Who Couldn't Date YOU?

[Seraphic]

I wouldn't be good for a man who never ever questions anything. This would be the guy who was brought up a certain way and never gets out of that comfort zone, nor has he ever attempted to, simply because he believes anything different from that would be wrong. I like to know the reasons behind an idea, I like to appreciate it by myself, not just believe in it because someone else believed in it before me. I like finding things by myself. I like the know the why, and the how, and that certainly can be annoying or pointless for some people.

This and

If I were available and looking:

a man who doesn't like kids or music couldn't date me. I love both and invest much of my time in both.
A man who spends his money on lavish unnecessary things couldn't date me. I'm a thrift-store, coupon-clipping kinda girl.
A man who is too far on either side of the "spontaneous-organized" spectrum probably couldn't date me. I'm pretty much right in the middle on that spectrum. There's a time for being whimsical and a time to plan ahead.
A man who hates dancing couldn't date me.
A man who's only concept of a good time must involve large groups of people couldn't date me. I'm moderately introverted.
A man who scoffs at the idea of a stay-at-home-mom couldn't date me.
A man who thinks that a Sunday morning service is all the Christian fellowship one could ever need couldn't date me. I fellowship wih my brothers all week long in one way or another
A man who doesn't have a good sense of humor certainly couldn't date me. No uptight fellas for me!

This. But swap the man part for woman. Hahaha that would be awkward.

 

[just_monicat]

+guys who don't enjoy learning new things. one of my joys will always be learning new things, taking a class, watching documentary, attending a lecture, and one of my favorites, reading a book together and discussing - i love the principle of "lifelong learning"

+someone whose overly career focused. i made a deliberate shift in my life a few years ago to make room for more things and embrace the "work to live" rather than "live to work"

+materialistic & poor money skills - i don't care if i fall upon a giant hole of money, i will never drive a fancy car or pursue recreational spending. also, i hate the poor habits of so many of our generations - cash poor, leveraged to the hilt, driving/living/using things that you can't afford. i like have a savings account and some security over crazy spending. i hate debt.

+lazy/couch potato - i'm looking for a "partner in crime" not someone to keep the couch warm. i am way too addicted to the sensation of falling asleep with my body completely spent from activity--thus, i'd be really bad couch potato company.

+someone who doesn't want to communicate and be open to/share feedback - communication is a big deal for me. i fully expect to be called out when i do or say something that isn't right (or makes no sense), but i will also do the same. if he can't acknowledge his own passive aggressive behavior (or whatever) when it's presented in a kind and tactful way with examples, we have a problem. there are a lot of people living with a very casual relationship with reality/truth. if there is one thing i can't stand, it is an unresolved issue. i'm like a dog with a bone -- i simply can't ignore unresolved "pink elephants" in the room.

+someone who doesn't love animals. as much as i like people, i'm far more comfortable around animals and they're always in my life. i do the foster thing for dogs when there's a need, have raised a couple puppies for the deaf guide program, and still volunteer once a week at the shelter. plus i have horses! there's no way he could like me if he didn't like animals.

+apathy towards healthy living - the main reason i care about health is because i want the highest, best quality of living for as long as i'm here. it's part of my faith, in being a good steward of my resources. i don't expect anyone to be just like me, but i'd probably be really disappointed if he preferred a steady diet of fast food to what i cook.

 

[ww_21]

The answer to this one would be - someone who can not handle my making jokes at almost everything.

 

[FireWire]

I am undateable

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[Liamson]

The answer to this one would be - someone who can not handle my making jokes at almost everything.

People say this....

And then they meet me, and suddenly realize that it has its limits. Theoretically, I have limits too.

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

I'm thinking that somehow this turned back into a "who couldn't you date" thread.

 

[ww_21]

People say this....

And then they meet me, and suddenly realize that it has its limits. Theoretically, I have limits too.

It's all about balance... be serious when necessary or else why stress?! God will protect us.


oooo I thought of another one - someone who has poor taste in literature definitely could NOT date me.

 

[Liamson]

It's all about balance... be serious when necessary or else why stress?! God will protect us.


oooo I thought of another one - someone who has poor taste in literature definitely could NOT date me.

I despise Shakespeare, so there.

I have my reasons, and lets just say its not because he was inventing his own words.

I hold that the finest work in the english language is Paradise Lost ​ ...and its not even close.

 

[valtafjoe]

Someone who hates keeping fit and eating healthy.

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

I despise Shakespeare, so there.

I have my reasons, and lets just say its not because he was inventing his own words.

I hold that the finest work in the english language is Paradise Lost ​ ...and its not even close.

Paradise Lost is a hard book to get through. Did you know that Milton was blind? He composed the prose in his head during the night, and then his daughters wrote it all down the next morning. O_O

 

[abbiejean]

I despise Shakespeare, so there.

I have my reasons, and lets just say its not because he was inventing his own words.

I hold that the finest work in the english language is Paradise Lost ​ ...and its not even close.

I was introduced to portions of Paradise Lost in a college course. Beautiful.

 

[Wandering_Here]

-Anyone who doesn't like kids - I have one
-Anyone who doesn't like animals - I have 2 dogs, a cat, a fish, and a mess of chickens
-Anyone who wouldn't enjoy a big loud family get together - I have a big, loud family
-Anyone who doesn't like to be outdoors - I like camping, fishing, hiking, gardening, picnics, etc.
-Anyone who isn't patient - Sometimes I'm irritating, indecisive, sometimes I change my mind, sometimes I procrastinate. If he couldn't stand any of those things, he couldn't date me.

 

[Descyple]

No woman on CC could date me, because AzureAfire wouldn't allow another woman to even get close to me, and she owns her own Katana sword, which she's not afraid to use!!!!

So be careful how you flirt with me, CC Ladies!!!

 

[Jullianna]

No woman on CC could date me, because AzureAfire wouldn't allow another woman to even get close to me, and she owns her own Katana sword, which she's not afraid to use!!!!

So be careful how you flirt with me, CC Ladies!!!

Where has she been? I miss her

 

[Descyple]

Where has she been? I miss her

(My fake answer) - She's busy working the three new jobs I ordered her to take on so she could make more money to come to Canada quicker!!!

(Real answer) - She is busy with work, but she still checks out CC when she can, she just doesn't sign in each time!!! I keep her updated on all the other CC craziness she misses out on!!!