any same sex attracted Christian men on this site?

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eminemjrxx

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thats unfare y do i hav to be a A* studunt or wotevar to fight for my contry
 

T_Laurich

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thats unfare y do i hav to be a A* studunt or wotevar to fight for my contry
I think you are starting to detour from the main topic, if you wish to continue this topic create a new thread about it...
 
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eminemjrxx

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sorry man i didnt meen to get of topic
 
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HyrulianHeroine

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umm confusing topic lol but to answer both

The first is something I am fighting to get over. I no longer have my paster to help me with it, (he passed away)

The second, if you cannot manage to get an A in high school how do you expect to even do slightly well during your AIT?

The military wants the best, so therefore they expect the best. It's not all just guns and fighting
 
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krow

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Very interesting, were you always celibate or have just decided that it is for you now?
 
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krow

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That isn't bad advice but doesn't always work out well becuase ether they don't know what to do, or they are dead set on things only being one way. In a black and white world and will heap loads of requirements on your shoulders and not be willing to help you with it at all. On the other end if you want to be celibate they can be an accountability partner, and otherwise it's just good to be open and honest about who and what you are.
 
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krow

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Playing with fire is what you guys are doing...

I don't ask the question "Is there any female who has a problem with lustful thoughts towards men, so they can understand my position..."

Just saying that this is strait up playing with fire... Because one of the first things you will talk about is your sexual sins and struggles... If I did that with a female or even offered the notion, many here would scream and yell... Yet, we have come to the cultural standard that only homosexual's can consult homosexuals... I find it funny because it is not deemed the same with other sexual sins, such as adultery.
There we go, forgot to hit quote before..
That isn't bad advice but doesn't always work out well becuase ether they don't know what to do, or they are dead set on things only being one way. In a black and white world and will heap loads of requirements on your shoulders and not be willing to help you with it at all. On the other end if you want to be celibate they can be an accountability partner, and otherwise it's just good to be open and honest about who and what you are.
 
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krow

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Hi, I'm a Christian kleptomaniac and I'd like to find another Christian kleptomaniac with whom I can chat. Do you know of anyone?

BTW, I'm not interested in acknowledging my sin or changing my behavior or being healed of my sin, I just want to talk about my sin with another person who has the same sin condition.

That's okay, right?
Not really comparable, and if you have nothing better to add it's probably not a good idea to pipe in.
 
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krow

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Are you wanting to talk to someone about kicking the habit or keeping it? Your message is vauge........
It's not like porn addiction, smoking or drugs, or something you could "kick the habit"... if God chooses to take away same sex attractions with me that is up to Him, if I choose to be celibate or engage in homosexual behavior or (hopefully find a boyfriend someday) that is between me and my Creator. For a time I thought I could be celibate being that this life is very short but I don't think I can do that. Yes I have been foolish and had sex without a relationship which has made things harder because the body will always want more, but that gets boring and eventually you need something more nourishing, even a great male companion without sex would be a great blessing right now. And yes everything is a lil easier when a close relationship with God (Jesus) is nurtured which I have neglect for a few years now. I can't be anything other than vague because the future is fluid and always in motion, I can't tell you with certainty I could abstain and never have sex with a man again.
 
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krow

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Man to get into the army, you have to take an asvab test.... The test goes over English math, and science....
Wow I went away for a few days and 3 different conversations started in here o_O
 
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eminemjrxx

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Lol u shud nevar leve us heer by ourselvs for so long. Anyfing cud hapen.
 

santuzza

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Originally Posted by santuzza
Hi, I'm a Christian kleptomaniac and I'd like to find another Christian kleptomaniac with whom I can chat. Do you know of anyone?

BTW, I'm not interested in acknowledging my sin or changing my behavior or being healed of my sin, I just want to talk about my sin with another person who has the same sin condition.

That's okay, right?



Not really comparable, and if you have nothing better to add it's probably not a good idea to pipe in.
Actually, it's a perfect analogy because both are sinful behaviors that have addictive properties. Not unlike Alcoholism.
 

know1

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I am a same sex attracted Christian and would love to chat. Been looking for someone who understands to share stories and experiences with.
I thought this was a Christian forum.
 

know1

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It's not like porn addiction, smoking or drugs, or something you could "kick the habit"... if God chooses to take away same sex attractions with me that is up to Him, if I choose to be celibate or engage in homosexual behavior or (hopefully find a boyfriend someday) that is between me and my Creator. For a time I thought I could be celibate being that this life is very short but I don't think I can do that. Yes I have been foolish and had sex without a relationship which has made things harder because the body will always want more, but that gets boring and eventually you need something more nourishing, even a great male companion without sex would be a great blessing right now. And yes everything is a lil easier when a close relationship with God (Jesus) is nurtured which I have neglect for a few years now. I can't be anything other than vague because the future is fluid and always in motion, I can't tell you with certainty I could abstain and never have sex with a man again.

You will not be able to stop until you get rid of the spirit that drives you. You will only get worse and the desires will only get stronger, while you get weaker in resisting. You will start thinking like it does , which is that it is okay and that it's not bad. And you will definitely act more and more like it, until you are delivered from it.
 

wanderer6059

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its not a quick fix... think of this as a broken arm...

It is going to take some time to heal but what you do can either speed up the healing or keep your bone broken for ever...

Every time you think lustfully you are accidentally hitting your arm against something... It can cause some irritation and impede on your bones health but you can still keep on relative track... If you think about lustful thoughts too often then you are starting to shift the bone causing a further time until its healed...

When you start to entertain the thoughts (such as a sexual thought pops into your head but instead of praying and asking for forgiveness and strength) You instead start to entertain the thought for a while, what you are doing is taking a accidental bump and then slamming your arm against the wall in anger...

And every time you actually carry out a sexual thought, no matter how fully healed the bone you will snap it like a twig...

And view God as your doctor and prayer as medicine... Anytime your arm hurts or you bumped it consult your doctor and take your medicine...
nice breakdown on sin
 
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Tintin

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wot dus that evan meen..??
It means there's a reason that there are more modern Bible translations than the King James version from hundreds of years ago.
 
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eminemjrxx

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oh...thanks :)
 
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Tintin

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Actually, it's a perfect analogy because both are sinful behaviors that have addictive properties. Not unlike Alcoholism.
It's hard to disagree with yourself when you quote yourself. But I agree with your stance and analogy.
 
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flight316

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Hmmm, I'll let you guys deal with that homosexual stuff. But will somebody please explain to me why they talk with that weird voice. Is that real? Or is that something that they create. What is that all about.
 
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All this thread is saying is the people are more influenced by the media and the world than by God. Anderson Cooper and Ellen DeGeneres show how attractive these people can be, and government is suing if we discriminate by staying apart and not performing their weddings. How can God compete with something that powerful?