Share your Worse First Date Experience!

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CarolSampaio

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Mitspa said:
Im thinking I didn't have any of these bad dates...is it possible I was the bad date and didn't know it? :(
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I never had a first date like that... all the guys I ever went out with I alredy knew for a while... the only one I didn't was actually a perfect gentleman...

Reading all these bad experiences I almost feel bad about it... almost... hehehehe
 
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Mitspa

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CarolSampaio said:
I never had a first date like that... all the guys I ever went out with I alredy knew for a while... the only one I didn't was actually a perfect gentleman...

Reading all these bad experiences I almost feel bad about it... almost... hehehehe
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Yea...I guess we know why they wasn't a 2nd date...I have a feeling Shine might have went out with one of her guys again ...
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

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kenthomas27 said:
Wow man. How do you even think of stuff like that? That's beautiful.

Anyway I think I already told the story about the girl that grabbed my arm and wouldn't let go all night. That was pretty miserable. My arm was all sweaty and hot and like her fingers left impressions, I could see them in a mirror, and it was hot out anyway and her face would be right there every time I turned around. It was awful. I mean, I smelled her all night. It's not that she smelled bad or anything,it's just I would have liked to smell something else now and then. Anyhow, on another date there was a girl that ended every sentence with a question? Do you know what i"m talking about? Stuff that wasn't a question? She'd say "so where do you want to go eat?" That's not a good example. You know what I mean though?
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Hi, Ken! Yes!

a) Well! The moment I saw she changed her avatar, for that picture, that sun shone more... It´s not that I knew her but, on one of those abandoned theads I have, she´s shown the person she is and, "sadly", I´m an star gazer. :)

b) Wow! I appreciared that story yu´ve mentioned... I know that, even on a piece of papers, ladies parfume got printed.

c) Sometimes, when a person keeps on "asking" questions, they´re not only "asking", they´re trying to figure out (1) your thoughts and (2) trying to see if they´re getting your attention.

When a man likes to talk, touching my arms or legs, I do feel uncomfortable so, I had to tell me -seriously- stop it! You´re not a girl (for me that´s a way of groupingly insert THEIR ideas in mine)
 
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MissCris said:
There was the guy who took me to a beach by the river late at night and made me stay in the car while he took a sword and went to fight demons.

There was the guy who took me to Olive Garden, flirted with the waitress, insulted my hair, spilled his drink and then yelled at me for it, and then made me pay for both of us.

And there was the guy who asked me to go to his friend's Halloween party with him, but failed to mention it was in a different town (actually a few miles outside of a different town), and also failed to mention that he was very drunk when he picked me up, a fact I didn't find out until we were going 100 mph down the highway in the dark. Once at the so-called party (which was actually just a handful of older people getting high), he kept trying to get me into a bedroom. I was pretty freaked out already, just having been certain he was going to kill us both on the road, and all I wanted was to go home, but I had nobody I knew and no phone, and he was in no mood to drive back...not that I particularly wanted to ride home with him. I ended up sitting outside alone for hours, until he finally came out and said he'd take me home. He had been drinking more, and I wish I'd had the brains at the time to find my way down the road for help. But! I appear to have lived, and he was just as unimpressed by me as I was by him, so he didn't call me again.
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You just won. I thought mine was bad....but nope.
 
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Kaycie

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First he took me to his house to see his horses. While there he started wrapping rope around a wood pole, and asked me to hold it for him while he wrapped. This turned into me helping him to build a fence for his donkey. I thought, ok I can help. Then he had me lay some hay down. And I thought, ok he's testing me to see if I'm worth dating. Then he said that the mother of his two almost teen sons isn't going to pick them up for visitation, so they have to come with us. While on the way to go out to eat, he pulled the car over and asked if he could talk to me in private outside of the car. When I did, he asked me if I would pay for everyone's dinner.

After dinner we went back to his house and he asked me to tuck his kids in bed and sing to them. Then he played music by Prince, apparently he's a huge fan. When it was time for me to go, I started to put on my shoes, and he yelled no, no, no! I looked around frantically saying what, is there a spider or something. He said no, you have to put on your left shoe first THEN you can put on your right shoe. I laughed and said are you kidding, and he gave me the most serious look I've ever seen. I went to put the pop back in the fridge and I guess I didn't put it on the correct shelf or the correct side of the fridge. He drove me home, gave me a kiss, and asked if he could see me again. (Yes I did, against my better judgement).
 
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jaybird88 said:
One time I took this girl out back in my 20s. I had this hoopty chevy luv truck.
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You win one billion points for using the word "hoopty".

Kaycie said:
First he took me to his house to see his horses. While there he started wrapping rope around a wood pole, and asked me to hold it for him while he wrapped. This turned into me helping him to build a fence for his donkey. I thought, ok I can help. Then he had me lay some hay down. And I thought, ok he's testing me to see if I'm worth dating. Then he said that the mother of his two almost teen sons isn't going to pick them up for visitation, so they have to come with us. While on the way to go out to eat, he pulled the car over and asked if he could talk to me in private outside of the car. When I did, he asked me if I would pay for everyone's dinner.

After dinner we went back to his house and he asked me to tuck his kids in bed and sing to them. Then he played music by Prince, apparently he's a huge fan. When it was time for me to go, I started to put on my shoes, and he yelled no, no, no! I looked around frantically saying what, is there a spider or something. He said no, you have to put on your left shoe first THEN you can put on your right shoe. I laughed and said are you kidding, and he gave me the most serious look I've ever seen. I went to put the pop back in the fridge and I guess I didn't put it on the correct shelf or the correct side of the fridge. He drove me home, gave me a kiss, and asked if he could see me again. (Yes I did, against my better judgement).
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Wow Kaycie! Did he give an explanation for asking you to pay for everyone's meal? Also... he asked you to tuck his pre-teen sons into bed and sing to them??? What the...?!
 
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jeremyPJ

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my worst first date?

Hmm...which one! Any I've been "fixed up with" sucked. Don't think most gals like getting fixed up, they always seemed resentful. Weirdly bad subject. Makes me realize the Lord needs to be involved in both their lives to have a fair chance.
 
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Mitspa

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Kaycie said:
First he took me to his house to see his horses. While there he started wrapping rope around a wood pole, and asked me to hold it for him while he wrapped. This turned into me helping him to build a fence for his donkey. I thought, ok I can help. Then he had me lay some hay down. And I thought, ok he's testing me to see if I'm worth dating. Then he said that the mother of his two almost teen sons isn't going to pick them up for visitation, so they have to come with us. While on the way to go out to eat, he pulled the car over and asked if he could talk to me in private outside of the car. When I did, he asked me if I would pay for everyone's dinner.

After dinner we went back to his house and he asked me to tuck his kids in bed and sing to them. Then he played music by Prince, apparently he's a huge fan. When it was time for me to go, I started to put on my shoes, and he yelled no, no, no! I looked around frantically saying what, is there a spider or something. He said no, you have to put on your left shoe first THEN you can put on your right shoe. I laughed and said are you kidding, and he gave me the most serious look I've ever seen. I went to put the pop back in the fridge and I guess I didn't put it on the correct shelf or the correct side of the fridge. He drove me home, gave me a kiss, and asked if he could see me again. (Yes I did, against my better judgement).
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So how did the next date go...Let me guess you guys cleaned out the barn? :(
 
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LiJo

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I've had dates where there were no connections, I considered them to be my bad dates, but after reading this thread, my dates haven't been that bad after all...lol
 
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Cruisyazz

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I am awesome at first dates... Just so you know. lol
 
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JeniBean

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jaybird88 said:
One time I took this girl out back in my 20s. I had this hoopty chevy luv truck. It was orange with a white door. It was red at one time but the sun turned the paint this funny looking orange. The whole set up set me back $350.00. We got to town and turned on the cruising strip and the hubcap came off. It went right down the middle of everyone cruising. Everyone was laughing and honking their horns, I thought it was funny so I waved out the window at everyone, I couldnt honk the horn back cause it didnt work. Then we got pulled over for the taillights not working, I told the cop they work but just come disconnected then I turned to the girl and asked her to twist the 2 wires together above her head (I had the tail ligh wires running up over the passenger door panel trim). Then we parked in a parking lot for a while with some people and when we got ready to leave the truck wouldnt start. So I had the hood up working on it in the middle of everyone, I didnt care, we all knew each other and I got it going pretty fast, it was just a loose battery cable. But none the less she was not to happy about the whole thing and didnt want to go out again, not with a poor guy anyway.
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Hey JayBird I had a hoopty Chevy Luv too! White and pin stripes in tons of colors all over it! LOL Good Memories!
 
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JeniBean

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Mitspa said:
Im thinking I didn't have any of these bad dates...is it possible I was the bad date and didn't know it? :(
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No, I think you would know it! ;)
 
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CarolSampaio

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I just find the whole concept of a blind date terrifying... first, what will we talk about? I hate those long silences... and what if you two don't have anything in common??? What will you talk about???

Second, I would never have him pick me up in his own car... I would meet him somewhere... what if he is some kind of crazy or just a bad person??? Yes, I am that paranoid... If I don't know the guy, I will not get into his car by myself...

I guess that's why I never had a bad date... I've had bad nights, of course, like when you go out and your boyfriend decides that it would be fun to drink a little too much and he ends up wasted or something, but that's it...
 
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Cruisyazz

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Braylay said:
Just can't get those second ones down can ya.... :D
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Shhh... Don't tell everyone!!

Anyway you get your first date right you can just cruise through the second.... As long as you're not meeting the folks that is!!
 
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Richie_2uk

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I haven't had a worse date. But I'm sure there are many who has. Some maybe wish to forget and not to be reminded of it.
 
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Cruisyazz

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The best first dates always come after your worst... You have a great conversation starter right there.
 
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