I like to take introverts fishing. Its a good deal for both of us.
I'm an Extrovert but, I know that I can be really intense.
Not in a blah blah blah talk talk talk kind of way, just in a "I'm going to make you think and feel and do things."
(Think Aladdin, "Hey if we take the carpet 5 hours that way, wanna see how far we can go before we have to turn around?
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But I also have much better boundaries about this than I did when I was younger. I had a bestie was an INTJ and we did a lot of stuff together but after awhile, they would pull out a book or go workout or study or something that didn't require exploration or creative interaction. Even on a road trip, there were stretches where we didn't need to talk or do anything at all, just simply be. Thats cool.
Most people think extroverts are all ESFPs...
Thats load, centre of attention, obnoxious, boisterous, party oriented people who love being in the middle of it all.
Newp, not I said the fly.
I don't mind standing in front and giving a speech or teaching or performing but, I have a bubble too. I'm not much of a stranger hugger.
I have the big "E" but I need time to process plan and extract a purpose. This usually involves a lot of reflection, study and me time.
The OP mentioned entertaining. I find this stressful too and a tax. Some people were born to fulfill social obligations, also not me (said the flea). Not big on fancy get togethers at my place. You wanna come over, sure but, if you want a big production or even me to come to yours, it flips a duty switch, like having to mow the lawn.
I'm quiet at home but, I don't like being alone.
Also I can't play solitaire or long boring 1 player games. If I'm trying to have fun and it doesn't involve other people somehow, I'm going to have a bad time.
But my opinions and views reflect most of the ENFPs that I've met and am friends with.