I believe so strongly that home should be a refuge. We have such stressful lives/jobs where everyone wants something from us, we are trying to spend quiet time with God, we are doing ministry, taking care of family, and I just finished raising a teenager. J It’s so important that the person I am with be someone I can relax with, have fun with, go adventuring with, bounces ideas off of, and share dreams with on a mature level. I don’t want to feel as if I’m raising another teenager - coming home to pity parties and manufactured drama. Life has enough drama of its own, doesn’t it?