Yes it is all about love. I haven't seen any posts really which focus on the subject, and in talking people don't really focus on it, and in the church it is referenced but not focused on. I think that the disassociation people have with love is the main issue in the world, which is WHY the world stays the way it is. Essentially people think about themselves first. And the reason for this is that all of us have experienced pain when it comes to love. It could be when we are very young and experience abuse of different kinds, it could be when we start to grow up as a teenager and experience break ups, rejections, or broken trust, it can be when we get older and people that we love die.
We have all experienced pain in association to love. And I think we should really start talking about it. I've been saying this for years, but in all my attempts to change focus to it, people continue to avoid it. To me it seems almost a sub-conscious avoidance.
Jesus said, only by being like this child... My opinion is that, he was talking about how it is growing into this shell of former self that stops people from entering the kingdom of heaven. And I have an opinion on what the kingdom of heaven refers to but I won't go into that at this moment in time.
Do children inspires adults into seeing the magic and colours of the world and in each other, or do adults enslave children into believing life is hard, life is a struggle, work hard it's all about money, put yourself first, take responsibility instead of being like a child, it's a dangerous world, "
fear is more important than love"?
As a bright and observational child I saw these things when I was very young. The question I always asked myself was, why do older people seem so weary, or unhappy?
Now if I ask this as an adult to an adult directly, I'm going to be in for some retaliation, defense mechanisms, or analysis of why this is just the way it is. But if a child asks this to an adult directly, then they will be looked upon as somewhat naïve, as if, not yet knowing 'how' reality is, although they will not be rebutted. But I believe we can change the reality we live in, if, for once in history, we focus on love. It is the focus of love by few people, which has changed many things. One person can be the seed that changes the whole of reality. That's because it really is only love which is the works by which God is coming through for everyone and for each other.
When we express love, we express being in the image of God, we express and extend the work of God, which is how we were born as a child, for God is love. Children make mistakes, they may do things which we deem as sins, but do adults ever really talk about children being sinners? No, because we see them as pure and innocent at that point of learning. But that is an interesting thought on things, right?
As I must repeat, I'm not looking for any dissection or correction of what I said. If there is something good to take away, or something good that inspires a thought in you, that is what is important. I'm a creative and deep thinker about things, I've always questioned things. Adults are very good at telling other adults not to be like a child. What I mean is, when a child shows you a picture that looks like nothing, we don't say to that child what a load of rubbish? Some parents do obviously, and that is one point of fractured love. And likewise if we each talk and have our own opinions, how we respond should be an example of acceptance for each others unique aspects. We are all right to some degree, we all make mistakes to some degree, none of us are perfect.
But what is perfect is being in an open friendly space where we can express different things, or speak as if a 'rough draft' so to say, and accept our different colours. What is perfect is expressing rather than keeping quiet because some people will try to put you down or correct you (in one form or another).
Together we can create and learn beautiful things. Apart from each other, we learn and create nothing. We are all on the same page, if we remember that as child, this is how things were. And maybe we were bullied by other children, but why were they bullies? Were they born that way, or did it have something to do with either their parents love for them, abuse, or, loss? These are all things which develop our association to love, or rather our fear of it, our walls.
If I was a cynic, I would say it is all nice pie in the sky when you die.
Guilty sensitive people, wanting to assuage their guilt and hoping by doing some religion
everything will balance out. I mean, nobody actually changes, it is all make believe.
But I know Jesus does change us, and love is our problem. I know because love was my
problem and I seriously did not believe anyone really loved or could love me, because I
had been betrayed and left out to dry too many times. But Jesus did it all.
And this has changed me, changed everything about me, what I want, what I do, how I speak
and how I listen. And this is why Jesus matters, this is eternal reality, not make believe or
something your parents hoped you would follow, or the nice sermon the preacher gave in church
but is just christian culture. This is blood and flesh reality, for which people die, and when they
do not know this love it is like hell on earth, lost and without hope.