I agree haha. I agree with everything you're saying.
When I say mystery, I mean more like.....I'm not the type of girl that opens about my whole life in the beginning. I am open about my life, and I am an open book. But, I feel it needs to take some time to really get to know a person. Men have called me mysterious because of it. I'm not going to just sit down with you and say, "Okay, here are my struggles. Here's what happened to me 10 years ago. I'm scared of this and that," etc etc.
Casual conversations are great because it helps you get to know someone. Deep conversations are great as well. I am also careful of not creating an "emotional bond" within the first few days of talking, because I've had rushed relationships and it's not at all fun. It always ended in hurt and pain.
That's what I mean by mystery.
When I say mystery, I mean more like.....I'm not the type of girl that opens about my whole life in the beginning. I am open about my life, and I am an open book. But, I feel it needs to take some time to really get to know a person. Men have called me mysterious because of it. I'm not going to just sit down with you and say, "Okay, here are my struggles. Here's what happened to me 10 years ago. I'm scared of this and that," etc etc.
Casual conversations are great because it helps you get to know someone. Deep conversations are great as well. I am also careful of not creating an "emotional bond" within the first few days of talking, because I've had rushed relationships and it's not at all fun. It always ended in hurt and pain.
That's what I mean by mystery.