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I may not have any experience in this area of a relationship, but have had experience in leaving churches. Now, I realize they are two different things. I left a church a little over a year ago because I was taken outside of the church by one of the elders and he bluntly told me that my dad was not saved and he was not even there at the time I kindly corrected him. It was my last Sunday at the church. Since then, I have decided not to attend a church until I am ready emotionally because if I was to look for a church right away, chances of finding a church that is different is slim because it seems if you find a church right after you left one after you have been there for a while you will end up in the same type of legalistic church because it is comfortable and familiar. I think relationships are the same way, after a breakup or a mutual split we need time to rejuvenate and heal before we either hurt someone else or end up in the same type of relationship which is not fair to either one of you. I would take your time and enjoy being single and allow God to heal you and create a stronger more personal relationship with him. Then allow God to make that next step in your life when "he" feels you are ready.