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My husband couldn't hold a conversation with me at first Zero, for about a year I'd see him off and on with my friends. He hardly spoke to me. I actually thought he didn't like me at all. I talked to my friend about it and she said," Ok, the deal is, he likes you, but he has a huge crush on you and is very shy when you're around."
Well I thought he was really cute, but you know if you think someone doesn't like you as a person, you don't pursue anything. I took the bull by the horns and called him. He was in college at the time at Penn State, so he was about 3 hours away. He'd come home about once a month, so I called and asked him if he wanted to have dinner the next time he was in town. Well that broke the ice because we ended up talking on the phone for about 3 hours and emailed and chatted with each other on the computer almost everyday after that.
I guess my husband was lucky that I was not going to let his shyness hold me back from talking to a cute guy. But once you get comfortable with someone I'm sure you can hold a conversation.
What if you're all three? ^_~
Nah, but seriously man, don't sweat it too much. Average height for a guy is about 5'11, and girls are around 5'6 if I remember correctly. Nonetheless, confidence does play a large part in attraction. I think if you're just yourself (and comfortable in being so), that's the best for you and those that like you. NO surprises or fake personas to keep up with, yeah?
Nah, but seriously man, don't sweat it too much. Average height for a guy is about 5'11, and girls are around 5'6 if I remember correctly. Nonetheless, confidence does play a large part in attraction. I think if you're just yourself (and comfortable in being so), that's the best for you and those that like you. NO surprises or fake personas to keep up with, yeah?
My younger sister is kinda tall ... 5'11. She always said "I have to have a guy taller than me." Her soon to be fiance is 5'8. She wouldn't trade him in for a taller guy for anything. He also said that his future wife had to be shorter than him... think he cares about that anymore? Nahhhh. In my opinion people just state their preferences until someone comes along and changes it. I wouldn't worry about it...... Most preferences are changeable.
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No, it's really not that big of a thing Bo. It only seems big because you are a bit insecure about it, but that can change as you rely on the Lord to free you of this and really begin to understand your value to Lord and all of the things you have to offer to others through Him. Your confidence in the Lord will increase and your insecurities will decrease. Remember King David? While the Bible lets us know he was goodly to look upon, He was not the biggest, or the tallest of his siblings or many others, but he was chosen by God and he allowed the Lord to work through him resulting in great victorious feats! As a matter of fact this scripture came from David's story: But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance (meaning David's brothers), or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. ISam16:7, read all of chapters 16 and 17, awesome passage! Then study Psalm 139 and let that be further encouragement to you, particularly verses 13-17.
My mom married my step dad who was a lot shorter than her, and she is short, and she married in heels, was about 5 inches above him. What makes a good self confident character, is that a man knows where he stands, he's not a whimp in God's eyes, and the women from the LOrd should look up, to him no matter what, no I said a joke about I'd rather be single and wear heels than to be with a man who's slightly shorter, that's why jk means just kidding. 
To me height, and age just should not matter, Love is real.
To me height, and age just should not matter, Love is real.
This may sound cheering but I don´t belive in "one size fits all"
PS
The age DO counts, speaciallly after 45, by the way.
