I want to die
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At first I thought of telling you to go to the Singles forum, for there's many there to help you. Then I read this:
At first you sound like you're not saved & don't care..... but then I read this:
Now it seems we have an educated individual who knows their stuff. Switching personas on the fly..... IMO, that can only sum up one kind of individual..... a TROLL.
At first you sound like you're not saved & don't care..... but then I read this:
Now it seems we have an educated individual who knows their stuff. Switching personas on the fly..... IMO, that can only sum up one kind of individual..... a TROLL.
People also say “Love is an action, not a feeling,” and to some degree that’s true. But when you love someone, don’t you at least feel that they’re important to you? That they’re worth investing in? Unlike a lot of people, I don’t believe actions generate feelings. Paul himself said if he did all these great things, and yet did them without love, they wouldn’t mean anything. You can marry someone and sacrifice for them and stay faithful to them and do all the things you’re supposed to do, and still not love them.
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I have it all together. I just put it in a really safe place, can't remember where it was, and think I threw it out.
I sometimes wonder if there is a secret ground where IT does come together goes, because I have yet to meet the person who does have IT all together. (I don't even know what IT is. lol)
I sometimes wonder if there is a secret ground where IT does come together goes, because I have yet to meet the person who does have IT all together. (I don't even know what IT is. lol)
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I'd like you to do yourself a favor. Take those words, copy them onto a .doc, enlarge them big enough to see from the other side of your room while keeping it on just one piece of paper, (which, if you're like me, will take hours lol), and then print them out.
And then post it in your room.
Why? Because when we're drowning in fears and worries it's hard to remember we get emotional sometimes. (and it's not a "just." It is very much a right into the gut terror when it hits.) BUT it gets better from there. Not always right away, but it does.
And then post it in your room.
Why? Because when we're drowning in fears and worries it's hard to remember we get emotional sometimes. (and it's not a "just." It is very much a right into the gut terror when it hits.) BUT it gets better from there. Not always right away, but it does.
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Love is also a choice. You're stuck with your family but you get to choose your spouse. Don't marry anyone who you don't love and don't marry anyone who doesn't love you back. And then once in marriage keep remembering why you love him and show it. Much easier than family.
Then again, God has been working on me loving my family for decades now. One I cannot. He has done such terrible things to me there is nothing to love. And yet, after all these years, God did some pretty spiffy work on both of us, and I do, very much, love him
Love, like 1 Cor. 13. Not love like chocolate. (Although chocolate is quite lovely, it's all about what I get out of it, not what I give it. So, love chocolate, but not the same kind of love. lol)
Choice is an action, and that choice is a God-given skill too.
Then again, God has been working on me loving my family for decades now. One I cannot. He has done such terrible things to me there is nothing to love. And yet, after all these years, God did some pretty spiffy work on both of us, and I do, very much, love him
Love, like 1 Cor. 13. Not love like chocolate. (Although chocolate is quite lovely, it's all about what I get out of it, not what I give it. So, love chocolate, but not the same kind of love. lol)
Choice is an action, and that choice is a God-given skill too.
It's true that you don't choose your birth parents. But that doesn't mean they'll love you. In fact, a lot of children who were initially wanted by their parents are also abused by them, even though they claim to "love" them. But that's not true. A real family is one that loves. You may be related by blood, but if you don't love each other, that's meaningless.