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I think flirting is great if its not overdone. It's the way to let someone know you are interested. I've read a lot that a guy won't ask a girl out if he's not sure if she is interested or not. The only problem there is sometimes us girls think we are being obviouse enough and apparently we aren't lol. The one thing I hate is when someone has a "flirty" personality. I know some people say "I can't help it" and they are lying, but there are some people who trully don't realize they are doing it. I know because I have a friend like that (ok so he's actually my crush). But seriously, he told me once how his teacher said he was a lady's man and he said he couldn't understand why he gave that impression. When I bashfully admited that he does come across flirty he seemed really upset and confused. He also wouldn't lay off the topic until I told him how he was acting that way. I ended up not telling him cause that would mean telling him all the things he does around me that make me think he is flirting with me.
a ton of people mistake my friendly affectionate nature for flirting when i most often don't mean it as such.
since guys tend to read these signals from my behavior anyway...no matter what my intentions are...i don't really put much stake in monitoring myself that closely. flirty. not flirty. it's not like they can tell the difference. lol.
i tend to wear my heart on my face so 8 times out of 10 i accidentally have 'flirty face' on when i see a cute guy. lol. but it's not like an intentional 'oh i think i'll flirt with a stranger' thing. it's just my nature.
and i usually only intentionally flirt with someone i'm crushing on. and even then. i am the most awkward flirt you will probably ever meet. but i am not one to hide my emotions. so if i feel it? i say it.
since guys tend to read these signals from my behavior anyway...no matter what my intentions are...i don't really put much stake in monitoring myself that closely. flirty. not flirty. it's not like they can tell the difference. lol.
i tend to wear my heart on my face so 8 times out of 10 i accidentally have 'flirty face' on when i see a cute guy. lol. but it's not like an intentional 'oh i think i'll flirt with a stranger' thing. it's just my nature.
and i usually only intentionally flirt with someone i'm crushing on. and even then. i am the most awkward flirt you will probably ever meet. but i am not one to hide my emotions. so if i feel it? i say it.
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I think it depends on a lot of factors, such as if the flirting is too racy, or relationship status, but I will be the first to admit I absolutely LOVE flirting! People have also mistaken politeness from me as flirtatious when it was not my intent though. Honestly, I flirt in a comical way. If I'm trying to be serious about it, it gets too awkward, but comical flirting is a ton of fun and I always try it out on my friends. I'm worse than all of you in that department I guess. You guys are missing out. 
I think it depends on a lot of factors, such as if the flirting is too racy, or relationship status, but I will be the first to admit I absolutely LOVE flirting! People have also mistaken politeness from me as flirtatious when it was not my intent though. Honestly, I flirt in a comical way. If I'm trying to be serious about it, it gets too awkward, but comical flirting is a ton of fun and I always try it out on my friends. I'm worse than all of you in that department I guess. You guys are missing out.
That said, if my girlfriend comically flirted with another guy I'd let that guy take her home.
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I don't mind flirting. Just not with someone else when I already have a girlfriend. That said, if my girlfriend comically flirted with another guy I'd let that guy take her home.
That said, if my girlfriend comically flirted with another guy I'd let that guy take her home.
I wouldn't if I were in a relationship even just jokingly... except with my beloved of course!
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LoL Well my friends and I are all single and we just play around. I wouldn't if I were in a relationship even just jokingly... except with my beloved of course!
I wouldn't if I were in a relationship even just jokingly... except with my beloved of course!
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I just think, from watching a good number of girls/women over the whopping 27 years of my life (I'm so OLD!!), that the majority of women who say they don't/can't flirt are usually saying it AS a way to flirt. Playing "innocent" or "coy". It's usually said to a guy in such a way as to make that guy start flirting with her, to "teach" her, I guess. I don't know.
But! Like I said, there's a few ladies here who have said they just really don't know how to flirt, and I believe it...from a couple of those few (you're one of them, Rachel- I can't see you trying to be coy or cutesy or pretend to be anything you're not).
Oh! And yeah, I do feel that women are, in general, born with a natural ability to flirt. I think, though, it takes a certain amount of attraction to bring it out in some women.
THAT ^^^ is a little bit of Cristen Theory for you.
But! Like I said, there's a few ladies here who have said they just really don't know how to flirt, and I believe it...from a couple of those few (you're one of them, Rachel- I can't see you trying to be coy or cutesy or pretend to be anything you're not).
Oh! And yeah, I do feel that women are, in general, born with a natural ability to flirt. I think, though, it takes a certain amount of attraction to bring it out in some women.
THAT ^^^ is a little bit of Cristen Theory for you.