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Jullianna

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Where are these women's dads? Seriously, I would think if any woman had respect for herself she wouldn't be throwing herself out there like a piece of meat to a pack of wolves.

"Here I am, now destroy me!"

Number one, my daughter will not dress that way, I'm going to raise her to know better, and I know for a fact her mom is going to raise her to know better.
Number two I can guarantee you any horny pervert who sees my daughter walk down the road and whistles at her is going to be breathing out of a tube for a week.

Women need to respect themselves enough to dress decently and guys need to start treating ladies with a level of respect. Fact.
I've always wanted a daughter, but she probably would have hated me for a few years. I would have been much like my stepdad I think. :)

He would say stuff like:

- (re: short skirts) Ya jumped in that a lil too far, huh? Try again..
- (re: tight jeans) Didja use my pliers to zip those up? Try again..
- (re: too much makeup) Get in there and wash that #%$ off, young lady

I love him for it now. :)

Ladies, if you wanna be treated like one, please dress like one. Good job, Nod and zaoman :) Well said.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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. Jullianna i love what your step dad said about your clothes :D Smart man.
Zaoman, your obviously a great dad. Girls need fathers like that.
 
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A few observations.

When women post pictures of themselves in suggestive poses, or wearing things that are completely innapropriate. They may as well be saying, Look at me, Look how hot i am! Women may not joke about how good they look, but they certainly are telling you how good they look with the pictures they put up and clothes their wearing.

when i go into the chatroom there is this particular girl who gets on the webcam and 90% of the time you can see right down her shirt. Her camera is basically pointed down her shirt. In her head she thinks her chest looks great. I can come up with no other reason to show random people on the internet all your stuff.

Women are saying it without saying it.
How come that stuff never happens when I'm in there??
 
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zaoman32

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I can only hope your joking, because otherwise, yeah.

I mean no offense, but I find nothing humorous about things like that.
 
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I can only hope your joking, because otherwise, yeah.

I mean no offense, but I find nothing humorous about things like that.
Yea, well I don't find it humorous when people fall down or become uncomfortable. To me that is just as sick. At least I was JOKING.
 
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Catlynn

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My poor daughter is going to hate me so much......-_-
 
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djness

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Where are these women's dads? Seriously, I would think if any woman had respect for herself she wouldn't be throwing herself out there like a piece of meat to a pack of wolves.

"Here I am, now destroy me!"

Number one, my daughter will not dress that way, I'm going to raise her to know better, and I know for a fact her mom is going to raise her to know better.
Number two I can guarantee you any horny pervert who sees my daughter walk down the road and whistles at her is going to be breathing out of a tube for a week.

Women need to respect themselves enough to dress decently and guys need to start treating ladies with a level of respect. Fact.
Your post raises an interesting question..
Where are these women's dads?

1.""and I know for a fact her mom is going to raise her to know better"" this statement right here tells me mom and dad aren't together.
2. Profile says you are not married.

Chances are you aren't in the picture all the time. Seems like a rather ironic question.
 
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djness

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I’ve noticed in chat/the forums that it’s okay for guys to kid around about how gorgeous they are….we all laugh and think it’s funny, but you never see women do this. Why do you think this is? Are women more humble or are they just slapped around more for saying it? :D

Maybe it’s the peacock thing….
I doubt women are more humble by any means. So, whatever the other choice is , is probably correct.
 
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Jullianna

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I doubt women are more humble by any means. So, whatever the other choice is , is probably correct.

The other choice: Women would be slapped around by other women for doing it.

I think you're right.
 
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Jullianna

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Where are these women's dads? Seriously, I would think if any woman had respect for herself she wouldn't be throwing herself out there like a piece of meat to a pack of wolves.

"Here I am, now destroy me!"

Number one, my daughter will not dress that way, I'm going to raise her to know better, and I know for a fact her mom is going to raise her to know better.
Number two I can guarantee you any horny pervert who sees my daughter walk down the road and whistles at her is going to be breathing out of a tube for a week.

Women need to respect themselves enough to dress decently and guys need to start treating ladies with a level of respect. Fact.
Not only did zaoman clearly state that he plans to be there for his daughter, he gave his ex credit for wanting to do the same in spite of the difficult, painful divorce he discussed in another thread, and the difficulties and concerns he has expressed for his kids in other threads. The courts don't always give parents as much time with their children as the parents would like, so I think this is an area highly deserving of sensitivity.


As someone who was deserted by her own father, I deeply appreciate any man, like my stepdad, who is there for his kids and who desires to be.
 
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Not only did zaoman clearly state that he plans to be there for his daughter, he gave his ex credit for wanting to do the same in spite of the difficult, painful divorce he discussed in another thread, and the difficulties and concerns he has expressed for his kids in other threads. The courts don't always give parents as much time with their children as the parents would like, so I think this is an area highly deserving of sensitivity.


As someone who was deserted by her own father, I deeply appreciate any man, like my stepdad, who is there for his kids and who desires to be.
No offense Julianna, but this post tells me that you are a little too easily impressed in here. I am sorely disappointed.
 
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Jullianna

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If caring that someone's kids are important to them is wrong, I don't want to be right.
 
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zaoman32

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I was not trying to offend anyone.

Yes I am divorced, my ex and I have the kids equal times.

I'm not apologizing for raising my daughter to be more respectful of herself than to have to gain guys attention by under-dressing.
 

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Im getting confused now....jullianna is easily impressed by under-dressing females while zaoman and zeroturbulence had a divorce but Zao is still trying to raise zero to respect himself and something about girls vs men or women vs boys or something along those lines? it makes no sense.


(This is all joking) Sadly I feel the need to put that but people in general have been overly sensitive this week.
 
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Jullianna

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Maybe it's a Black Friday warm up :)
 
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Im getting confused now....jullianna is easily impressed by under-dressing females while zaoman and zeroturbulence had a divorce but Zao is still trying to raise zero to respect himself and something about girls vs men or women vs boys or something along those lines? it makes no sense.


(This is all joking) Sadly I feel the need to put that but people in general have been overly sensitive this week.
First of all, I've never been married. Second of all I am ALWAYS too sensitive. GET IT RIGHT!!!
 

Descyple

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I'm a christian, christian's aren't supposed to lie, what am I supposed to do when I look into the mirror and think "my goodness that is one hot piece of meat!" Or how am I supposed to react when on saturday nights I have a group of ten girls clawing and kicking and scratching just to be the first to ask me out.


It's not easy, nor funny.
I thought I was the only one cursed with those problems. Hey Zaoman, we should start up a support group for guys like us called "Brotherhood of the Incredibly Hot"

Are there any other pretty-boys or aspiring male-models here who would like to join our group for emotional support? You no longer have to suffer alone with the burden of gorgeousness!!