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Sydlit
You have been sexual..rude..crude..uncomfy to us on here.
I do NOT speak for other women here. Just me!
So DONT follow innocence like you tend to do.
Once again...members have been cool with you.
When you show nothing back but 'weirdness'
I have reported your posts hefore
sigh
In vain I see....
But its all good
Oh hey..
Pee Wee Herman is paging you
Dont u have like a downtown 3am
X rated book store to attend?
Just sayin
You have been sexual..rude..crude..uncomfy to us on here.
I do NOT speak for other women here. Just me!
So DONT follow innocence like you tend to do.
Once again...members have been cool with you.
When you show nothing back but 'weirdness'
I have reported your posts hefore
sigh
In vain I see....
But its all good
Oh hey..
Pee Wee Herman is paging you
Dont u have like a downtown 3am
X rated book store to attend?
Just sayin
Skylove, umm, I just read every single post on every single page of this thread so far. I don't know if you're referring to only his post here, but if so, I don't see anything "sexual, rude, crude, or uncomfy" in this post of his. I agree that he has written some strange stuff on other threads, BUT you are all over him every chance you get. Maybe you should just stick him on ignore so you don't have to see his posts. Then you won't write something that gets YOU banned.
C
Sydlit... don't put yourself down like that!!
As I said in another post, you should not focus on finding someone... it will drive you insane... it's stressful, and you'll be anxious and sad and frustrated...
You should just focus on yourself!! Find the joy of spending time with yourself, of hanging out with friends and family... find things to do that make you happy... try some art classes, or archery, or kung fu, or cooking lessons... anything!!
Delve into the beauty of the Lord's creation... sing, play an instrument, find the purpose that God intended for your life!!!
Help at a hospital, at a retirement home, read different books, travel to different places or worlds in your own mind!!!
Be happy and content with what the Lord has given you... and you'll gain so much more!!
Sometimes we are so focused on what we want and don't have, that we forget about all those wonderful blessings that God has alredy given us!!
Count your blessings!! Pray for the Lord to give you joy and hope and peace!! And once you shine his light and his joy, you'll see you'll attract more friends and maybe, if that's His will, more suitors!!!
As I said in another post, you should not focus on finding someone... it will drive you insane... it's stressful, and you'll be anxious and sad and frustrated...
You should just focus on yourself!! Find the joy of spending time with yourself, of hanging out with friends and family... find things to do that make you happy... try some art classes, or archery, or kung fu, or cooking lessons... anything!!
Delve into the beauty of the Lord's creation... sing, play an instrument, find the purpose that God intended for your life!!!
Help at a hospital, at a retirement home, read different books, travel to different places or worlds in your own mind!!!
Be happy and content with what the Lord has given you... and you'll gain so much more!!
Sometimes we are so focused on what we want and don't have, that we forget about all those wonderful blessings that God has alredy given us!!
Count your blessings!! Pray for the Lord to give you joy and hope and peace!! And once you shine his light and his joy, you'll see you'll attract more friends and maybe, if that's His will, more suitors!!!
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dON´T FEEL discouraged, my brother!
If you would see the pictures of the ladies I have loved (being nothing else than a poor church mouse) I have loved ENOUGH, they gave me as much as they knew and could and, the most wonderful thing in love is loving and being loved.
Be strong, be pacient and ask something better to GOD: A job and a person you could love (It takes time, but it worths working for)
If you would see the pictures of the ladies I have loved (being nothing else than a poor church mouse) I have loved ENOUGH, they gave me as much as they knew and could and, the most wonderful thing in love is loving and being loved.
Be strong, be pacient and ask something better to GOD: A job and a person you could love (It takes time, but it worths working for)
I don't understand why people act like being single is a horrible disease. I guess should be glad that my happiness/worth isn't overly dependent on others. I am worried about the bitterness that today's singles hold tight to. So many christians are allowing what others did to them in the past, control what will happen in their future. It's no fun watching my Christian friends allow past relationships to dictate their day-to-day life. Some have given control of their lives to people who don't even think about them anymore. It is a painful thing to see.:/
S
I became a widow a year ago after almost 30 years together. Single again, not anything I wanted to be at this age. I'm confident the Lord will bring someone to me some day to share my life and dreams with again.
I can't imagine the sorrow If I lost a man I loved so dearly. I dont even WANT to imagine the pain...and I am single right now.
Pfew...God bless you.
I will pray for you sister
Welcome to CC
Believed or not, brother, allow me to say:
Our ppl, here and there, are being rejected by several reasons you don´t probably know at your age (1).
If I have a public authorization I will show proofs I have to back up that I´m saying and that HURTS THE MOST (2)
I (being old, poor, unattractive, economical unstable and unachieving in several ways) have the right to say "yes" or "no" to any person who approaches me BEYOND a virtual fellowship or a particular type of a relationship where I´m supposed to give particular attantion to any person who approached into my life. Let´s say she liked me, let´s say I liked her but, at any moment, I do see I DON´T HAVE similar expectations, future goals, sex appeal, likes and habits that I can predict PROBLEMS and, the moment I say "no" she might feel hurt (3) same way I have been hurt (or felt rejected) when I WAS TOO SHORT for her expectations.
(4) When a was pagan, I didn´t mind whom I slept with or whom I was approached to but, when I came to Christ and a better undertanding of me, my limitations and few assets I could offer to a future relationship, I have to COUNT THE COST nad, for me, the emotional cost worths more than the end result we -sometimes- can predict on evaluating any situation we are in.
(5) sometimes, when ppl get old is prone to sell their lives cheap but, the damage, the brokenhearted person cannot heal as soon as when we were young, social active and economically productive to get another life partner at "any corner". When you get older U are more aware of certain riskes, disadventages and, I can admit I´m not the one I was at 32... What type on man will I be at 60 or 70? God knows! But I don´t.
Our ppl, here and there, are being rejected by several reasons you don´t probably know at your age (1).
If I have a public authorization I will show proofs I have to back up that I´m saying and that HURTS THE MOST (2)
I (being old, poor, unattractive, economical unstable and unachieving in several ways) have the right to say "yes" or "no" to any person who approaches me BEYOND a virtual fellowship or a particular type of a relationship where I´m supposed to give particular attantion to any person who approached into my life. Let´s say she liked me, let´s say I liked her but, at any moment, I do see I DON´T HAVE similar expectations, future goals, sex appeal, likes and habits that I can predict PROBLEMS and, the moment I say "no" she might feel hurt (3) same way I have been hurt (or felt rejected) when I WAS TOO SHORT for her expectations.
(4) When a was pagan, I didn´t mind whom I slept with or whom I was approached to but, when I came to Christ and a better undertanding of me, my limitations and few assets I could offer to a future relationship, I have to COUNT THE COST nad, for me, the emotional cost worths more than the end result we -sometimes- can predict on evaluating any situation we are in.
(5) sometimes, when ppl get old is prone to sell their lives cheap but, the damage, the brokenhearted person cannot heal as soon as when we were young, social active and economically productive to get another life partner at "any corner". When you get older U are more aware of certain riskes, disadventages and, I can admit I´m not the one I was at 32... What type on man will I be at 60 or 70? God knows! But I don´t.
T
Im recently single, I was engaged and at one point very happy, but I saw our paths parting I saw the road he was headed down and God called me as loud as I ever heard to leave, cant say every day is easy I lost my bestfriend. But God has kept me and as soon as I left God began raining blessings on me. I dont know that I will ever be brave enough to try again, the thought alone scares me but as long as God keeps laying a path in front of me I will keep walkingon it
T
I cant believe that you will be single forever. The most important thing any man can share is his heart andd his relationship with God. I came on here not to look for a mate but to find like minded people. The world has become so dominated by lust and materialism that true love is hard to find. I understand the lonliness, but maybe it's not you that God is preparing. Maybe your future mate is being conditioned for you, to appreciate you, to be closer to God. I have to believe that's how it works. I have never been a bad or permiscuess person, yet here I am a month before my 30th birthday, just moved back to my home city with my son,( divorced because my ex husband not only cheated but ran off with a co worker) I spent 2 years single dated led to an engagement just for my fiance to turn from God to a negative life style that I could not allow myself to be part of. I am terrified to think of dating, but I don't want to believe that God put us here to be alone. I dont need to know when or how it will happen I just believe theres a plan for each of us.
