Who are singles here? Men and women????

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CatHerder

CatHerder

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christianjeenn said:
Why still single?


State your reason.
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CatHerder said:



umm...





...because I am not married, nor have I a girlfriend.
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BS said:
I am wondering ....:confused: why one could "like" what you have said ...:D
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I can only speculate why they "liked" what I wrote. But I CAN tell you why I wrote what I did.


Perhaps the OP didn't mean it this way, but many ask "why still single?" with the implication that there is something wrong with it. Being single well into adulthood seems to make others uncomfortable, especially those within the church. It's sad that there is more acceptance of single adults outside the church body than there is within, especially when the divorce rate among Christians parallels that of non-Christians. We can't just assume that being half of a Christian couple is going to equate to some kind of "success."

So while I will probably want to get married again some day, I'm not going to rush things just to satisfy a cultural norm. For now, I'll stick with my answer that I am single because I am not married, nor have I a girlfriend.
 
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OutdoorPlayer

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Because I was waiting to meet you...:)
 
Milothethird

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I still single, since I aboslutely hate rejection and can't figure out to get through it...Second I am awkard dorky guy,, who has a stray sense of humor... I could make people laugh, and it isn't even on purpoe for some reason. I just make smile, and I think it may be my face :) But anyones I kind of find it hard to find it the right christian lady (correct me if this is the wrong term)...But I guss I am just going to be patient and just wait for God's to show me the right person.
 
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vickish

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Just became single...weird ending for my relationship which im having hard time getting over it. I pray to God for guidance and emotional support.
 
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Practice-English

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I'm single,
the reason for this is because
for my opinion it's difficult for me to enter in contact with people...
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philippians

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i'm still single too! why? good men are all taken lol
 
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gingerbupbup

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awww that's sweet :D...i wanna meet u too :eek:
 
Jhunie

Jhunie

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I am single because I believe God is preparing me and molding me first before I get into a relationship/marriage. Since I was 18yrs. Old, I've been praying for my future husband. Without a name. And I believe and trust in God's right timing for everything. So right now, I will just let God to keep molding me into a woman He wanted me to become. I'll just need a lot of patience and keep the faith. After all, I'm worth waiting for. :)
 
slave

slave

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CatHerder said:
I can only speculate why they "liked" what I wrote. But I CAN tell you why I wrote what I did.


Perhaps the OP didn't mean it this way, but many ask "why still single?" with the implication that there is something wrong with it. Being single well into adulthood seems to make others uncomfortable, especially those within the church. It's sad that there is more acceptance of single adults outside the church body than there is within, especially when the divorce rate among Christians parallels that of non-Christians. We can't just assume that being half of a Christian couple is going to equate to some kind of "success."

So while I will probably want to get married again some day, I'm not going to rush things just to satisfy a cultural norm. For now, I'll stick with my answer that I am single because I am not married, nor have I a girlfriend.
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Well said....I agree 100%.
 
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Miri

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slave said:
Without saying any names...Hint, hint nudge nudge....smile!
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Slave your back, long time no err type I suppose :)

I thought you might have "gone off"

Sorry just a bad yoke :D
 
slave

slave

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Miri said:
Slave your back, long time no err type I suppose :)

I thought you might have "gone off"

Sorry just a bad yoke :D
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Smile...yes the schooling and hospital training is taking a time toll. I just moved and a lot of details to that too...but I am here !!!It's good to see the bumble bees haven't vacated their hive! Good to see you! God Bless!!
 
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Tickety-toc

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Well I could find some if I would go to one of those charismatic or baptist churches. They seem to have young women. Not in my church. I just wonder why you ladies never try to visit (at least check it out) one of the traditional churches.

I know men have to take the first step. But maybe you just show yourselves? Don't worry I will say hi :D
 
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CarolSampaio

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Tickety-toc said:
Well I could find some if I would go to one of those charismatic or baptist churches. They seem to have young women. Not in my church. I just wonder why you ladies never try to visit (at least check it out) one of the traditional churches.

I know men have to take the first step. But maybe you just show yourselves? Don't worry I will say hi :D
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I always find it interesting to see guys complaining about the "shortage" of girls... it's a reality that there are more girls out there than guys.... so, you should have more options than us, girls... ;)

And, btw, is that the New Zealand banner??
 
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sydlit

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No one wants me, no one needs me, no one gets me, no one loves me.
I'm sure that's all my fault, so I guess I'm unforgiveable, undesireable, unchangeable, and unloveable. I try, but I think it's too late for me, and so I'm single. I try to believe in Jesus for my past sins and future hope, but the in between, I still long for that human (woman) touch and companionship, and am desperately alone and lonely. Nothing I do seems to work, though I can pray for, give scripture and encouragement to others, it doesn't seem to apply to me, and I guess it's sin to have these feelings of desiring a mate above desiring God. Sure would be nice to have both instead of neither, ... just one beautiful, genuine, honest, faithful woman to share life and God with, but I feel like singleness (for me) is part of the punishment I deserve, and even eternity is starting to look pretty lonely. I hoped CChat would help change this, but it's made it worse, as shown by my being the only one here, typing to myself. It seems even christians flee from me, and no man or god would want their daughter or sister to be with me, and I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. So I'm hurting, I'm lonely, and while the enemy laughs, and many celebrate, I'm single. God forgive me, please.
 
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skylove7

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sydlit said:
No one wants me, no one needs me, no one gets me, no one loves me.
I'm sure that's all my fault, so I guess I'm unforgiveable, undesireable, unchangeable, and unloveable. I try, but I think it's too late for me, and so I'm single. I try to believe in Jesus for my past sins and future hope, but the in between, I still long for that human (woman) touch and companionship, and am desperately alone and lonely. Nothing I do seems to work, though I can pray for, give scripture and encouragement to others, it doesn't seem to apply to me, and I guess it's sin to have these feelings of desiring a mate above desiring God. Sure would be nice to have both instead of neither, ... just one beautiful, genuine, honest, faithful woman to share life and God with, but I feel like singleness (for me) is part of the punishment I deserve, and even eternity is starting to look pretty lonely. I hoped CChat would help change this, but it's made it worse, as shown by my being the only one here, typing to myself. It seems even christians flee from me, and no man or god would want their daughter or sister to be with me, and I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. So I'm hurting, I'm lonely, and while the enemy laughs, and many celebrate, I'm single. God forgive me, please.
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Sydlit

You have been sexual..rude..crude..uncomfy to us on here.
I do NOT speak for other women here. Just me!
So DONT follow innocence like you tend to do.
Once again...members have been cool with you.
When you show nothing back but 'weirdness'

I have reported your posts hefore
sigh
In vain I see....
But its all good
Oh hey..
Pee Wee Herman is paging you

Dont u have like a downtown 3am
X rated book store to attend?

Just sayin :)
 
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