. No optimism and no enthusiasm.
When they talk trash about the service wherever we go or they are rude to other people.
And if by the end of the date, I can't remember their name, Its my sign to myself that I am really not interested.
K
When he says ''God told me to marry you''. Or pretty much if he says ''God told me....'' and it's not followed by a Bible verse or something Biblical.
If he starts talking about hoy many children he wants and how he likes his food prepared.
When he says ''Maybe my mom can tell you how I like my food''.
When he only wants to talk about himself and even turns a conversation about you into a conversation about himself. ''Oh that's so sad, that happened to me this other time!! I was with my friend and then....blah blah blah ME ME ME...''
When he orders your food for you. (That would be a huge turnoff for me. I know how to read the menu, thank you)
If he starts talking about hoy many children he wants and how he likes his food prepared.
When he says ''Maybe my mom can tell you how I like my food''.
When he only wants to talk about himself and even turns a conversation about you into a conversation about himself. ''Oh that's so sad, that happened to me this other time!! I was with my friend and then....blah blah blah ME ME ME...''
When he orders your food for you. (That would be a huge turnoff for me. I know how to read the menu, thank you)
When she doesnt take the menu off her face and giggles behind it... (this happened to me)
When she doesn't look anything like the photos she sent... "who are you?" (this happened to me)
When she answers with 1 to 2 word answers and then waits for you to fire more at her (yep!)
When she doesn't get your jokes, ask you to explain them to her, then laughs and laughs (yep it happened)
But those are nothing compared to the deal breaker....
When she tells you she doesn't like cookies... (never happened, whew!)
C.
When she doesn't look anything like the photos she sent... "who are you?" (this happened to me)
When she answers with 1 to 2 word answers and then waits for you to fire more at her (yep!)
When she doesn't get your jokes, ask you to explain them to her, then laughs and laughs (yep it happened)
But those are nothing compared to the deal breaker....
When she tells you she doesn't like cookies... (never happened, whew!)
C.
Z
That is SO funny because once, many moons ago, I was signed up for Yahoo! personals and they sent me my matches and one of them was my brother. Yeah. You figure us both having the same last name and living in the same house would have tipped them off just a little bit. They need a better processing system. Ha ha.
Yeah. You figure us both having the same last name and living in the same house would have tipped them off just a little bit. They need a better processing system. Ha ha.
I feel ya dawg, I feel ya
C
You had me laughing and nodding until the order the food thing..
you know how to open your car door too but you should never allow a man NOT to open the door.
If we ourselves make chivalry dead, then it will die.. please don't....I have only had ONE chivalrous date and he ended up
not liking to do it as time went on..so before any of you women kill it.. make sure the rest of us ladies are done with it!
Let the guy order for you if he asks what you want..there really is nothing wrong with that.. it's very chivalrous and gentlemanly..
but.. I would take umbrage at him cutting my food..that's going too far in the "taking care of me" mode
you know how to open your car door too but you should never allow a man NOT to open the door.
If we ourselves make chivalry dead, then it will die.. please don't....I have only had ONE chivalrous date and he ended up
not liking to do it as time went on..so before any of you women kill it.. make sure the rest of us ladies are done with it!
Let the guy order for you if he asks what you want..there really is nothing wrong with that.. it's very chivalrous and gentlemanly..
but.. I would take umbrage at him cutting my food..that's going too far in the "taking care of me" mode
K
You had me laughing and nodding until the order the food thing..
you know how to open your car door too but you should never allow a man NOT to open the door.
If we ourselves make chivalry dead, then it will die.. please don't....I have only had ONE chivalrous date and he ended up
not liking to do it as time went on..so before any of you women kill it.. make sure the rest of us ladies are done with it!
Let the guy order for you if he asks what you want..there really is nothing wrong with that.. it's very chivalrous and gentlemanly..
but.. I would take umbrage at him cutting my food..that's going too far in the "taking care of me" mode
you know how to open your car door too but you should never allow a man NOT to open the door.
If we ourselves make chivalry dead, then it will die.. please don't....I have only had ONE chivalrous date and he ended up
not liking to do it as time went on..so before any of you women kill it.. make sure the rest of us ladies are done with it!
Let the guy order for you if he asks what you want..there really is nothing wrong with that.. it's very chivalrous and gentlemanly..
but.. I would take umbrage at him cutting my food..that's going too far in the "taking care of me" mode
, and I have mentioned before here in the forums that I love chivalrous men. But I don't see why ordering for me would be chivalrous. I was talking more about the lines of him deciding for me instead of letting me decide what I want to eat. That would be rude to me. If he asks me what I want and THEN orders for me, no problem but if he goes ahead and orders without asking me then we have a problem! That hasn't actually happened to me, but I've heard of men who do this, so I thought I would put it out there haha.