You are an annoying hot mess!
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lol max
well i am gonna pout and stomp and be ridiculous until you tell me absolutely everything you know
hahaha. jk. i would have to first know WHY what you have to say is valuable to me.
like. ok. example
the night before last i was with a friend. i was being a goofball but i was also really tired from a 10 hr workday. so i was being a bit brattier than usual. but i jokingly pulled him away from someone he knew bc my blood sugar was low and i just wanted to find food. i didnt really care about anything else. but when i was pulling on his arm like a 5 yr old, he said something in arabic to his friend. (i don't speak arabic) and i wanted to know what he said. bc i knew it was a joke about me. so i asked what he said. he seemed like he wasn't going to tell me. i asked like 3 times. he still wasn't talking (but to some people things like that aren't valuable social information and they dont think its worth the effort)
anyways. i stopped walking and i crossed my arms in front of my chest and i said. i wanna know what you said.
and he tried to push me and make me walk and i wouldn't. lol. finally he told me he just joked that he was tired and he didnt wanna move. and i merrily started walking again. but like. seriously. i'm a brat. lol.
i hate the thought that someone is deliberately keeping something from me. bc that's all they ever did to me when i was a kid. and it hurt. a lot. and it was always at my expense. whatever the thing was they werent telling me.
well i am gonna pout and stomp and be ridiculous until you tell me absolutely everything you know
hahaha. jk. i would have to first know WHY what you have to say is valuable to me.
like. ok. example
the night before last i was with a friend. i was being a goofball but i was also really tired from a 10 hr workday. so i was being a bit brattier than usual. but i jokingly pulled him away from someone he knew bc my blood sugar was low and i just wanted to find food. i didnt really care about anything else. but when i was pulling on his arm like a 5 yr old, he said something in arabic to his friend. (i don't speak arabic) and i wanted to know what he said. bc i knew it was a joke about me. so i asked what he said. he seemed like he wasn't going to tell me. i asked like 3 times. he still wasn't talking (but to some people things like that aren't valuable social information and they dont think its worth the effort)
anyways. i stopped walking and i crossed my arms in front of my chest and i said. i wanna know what you said.
and he tried to push me and make me walk and i wouldn't. lol. finally he told me he just joked that he was tired and he didnt wanna move. and i merrily started walking again. but like. seriously. i'm a brat. lol.
i hate the thought that someone is deliberately keeping something from me. bc that's all they ever did to me when i was a kid. and it hurt. a lot. and it was always at my expense. whatever the thing was they werent telling me.
2 more flaws I thought of
1 I'm disorganized and yes sometimes that does effect my marriage as I married someone who is organized and he wants every in it's place.
2 I can be overly sensitive and think to much about something. I usually don't say anything anything about it. Sometimes I wish I had a thicker skin about things.
1 I'm disorganized and yes sometimes that does effect my marriage as I married someone who is organized and he wants every in it's place.
2 I can be overly sensitive and think to much about something. I usually don't say anything anything about it. Sometimes I wish I had a thicker skin about things.
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Do you....
have an ultra high-pitched giggle? No I have a deep belly laugh but it does come in many different flavours and varieties.
scratch yourself in public? Only if I have an itch and it is always done discreetly.
wear blue glittery eye shadow? NO, but would like to give it a go.
habitually late? I use to be very good at this but God has healed me
cuss? Sadly yes, when my brain is not engaged.
give unsolicited advice? Only when requested to give unsolicited advice.
dress like a slob? Do pyjamas count as dressing like a slob, if the answer is yes then my answer is yes.
say "like" after every other word? God has also healed me of this, although for a time I replaced like with the word groovy (was trying to revive the word 'groovy' but was not successful)
1. What quality do you have that could potentially drive your friends or a special someone crazy over a long period of time?
I can be a little overly passion about things for example if I read a good book I love sharing it with everyone, I have come to realise my passion does not translate into another persons passion.
I tend to mull some things over in my head before sharing them and sometimes people can assume that as lack of interest or opinion.
I can be a little literal at times and talk a little too much
2. Is this something you feel you need to work on, or is it something that other people simply need to accept about you?
I have worked on my passion issues, I still have the passion just do not overwhelm others with it unless of course it is completely awesome and just needs to be shared. I am a little more selective as to who I share it with thou.
The mulling thing this is how God created me and I think I could not change it if I wanted to, it makes me a deeper thinker and I dont really want to change that.
Yes God and I have been working on the talking too much part and we have made huge improvement in this area.
3. Do you think this has created a barrier in regards to cultivating relationships?
The mulling part has caused damage to cultivating some relationships but I am more self aware and can share the fact that I need thinking time and am more proactive than reactive these days.
4. Has God convicted you of this? Are you seeking to make improvements in this area? Would you like prayer support in this area? Yes the talking part indeed, improvements have been made.
have an ultra high-pitched giggle? No I have a deep belly laugh but it does come in many different flavours and varieties.
scratch yourself in public? Only if I have an itch and it is always done discreetly.
wear blue glittery eye shadow? NO, but would like to give it a go.
habitually late? I use to be very good at this but God has healed me
cuss? Sadly yes, when my brain is not engaged.
give unsolicited advice? Only when requested to give unsolicited advice.
dress like a slob? Do pyjamas count as dressing like a slob, if the answer is yes then my answer is yes.
say "like" after every other word? God has also healed me of this, although for a time I replaced like with the word groovy (was trying to revive the word 'groovy' but was not successful)
1. What quality do you have that could potentially drive your friends or a special someone crazy over a long period of time?
I can be a little overly passion about things for example if I read a good book I love sharing it with everyone, I have come to realise my passion does not translate into another persons passion.
I tend to mull some things over in my head before sharing them and sometimes people can assume that as lack of interest or opinion.
I can be a little literal at times and talk a little too much
2. Is this something you feel you need to work on, or is it something that other people simply need to accept about you?
I have worked on my passion issues, I still have the passion just do not overwhelm others with it unless of course it is completely awesome and just needs to be shared. I am a little more selective as to who I share it with thou.
The mulling thing this is how God created me and I think I could not change it if I wanted to, it makes me a deeper thinker and I dont really want to change that.
Yes God and I have been working on the talking too much part and we have made huge improvement in this area.
3. Do you think this has created a barrier in regards to cultivating relationships?
The mulling part has caused damage to cultivating some relationships but I am more self aware and can share the fact that I need thinking time and am more proactive than reactive these days.
4. Has God convicted you of this? Are you seeking to make improvements in this area? Would you like prayer support in this area? Yes the talking part indeed, improvements have been made.