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Braylay

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The best first dates always come after your worst... You have a great conversation starter right there.
I had a worst first date once, but then i had an even worser second date. One would think i would not go on that third date.


​but i did
 
Aug 20, 2014
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So, I think I was a few girls WORSE DATE.... I was really into surfing and asking girls to come to the beach with me.
I would be in the water most of the time... I did bring a bag of things to eat and drink but not really much into sitting on the beach lol.

ok things not to do...

1. show up late to pick her up
2. don't use a buy one get one free dinner coupon where she can see it... I was in school and did not have a lot of extra cash..
3. make sure you have a lot of gas to get to point A to point B
4. Don't ask her if she is ok with taking a bus...
5. Don't show up in a VW van with tinted windows and lowered..
6. Don't go to your friends house on your first date could make her feel out of place..
7. Don't be rude open the door for her at the drive in movies and walk her to the bathroom... I mean it is dark out

So happy I don't have to date lol and My Wife likes that I can save Money using Coupons on a dinner date!!
 
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Hellooo

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Man, some of these stories make my stomach turn.
Lots of thirst and creepiness
 

melita916

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i feels bad for those who've had bad experiences :(

i'm even willing to share ice cream and cookies.
 
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Starsdance

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I I treated him as a waiter wrongly.
 
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JeniBean

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So, I think I was a few girls WORSE DATE.... I was really into surfing and asking girls to come to the beach with me.
I would be in the water most of the time... I did bring a bag of things to eat and drink but not really much into sitting on the beach lol.

ok things not to do...

1. show up late to pick her up
2. don't use a buy one get one free dinner coupon where she can see it... I was in school and did not have a lot of extra cash..
3. make sure you have a lot of gas to get to point A to point B
4. Don't ask her if she is ok with taking a bus...
5. Don't show up in a VW van with tinted windows and lowered..
6. Don't go to your friends house on your first date could make her feel out of place..
7. Don't be rude open the door for her at the drive in movies and walk her to the bathroom... I mean it is dark out

So happy I don't have to date lol and My Wife likes that I can save Money using Coupons on a dinner date!!
I would have no issue with a guy using coupons, it shows he uses his money wisely verses spending nonstop!
 
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Mitspa

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So, I think I was a few girls WORSE DATE.... I was really into surfing and asking girls to come to the beach with me.
I would be in the water most of the time... I did bring a bag of things to eat and drink but not really much into sitting on the beach lol.

ok things not to do...

1. show up late to pick her up
2. don't use a buy one get one free dinner coupon where she can see it... I was in school and did not have a lot of extra cash..
3. make sure you have a lot of gas to get to point A to point B
4. Don't ask her if she is ok with taking a bus...
5. Don't show up in a VW van with tinted windows and lowered..
6. Don't go to your friends house on your first date could make her feel out of place..
7. Don't be rude open the door for her at the drive in movies and walk her to the bathroom... I mean it is dark out

So happy I don't have to date lol and My Wife likes that I can save Money using Coupons on a dinner date!!
Sounds like your the guy these girls have been talking about? :)
 
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Mitspa

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I just find the whole concept of a blind date terrifying... first, what will we talk about? I hate those long silences... and what if you two don't have anything in common??? What will you talk about???

Second, I would never have him pick me up in his own car... I would meet him somewhere... what if he is some kind of crazy or just a bad person??? Yes, I am that paranoid... If I don't know the guy, I will not get into his car by myself...

I guess that's why I never had a bad date... I've had bad nights, of course, like when you go out and your boyfriend decides that it would be fun to drink a little too much and he ends up wasted or something, but that's it...
You could have him wear a shock collar, if he gets out of line? Just zap him! :)
 
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CarolSampaio

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Well... that could work if I was going on a date with Doug.... but then again, I wouldn't need to zap Doug!!! He's just the sweetest thing!! :)

 
Nov 25, 2014
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Hmmm...worst first date....

Let me set it up for you....this was with a Christian man. A rather conservative, evangelical sort of guy. The kind of conservative evangelical who "wasn't sure" about me because I'm Catholic...but, you know, he's a "tolerant" guy.

We had a very casual eat-an-icecream-cone-while-we-walk-around-and-talk date. He spent the entire time talking about how much he liked another woman--what a wonderful Christian woman she was, and how he wasn't sure if he was worthy of her, blah blah. (I'm the sort of girl who seems to engender that desire in men to unburden themselves emotionally). A little insensitive, but no harm, no foul...clearly he wasn't into me, but he wasn't really my type either.

So, I'm a good person, and I empathetically and kindly listened to him. We reach the end of the date and I go to shake his hand, and he grabs me stuffing his tongue down my throat.

When I pulled back and basically said, "What the whuuuuhhhh?" He made some comment about my lipgloss.

Seriously...LIPGLOSS.

Apparently, listening to a man talk about another woman all night was supposed to be a huge turn on for me.

Who knew?
 
Apr 15, 2014
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Hmmm...worst first date....

Let me set it up for you....this was with a Christian man. A rather conservative, evangelical sort of guy. The kind of conservative evangelical who "wasn't sure" about me because I'm Catholic...but, you know, he's a "tolerant" guy.

We had a very casual eat-an-icecream-cone-while-we-walk-around-and-talk date. He spent the entire time talking about how much he liked another woman--what a wonderful Christian woman she was, and how he wasn't sure if he was worthy of her, blah blah. (I'm the sort of girl who seems to engender that desire in men to unburden themselves emotionally). A little insensitive, but no harm, no foul...clearly he wasn't into me, but he wasn't really my type either.

So, I'm a good person, and I empathetically and kindly listened to him. We reach the end of the date and I go to shake his hand, and he grabs me stuffing his tongue down my throat.

When I pulled back and basically said, "What the whuuuuhhhh?" He made some comment about my lipgloss.

Seriously...LIPGLOSS.

Apparently, listening to a man talk about another woman all night was supposed to be a huge turn on for me.

Who knew?
/But it's a DATE!! He earned his kiss with an ice cream! /end sarcasm font
 
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MissCris

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Hmmm...worst first date....

Let me set it up for you....this was with a Christian man. A rather conservative, evangelical sort of guy. The kind of conservative evangelical who "wasn't sure" about me because I'm Catholic...but, you know, he's a "tolerant" guy.

We had a very casual eat-an-icecream-cone-while-we-walk-around-and-talk date. He spent the entire time talking about how much he liked another woman--what a wonderful Christian woman she was, and how he wasn't sure if he was worthy of her, blah blah. (I'm the sort of girl who seems to engender that desire in men to unburden themselves emotionally). A little insensitive, but no harm, no foul...clearly he wasn't into me, but he wasn't really my type either.

So, I'm a good person, and I empathetically and kindly listened to him. We reach the end of the date and I go to shake his hand, and he grabs me stuffing his tongue down my throat.

When I pulled back and basically said, "What the whuuuuhhhh?" He made some comment about my lipgloss.

Seriously...LIPGLOSS.

Apparently, listening to a man talk about another woman all night was supposed to be a huge turn on for me.

Who knew?
Man! That's...yeah.
I've liked guys who would hang out with me just to talk about how much they wanted to date my friends, but I was lucky enough not to have to hear it DURING a date.

I never understood why anyone thinks that's an ok thing to do. "Hey, let's go out so I can talk your ear off about the person I ACTUALLY want to be with"... Pffffft.
 
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Mitspa

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Hmmm...worst first date....

Let me set it up for you....this was with a Christian man. A rather conservative, evangelical sort of guy. The kind of conservative evangelical who "wasn't sure" about me because I'm Catholic...but, you know, he's a "tolerant" guy.

We had a very casual eat-an-icecream-cone-while-we-walk-around-and-talk date. He spent the entire time talking about how much he liked another woman--what a wonderful Christian woman she was, and how he wasn't sure if he was worthy of her, blah blah. (I'm the sort of girl who seems to engender that desire in men to unburden themselves emotionally). A little insensitive, but no harm, no foul...clearly he wasn't into me, but he wasn't really my type either.

So, I'm a good person, and I empathetically and kindly listened to him. We reach the end of the date and I go to shake his hand, and he grabs me stuffing his tongue down my throat.

When I pulled back and basically said, "What the whuuuuhhhh?" He made some comment about my lipgloss.

Seriously...LIPGLOSS.

Apparently, listening to a man talk about another woman all night was supposed to be a huge turn on for me.

Who knew?
You know guys try to judge a dating situation in the first few mins..if the girl don't seem very willing to have fun (clean fun) or interested in them, guys often resort to going into a shell of sorts... Kinda like TV mode :(
 
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Hmmm...worst first date....

Let me set it up for you....this was with a Christian man. A rather conservative, evangelical sort of guy. The kind of conservative evangelical who "wasn't sure" about me because I'm Catholic...but, you know, he's a "tolerant" guy.

We had a very casual eat-an-icecream-cone-while-we-walk-around-and-talk date. He spent the entire time talking about how much he liked another woman--what a wonderful Christian woman she was, and how he wasn't sure if he was worthy of her, blah blah. (I'm the sort of girl who seems to engender that desire in men to unburden themselves emotionally). A little insensitive, but no harm, no foul...clearly he wasn't into me, but he wasn't really my type either.

So, I'm a good person, and I empathetically and kindly listened to him. We reach the end of the date and I go to shake his hand, and he grabs me stuffing his tongue down my throat.

When I pulled back and basically said, "What the whuuuuhhhh?" He made some comment about my lipgloss.

Seriously...LIPGLOSS.

Apparently, listening to a man talk about another woman all night was supposed to be a huge turn on for me.

Who knew?
This is what you needed to do to him:

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