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The bdf is not for the faint of heart and I say this in honesty not to put anyone down. Lots of people have a hard time responding in love and calmness in the fires of the war zone called the bdf this is something that God teaches and molds in us and for some it takes longer than others.
I didn't used to be able to respond in love but in time God molded it into me. The issue is some never learn this because their reason for being in the bdf is not to learn and discuss the things of God. Some relish the high of a fiery heated debate and have no intention of learning only to prove themselves right these are the ones who need our prayers the most as they will never know God or love in that state of mind.
The bdf is indeed a harsh place but interestingly enough is also the best field for God's love to shine the most considering how a majority of the bdf lacks his love after all the light shines brightest in the darkness
I didn't used to be able to respond in love but in time God molded it into me. The issue is some never learn this because their reason for being in the bdf is not to learn and discuss the things of God. Some relish the high of a fiery heated debate and have no intention of learning only to prove themselves right these are the ones who need our prayers the most as they will never know God or love in that state of mind.
The bdf is indeed a harsh place but interestingly enough is also the best field for God's love to shine the most considering how a majority of the bdf lacks his love after all the light shines brightest in the darkness
I think you are right that some don't participate with the intention to learn from others or they start threads with the intent to put down other schools of thought. I think that we are all responsible for our posts and interactions on the forum. I've had to learn this myself. In the past on other forums, I found myself getting provoked by certain harsh posts and responding in a similar manner. If we aren't careful we can get dragged into contention and fall into the mindset of reading others posts to find error. It's okay to enjoy a spirited debate ( I admit I kind of like debates, haha), but we need to be civil and respectful. It isn't easy to be humble and allow others to have the last word in an argument or debate, but it's the healthiest thing spiritually. Also, we can set the tone for discussions. If we refuse to post in a harsh or arrogant manner, we can help soften the response of others. There can't be a true fight or blowup without the participation of both sides