How social are you in real life (offline)? (An anonymous pol)

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How social are you in real life? (anonymous pol)

  • Very social - love being around other people and socializing

    Votes: 20 19.2%
  • Somewhat social - love socializing but only with people i know

    Votes: 20 19.2%
  • Socially neutral - equally likes socializing and alone time

    Votes: 26 25.0%
  • Somewhat private - like to socialize only occasionally

    Votes: 28 26.9%
  • Very private - always prefers alone time to socializing

    Votes: 10 9.6%

  • Total voters
    104
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Tintin

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#81
No, that's not cool at all. Please keep in mind that this is a discussion forum and sms speech isn't used here.
 
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Daphy_D

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#82
No, that's not cool at all. Please keep in mind that this is a discussion forum and sms speech isn't used here.
Opps sorry...bad habit,I'll work on that
 
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Tintin

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#83
Thank you, I appreciate that you'll make the effort.
 
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Jane1

Guest
#84
I was social, but not anymore due to workload
 
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vikash

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#85
I wasn't social from start, but since i got saved and started visiting church, i started meeting people on regular basis and it was kind of good experience. I notice a really big difference in people from the church and the people in the world. Now i m completely social with everyone and often talk to unknown people to share good news.
 
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Esarin

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#86
I am not really shy and do love to interact with people, but I value my "me" time. I am usually the one that walks up and initiates conversation, but sometimes I like to hang back and watch. I like to read people.
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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#87
As some others have said, I used to be very social. Then some life events have made it so that I am more on guard. I'd say where it stands it is quite difficult to get me to open up and I have become a lot more introverted. I think I would become an extrovert again though if I had some close friends.
 
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arwen83

Guest
#88
I am pretty sure most of us on CC are introverted. Introverts tend to flock to the internet for their social life when they are in the mood for it.
 

DuchessAimee

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#89
I'm social, but I don't like to have 50 "close" friends. When I get home from work, I don't want to be social with more than a few people, if that many. I'm a people watcher, so I'll be quiet at first while I study the group of people I'm in. In the past, I used to wait for everyone to come to me, and now it's probably 50/50. Unless I just met you... then I tend to want you to initiate contact the first few times.
 
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gentlekat

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#90
depends on my mood, sometimes i get super chatty, other times i just want to be left alone. Terrible i know am trying to work on it...
 
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#91
I'm somewhat social I'm really shy so I don't talk to people that I don't know that much when I go out. When I'm introduced to someone I'm shy and don't talk much and then once you get to know me I talk alot and like to give hugs to all my family and friends hahahaha.
 
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Powemm

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#93
We may have grown since then zero :)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

Guest
#94
It's hard work being around other people. I feel like i can't relax. (With my family being the exception)
My sister is my best friend. Were only 1 year apart. I am very social when it comes.to being around her. I have lots of friends, but i'm not as much of myself with them.
 
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Powemm

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#95
Well I'm discovering I suck at socialability on the net .lol
actually though , I really love watching people interact.. I am quiet around most people anyway until I've observed them or im forced to interact because there up in my face .. and as all can tell I fall a lot , but oh well that's just me .. And part of lip service .. A good mirror I suppose to check ones weaknesses and lord knows I do have a lot of them.. So ya zero, I've grown
A little bit .. Taking a look at ones self isn't the funest thing to do.. I'd rather look at your flaws instead :), much easier dontcha think? ;p. nah it is necessary if it's worth where you want to go and who's working inside you..
Thanks for tollerating our little growth spurts. Lol
 
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Greeneyed_Cajun

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#96
I'm totally different in real life. Online I tend to be more opinionated and willing to chit chat. In RL I'm really quiet and reserved. I'm a listener. I already know what I believe and what I think. I like to hear what other people think and learn about what they believe. People often take my reserved nature for being cold and standoffish. They assume I'm just unfriendly. I'm not. It's just my nature.
 
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#97
unfortunely i am anti social..so i cannot even speak to anybody..it is very lonely being like this. :)
 
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OceanGrl

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#98
I'm pretty social in real life if I'm with people I'm comfortable with and know. I'm also good with customers, but when it comes to hanging out with people I don't really know, then I get pretty quiet and reserved.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#99
I'm pretty social in real life if I'm with people I'm comfortable with and know. I'm also good with customers, but when it comes to hanging out with people I don't really know, then I get pretty quiet and reserved.
..but in all honesty..really...you do find it hard to contain all yer' awesomeness don't you? You can tell us..we're all family. lol
 
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Powemm

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I pop in and out .. usually around more than not