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So back to the fact that (honestly not trying to sound arrogant) I resemble all of these traits...there's obviously more to having a relationship than wit, size, and perception.
Honestly, there are dozens if not a hundred things I think people look for. And some they don't say. For example, I think what you find physically attractive plays more of a role than many admit, but looks also do not a good pair make. So...*shrug*
Honestly, there are dozens if not a hundred things I think people look for. And some they don't say. For example, I think what you find physically attractive plays more of a role than many admit, but looks also do not a good pair make. So...*shrug*
I hate this stigma that people try place on finding someone physically attractive. It doesn't make you shallow. It doesn't make you superficial. It doesn't make to typical. It doesn't make you immature, unintelligent or anything like that.
Personally (yeh I'm about to put this out there), anyone who has a negative view of someone who goes for someone based on physical attraction, is probably struggling with a personal insecurity....that's usually the case.
Personally (yeh I'm about to put this out there), anyone who has a negative view of someone who goes for someone based on physical attraction, is probably struggling with a personal insecurity....that's usually the case.
I had a professor that passed away in April that was married for fifty years. They weren't physically attracted to each other when they first started seeing each other. The most consistent things in any relationship are building one another in their relationships with Christ, and chemistry.Sure we all some preferences, whether big or small, but at the end of the day everything else really isn't that important.
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I think physical attraction grows after you get to know someone's personality. Once you know more about them and find traits in them that you like, their appearance will appeal more to you as well. The problem is just getting past that initial reaction - and let's be honest, we all do it, because looks are what we see first. My best friend was not attracted to her husband at all when she first met him. She called him a goon. Now she calls him the most handsome man on the planet. It really is all about what's on the inside.
