Most polite way to ask the Girl out

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MartyrNdaMaKn

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Asking them out is overrated. I would say if your fond of someone, just club them over the head and drag them on a date. But, that is just me.
 
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Roh_Chris

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To be fair, if I saw a bear riding a horse I would probably crap my pants, and I'm a dude.

I mean, it would be proof that the bears had finally organized.

What? I didn't know we are scary! :eek:
I mean, we are warm and furry and huggable.. right? :(

Confidence? I'm working on it, brother.
Do that, brother. Praying for ya. Look around for any horses that you can ride on. Or rhinos. Or even elephants. But kangaroos are outdated, sadly.

You could hit her over the head with a club and then drag her back to your cave and see if she likes your cave paintings.

Oh wait, you said the polite way? Hmmm...
Swinging a club seems a bit brutal to me. Can he use a fishing line with a bait?
 
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Tintin

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What? I didn't know we are scary! :eek:
I mean, we are warm and furry and huggable.. right? :(



Do that, brother. Praying for ya. Look around for any horses that you can ride on. Or rhinos. Or even elephants. But kangaroos are outdated, sadly.



Swinging a club seems a bit brutal to me. Can he use a fishing line with a bait?
Oh, man. Now you're speaking my language! I would love to ride a rhino. So romantic! Thanks for the prayers. :)
 

Roh_Chris

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Oh, man. Now you're speaking my language! I would love to ride a rhino. So romantic! Thanks for the prayers. :)
You betcha. Rhinos would be so cool to ride. You just have to be careful that he doesn't step on your lady.

"Hi there, pretty lady."

*Squishhhhh*

"Bye, pretty lady. I will miss you!"
 
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Jacob_Fitzgerald

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Ride up on a white horse - tip your wide brimmed hat - and say "I'd be much obliged if you would join me for a picnic ma’am :D
 

Lynx

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I knew someone would mention the club method in this thread, but it took longer than I thought. Usually someone suggests clubbing the woman over the head within the first five posts. Y'all are slacking...
 
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ServantStrike

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I knew someone would mention the club method in this thread, but it took longer than I thought. Usually someone suggests clubbing the woman over the head within the first five posts. Y'all are slacking...
Or we're slowing down in our old age maybe?


CC singles - where we're all getting too old for this crap, but not really.
 

seoulsearch

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Or we're slowing down in our old age maybe?


CC singles - where we're all getting too old for this crap, but not really.
I'm thinking of nixing the club altogether and utilizing those big nets that launch into the air instead. Totally. Worth. My allowance money for the next two months.
 

Test_F_i_2_Luv

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Asking them out is overrated. I would say if your fond of someone, just club them over the head and drag them on a date. But, that is just me.
...I was wondering why we guys have to be "polite" about asking a gal out, too!

I wanna be assertive when I approach a gal to ask her out.

I'd probably suggest a baseball game, instead, though. :p
 

Test_F_i_2_Luv

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You probably wouldn't want to be IMpolite. It isn't usually recommended. :p
That's why we go "assertive". Ask with confidence! ;)

It's probably something I'd do in person, but I can't narrow out being IM-polite if I have to do it in cyberspace.

 
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Arlene89

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I have to say, if you like someone, just ask them out. Straight out, plain and simple. And if they say 'no', you know what? Your self-worth doesn't suddenly deplete and you're no lesser of a person. In between us and the best things in life, such as falling in love, or pursuing our dreams, is this thing called fear of rejection.

But fear of rejection is utterly stupid and has snuffed out so many moments, memories, dreams and blessings that I think we should not give it any more of our lives or time of day and instead be courageous and be bold.

I haven't been pursued by a man in 6 years, and you know what? I would really like to remember what that felt like (maybe not in this season, I think if someone tried, I might vomit on their feet). Admittedly, this is mostly my fault for being impatient and never allowing the room for a man to pluck up the courage to rise to the occasion, but it is okay to have feelings for someone and it is okay to voice them, and even if those feelings are not reciprocated, then that's okay too, you're still valued and loved and celebrated over, remember who you are and move on.

I may be ranting because there's some issues I need to have resolved, but hey, take this lady's rants and do with it as you will!
 
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Arlene89

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* As in, all the relationships and dates I have been on for the past 6 years has been because I pursued the guy, rather than having the guy take the first step or ask me out etc.
 

zeroturbulence

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I don't fear rejection. I fear the "will-someone-please-just-kill-me" embarrassment that comes with it. :p
 

Lynx

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* As in, all the relationships and dates I have been on for the past 6 years has been because I pursued the guy, rather than having the guy take the first step or ask me out etc.
So, Arlene... What ya doing this Saturday night? :D

I know, I know... hush Lynx.
 

Lynx

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Sorry Tintin. I knew it wouldn't be taken seriously for age and location disparities, but I didn't think about you reading it. Apologies.
 

JesusLives

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I knew someone would mention the club method in this thread, but it took longer than I thought. Usually someone suggests clubbing the woman over the head within the first five posts. Y'all are slacking...
Oh, I get it the walk softly and carry a BIG STICK method.........
 
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Tintin

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Sorry Tintin. I knew it wouldn't be taken seriously for age and location disparities, but I didn't think about you reading it. Apologies.
Lynx, I knew you weren't serious. I was thinking more about her reaction to the joke. Thanks, mate.