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Demi777

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You say you feel alone now? Okay then let me send one of your parents across the world that you cannot talk to him and when you call he just tells you '' yur a waste of time blabla'' and you hand up. How about you take a step back. Look at thing the way they are and dont cover yourself in self-pity. Life isnt easy. No one wants to be alone but hey we're young and we got time. Take the time to grow. How should God give you someone with their burdens if you cannot handle your own? Dont throw yourself away because of peeps who aint worth it or you will like me, and many others, have to learn the hard way over and over again. Relationships are nice but theyre not something to depend on. Marriages and relationships end every day through trouble or death of a partner. Focus on things eternal not temporary.

Whining on ''how long youve been waiting'' and ''how bad eveything seems right now'' will not bring you further. Stop living in the past. Grow up and be a man and not a boy. No decent young woman wants a boy.
 
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You say you feel alone now? Okay then let me send one of your parents across the world that you cannot talk to him and when you call he just tells you '' yur a waste of time blabla'' and you hand up. How about you take a step back. Look at thing the way they are and dont cover yourself in self-pity. Life isnt easy. No one wants to be alone but hey we're young and we got time. Take the time to grow. How should God give you someone with their burdens if you cannot handle your own? Dont throw yourself away because of peeps who aint worth it or you will like me, and many others, have to learn the hard way over and over again. Relationships are nice but theyre not something to depend on. Marriages and relationships end every day through trouble or death of a partner. Focus on things eternal not temporary.

Whining on ''how long youve been waiting'' and ''how bad eveything seems right now'' will not bring you further. Stop living in the past. Grow up and be a man and not a boy. No decent young woman wants a boy.
Gees tell it like it is >. <
 

Demi777

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Gees tell it like it is >. <
Well sis young or not if we want a guy at our side we want a man who can take over the Job that God has put on his part and not whine about breaking a finger nail off! Agree or disagree? Men are what we want. Protective, Loyal, Reliable, True Men who can build up and keep up a family and are ready to be what God calls them to be no matter if in Life/relationships or Ministry! Steadfast men!
 
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Well sis young or not if we want a guy at our side we want a man who can take over the Job that God has put on his part and not whine about breaking a finger nail off! Agree or disagree? Men are what we want. Protective, Loyal, Reliable, True Men who can build up and keep up a family and are ready to be what God calls them to be no matter if in Life/relationships or Ministry! Steadfast men!
Yea Yea I know haha
 
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#67
Naw my parents sides are starting to show up lol..
Ugh I hate when that happens.
Or you say something and you are like
Wow....I just sounded like my father (or mom) haha
 

Demi777

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Ugh I hate when that happens.
Or you say something and you are like
Wow....I just sounded like my father (or mom) haha
Well in this case it maybe was good. I cant always keep myself held back and let others do the work. Time that I stand up for myself (and other woman) all in all too. :)
 

Desdichado

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Ugh I hate when that happens.
Or you say something and you are like
Wow....I just sounded like my father (or mom) haha
You think you're doing that now. Just wait about a decade.

I'll never forget walking past a small mirror in a hallway and thinking "I've never seen that picture of my uncle before." Uggghhh
 

Desdichado

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Well sis young or not if we want a guy at our side we want a man who can take over the Job that God has put on his part and not whine about breaking a finger nail off! Agree or disagree? Men are what we want. Protective, Loyal, Reliable, True Men who can build up and keep up a family and are ready to be what God calls them to be no matter if in Life/relationships or Ministry! Steadfast men!
Me in 20 years (give or take).

"You see son, a good man is like a Glock only not amoral."
 
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You think you're doing that now. Just wait about a decade.

I'll never forget walking past a small mirror in a hallway and thinking "I've never seen that picture of my uncle before." Uggghhh
Lol
XD
Well I don't even live with them so I hope sounding like them won't be as big a problem for me haha

As for looking like them
I already look like my father haha
 
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Well in this case it maybe was good. I cant always keep myself held back and let others do the work. Time that I stand up for myself (and other woman) all in all too. :)
That's true
 

Desdichado

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xD Yeah I can see that happen lmao
Hey, I'll teach my children great lessons. They won't be able to repeat said lessons ver batim in a public school.

In that case I'll be arrested. :p
 

Demi777

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Hey, I'll teach my children great lessons. They won't be able to repeat said lessons ver batim in a public school.

In that case I'll be arrested. :p
Bro Imma just bail you back out. Im sure youll have WiFi in jail :)
 
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Colt45Bullet

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Not exactly uplifting...
 
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Maybe not but true sweetie
Sometimes the truth is tuff.
We already have more than we deserve. We have the everlasting love of Jesus.
He will provide what you need. I promise
 
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Maybe not but true sweetie
Sometimes the truth is tuff.
We already have more than we deserve. We have the everlasting love of Jesus.
He will provide what you need. I promise
(That's close enough right Demi? Haha)