I am very outgoing when I want to be or need to be. I am comfortable pretty much in any size group of people. Much of this might stem from when I was younger & played drums in various bands & in my old church for 8 yrs. I have always been in front of people it seems,and because many people find me funny or engaging to talk to at times..I admit & can be draining at times.
I never like feeling that pressure that I have to "be" something for someone 24/7. When I was married,it was nice because my ex-wife was very introverted,quiet for the most part around strangers,and wasn't quick to speak. So she was a good balance to what I am. I personally don't have a preference in the type of person I would date or marry,other than the fact that they must be a good communicator,or at least willing to try. I expect this in my close friends as well. Maybe this isn't realistic,but I think those are the types I am drawn to seek out to have in my life.
I find my best introverted moments are just when no one is around & turning up the music...& just absorbing all of it. Sometimes I feel music is so intimate for me,that I don't even want to share it with anyone else. lol kinda silly,I know.
I guess that's also why I'm not big on bible studies. I like talking about the bible with others,sure...but many of the times I find I learn more,or feel as though I can hear God better through His word,when I'm not listening to what my friend thinks this or that scripture means.
Sorry..I think I've gone off the main OP's topic. laffin