Skin Hunger - The real cause of my lonelness...

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May 4, 2009
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Yeah, I really will have to get a massage(The non-code word type). What I'm getting from from church and other places really isn't enough(Though I do get enough my from my family) and it's ending up depressing me.
 
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Dot...post an ad on craigslist asking for hugs. I'm pretty sure there are lots of folks out there who are willing to give hugs to a young guy who's feeling down. Or post an ad saying you'll trade some of your skills for a massage. You could offer to do programming for someone or clean their house or wash their car...etc in exchange for one. There's bound to be folks who want to make a trade.

Just watch out for creepos.
Good advice for ya, dotbuddy, pray about it all, but, why not, offer your services. Put yourself out there, do small jobs of networking, maybe, you can hook up people's WiFi networks to their tvs, everyone these days wants that netflix on their tv from their computer and their printer and computers in the house (all 6 of them ! ) running from the WiFi and the cable box and well, just go do it, buddy. Get a job, maybe, at some geek services place that does that network connection stuff, PM someone, whose post on c.c. (good to surround yourself in business with Christians, if can, the Lord leads) here on c.c., do it in the miscellaneous forum, that you want to learn that stuff . OK? :)

So yeah, I'm gonna try asking one of the girls from chruch to hang out. I kinda had my eye on her for a little while, but seems like now's the time make a move and hopefully be able to get know her better. btw, this was one of the girls I hugged from a few days ago(1st time too). I just hope the hug was because she too tired to think since she just got back from a missions trip.(Basically it was 4:30AM in her mind when it happened.)
OFF you go, get those prayers lifted to the Lord, pray for His will done, and, ACCEPT whatever happens as a 'no' that is one step closer to 'yes.' Guys go through a lot of 'no's' tooo, ALL of us, beforee get the 'yes.' Be brave, shoot your arrows and go get more, love is work, finding it, or it wouldn't be soooo great, and, love from Him is not great at all just, it's perfect :)
 
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Anyways, for now I'm just going to the student lounge area at college and playing Magic there. Actually there is a couple cute girls there, don't know if they are Christian or not, but I intend to get to know them as friends.
 
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If I had a dog, he would be well-loved.
I've been thinking about this lately and I came across a new solution. DANCE!!! Im not talking about booty-shaking and ahem.... dance. Some friends of mine play at a club every Monday. They do couples dance there... ballroom. Sure it's a bunch of 50 yr old red-necks, but it's fun to get tossed across the dance floor, and if they know how to dance correctly then you don't have to worry about too much weirdness.
 
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sharry

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LOL Im 46 and i have a teddy bear
 
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peachy_keen

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Very insightful. I have struggled with the same issue, although I hadn't realized it had been given a "name". Personally, I miss not only the touch, but the sense of community I knew in years past before technology made our world so much smaller and so much less personal.
 
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After taking some time to think about it really does seems that a lot of what I don't all comes back to a fear of isolation from God and Man. Though I can't really figure out how I'd be isolated from God... Anyways, looks likes I'll need to get this fixed before I can find a girlfriend.
 
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Very insightful. I have struggled with the same issue, although I hadn't realized it had been given a "name". Personally, I miss not only the touch, but the sense of community I knew in years past before technology made our world so much smaller and so much less personal.
After taking some time to think about it really does seems that a lot of what I don't all comes back to a fear of isolation from God and Man. Though I can't really figure out how I'd be isolated from God... Anyways, looks likes I'll need to get this fixed before I can find a girlfriend.
You know, dothackbuddy, and, how ya doin', long time no hear from ya, but, anyway, that's probably me, I don't always peruse the singles forum when I'm preaching fire and brimstone if not love and grace offered up to others since God is love and because of grace we are SAVED ! :) And, then, reading here from Eph. 2:8, there is that next little part about what, prinnydotdisgaeabrother? Faith. Right?

OK, so, you have this certain genuineness about you and sincerity of your posts, in fact, if there is a more sincere and devout person to becoming unlonely on c.c. I want to meet them. You are tops in that category and guess what? People like to read what you have to say, that is why I included peachkeenly's quote above, she said what you said was 'insightful' for your title of this thread you did way back when. And, I know others have commented too, 20s, 30s, here, 40s, me 40s :D , but, ya get the picture, don't you. YOU are interesting !!!!!

Want more 'interesting?' LOOK at your number of posts, 1,493 , that's not many, yet LOOK at your rep power??? You are one lower than me (and, I doubt that lasts long, my wise, accepted, nurturing young man to others :) ) AND I HAVE FIVE THOUSAND FREAKIN' PLUS POSTS !!!


There is something about you that is unique, different, and, let's not forget the next word that goes with these two words, I think, 'special.YOU are special, my friend, in a very unique, different, way--SPECIAL, and, you're approval rating on c.c. proves it ~~!

Anyway, I am not sure what you are saying about seperation from God and man but when you talk, you are LIKE E.F. Hutton, people listen . Sure, too, there are those that keep telling you to shut up already about your loneliness and blah, blah, blah, but YOU always--and this can be why so many MUST 'like' your posts, you always are tender, kind, back. LOL, I've not been sometimes, probably lost some of my friends on c.c. telling them to try being POSITIVE with you because, if for no other reason, it's fair to say I see now, YOU are always positive back :) You are dejected, depressing sounding, and, I get that, I see why others grow tired of you constant complaining but my whole point is here: You do it gracefully. And, this is where I end.


YOU are saved by grace !! From NOTHING you did, dhnotazero, God saved you, YOU are a special number to God, anything but a ZERO!! :)

You need to get yourself truly TOUCHING the hand of God and, I guarantee it, IF you can more and more focus and center and drive yourself to God things, like church Sundays, mornings and evenings (go to another church if they don't have night service), and, singles group is good too, that fellowshipo is good,and, you are INTERESTING if you have the faith God's given you TO BE :)


Anyway, I pray you can take to heart what the Lord says here, this I pray, the Lord leads, you are soooo interesting here, so, become interesting there, out in the real world.

I know you can you just have to QUIT being hungry for 'skin' and start being hungry for feeling God's touch. And, if you ask, you can be certain God will touch you and He will by so doing, truly touch your life :)