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My heart is devastated. I have been asking God for prayer and guidance. Praying for God to reveal to me what my heart is telling me. I believe that God has always given me a spirit of discernment and He has never steared me wrong. My husband and I just bought a home, we have a two year old son and a 2 month old daughter. In the more recent months my husband and his male best friend of 6 years have been communicating more and have had quite unusual behavior. But this last week has been my spirit in a very broken place. My husband recently had gotten an inflamed prostate, which is bacterial. It can only be contracted by e-coli. Two night prior his male friend came to visit and they snuck out of the house in the middle of the night. He hides phone calls between the two of them and deletes the messages they get back and forth. The straw that broke the camels back was the voicemail I heard on my husbands phone from his male best friend. His exact words to my husband were that he is sad he missed his call and that he was so excited when he saw his name pop up on his phone, and that my husband should call him back right away once he gets his message. My husband is denying everything, but we have been together for 12 years and I know him well enough to tell when he is telling the truth or not. He also makes comments about how good looking his friend is and how big his feet and hands are.... Please tell me I am not reading into things. I have confronted my husband and have prayed feverishly over my marriage asking God for guidance. Any advice or prayers on what I should do? I have told my husband that we cannot invite people into our marriage whos intentions are to break us up.... and he claims he didnt even notice his friends behavior. I also confronted him that their body-language around one another sets off red flags for me. Any advice will help. My heart is broken.