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Right and being condescending really helps resolve an issue,so it hasn't occurred to you that with your accusation toward the OP(whether you see it as an accusation is irrelevant) may have led her to leave the site because she may now be worse off than before,sure evil spirits can influence people(if you don't accept the holy spirit) but you don't insinuate to a possibly mental disorder person that they may have an evil spirit immediately because they start feeling condemned or even more worried,though you aren't the only one that could have spoken more compassionately and wisely,just saying when you want to "help" someone you must try to understand their point of view,and give "helpful" advice making someone aware of possible evil spirits can "scare" them which is folly,it's better to speak first on what they "can" do about their "problem",after all you sound more as if you believe evil spirits such as the devil to be more powerful than God or Jesus,because you are more "fixated" on letting this individual know about evil spirit influence than trying to teach the person how to overcome such afflictions.
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Still can't get past you saying the woman that is cheating on a loving supportive husband as going through so much pain and needs love, when she knows exactly what she's doing. Oh and you take it out on every man that posts something harsh but true. Your signature serves you well, you are definetly no lady thats for sure....cranky old woman is more like it
As far as me without sin goes: lemme give you a run down of some of my sinful behavior. 
I drink. I gamble on occasion (mostly NFL bets). I hurt peoples feelings when I call them out. No adultery though. Sorry to disappoint you all.
I drink. I gamble on occasion (mostly NFL bets). I hurt peoples feelings when I call them out. No adultery though. Sorry to disappoint you all.
So, you don't have a problem with adultery? Well, then.... that certainly frees you up to damn someone to hell that DOES have that fault.
We need someone that has no problem with gambling to come around and verbally beat you up, though....
That's the way it works, right?
Hi Guineapigmom,
I'm not sure if you are reading all these posts. If I were you I would probably get tired of the crazy posts and stop reading. But if you haven't, I have two thoughts that could be helpful:
1.) What do you think is the source of the need for attention? Is it merely you like exciting new things or is there a deeper issue? Is there something your friends would say is the source of the infidelity? Please don't post the answer on here. At the same time you knowing the answer to that question is important.
2.) Are you seeing a counselor in real life? Someone who has a lot of experience helping people deal with their emotions and relationships could be incredibly helpful. Again no need to post the answer.
Keep searching for freedom and healing. Fidelity is worth the fight.
I'm not sure if you are reading all these posts. If I were you I would probably get tired of the crazy posts and stop reading. But if you haven't, I have two thoughts that could be helpful:
1.) What do you think is the source of the need for attention? Is it merely you like exciting new things or is there a deeper issue? Is there something your friends would say is the source of the infidelity? Please don't post the answer on here. At the same time you knowing the answer to that question is important.
2.) Are you seeing a counselor in real life? Someone who has a lot of experience helping people deal with their emotions and relationships could be incredibly helpful. Again no need to post the answer.
Keep searching for freedom and healing. Fidelity is worth the fight.
You know...
The ONLY reason the mention of an "evil spirit" might...worry, or scare people... is because of that TV screen next to you there.
Ppl hear the term "spirit of hate" ...and everyones like "oh yes! i get it! Not scary at all!".
And then ppl hear the term "evil spirit" ...then everyones like "Oh No!! Its the Exorcist! What if i turn into one of those things from Night of the Demons!! Help meee!! "
I was prepared from the very Start..to walk her through this "in private". I wasn't just gonna leave her potentially worried...and then disappear with a "smirk" on my face.
"But your not quailified!!"
OH really? Have "you" ever walked.. someone You care about .... through the process of losing their Hatred for something/someone else?... most likely YES.
"OH but YOUR saying she has an evil spirit though!! Your not an EXORCIST!"
WOW!! what did i just say?? Turn that "brain washing" screen off, next to you... and come Back to the REAL world??
Well. You can listen to your Psychology Lords if u like. But i will learn from, and believe the LORD of Heaven and earth.
When the Lord comes back...and you ask Him "what was wrong with that person?" ...what do you think Hes going to say?
"Oh that one has a Mental disorder. Its caused by the neurons in the brain that chemically react with the" blah blah blah?
Go ahead..Throw your stones at me...for lack of understanding. I WONT be moved. Not for you, your Psychology Lords, your Hollywood Masters...or ANYONE else =)
..and ive already discussed my points about mental disorders with Blain. Maybe you should read it again. Coz HE seemed to understand where i was coming from..
YOUR rebuttle to those points didnt even leave a scratch on my argument. Hence no reply.
The ONLY reason the mention of an "evil spirit" might...worry, or scare people... is because of that TV screen next to you there.
Ppl hear the term "spirit of hate" ...and everyones like "oh yes! i get it! Not scary at all!".
And then ppl hear the term "evil spirit" ...then everyones like "Oh No!! Its the Exorcist! What if i turn into one of those things from Night of the Demons!! Help meee!! "
I was prepared from the very Start..to walk her through this "in private". I wasn't just gonna leave her potentially worried...and then disappear with a "smirk" on my face.
"But your not quailified!!"
OH really? Have "you" ever walked.. someone You care about .... through the process of losing their Hatred for something/someone else?... most likely YES.
"OH but YOUR saying she has an evil spirit though!! Your not an EXORCIST!"
WOW!! what did i just say?? Turn that "brain washing" screen off, next to you... and come Back to the REAL world??
Well. You can listen to your Psychology Lords if u like. But i will learn from, and believe the LORD of Heaven and earth.
When the Lord comes back...and you ask Him "what was wrong with that person?" ...what do you think Hes going to say?
"Oh that one has a Mental disorder. Its caused by the neurons in the brain that chemically react with the" blah blah blah?
Go ahead..Throw your stones at me...for lack of understanding. I WONT be moved. Not for you, your Psychology Lords, your Hollywood Masters...or ANYONE else =)
..and ive already discussed my points about mental disorders with Blain. Maybe you should read it again. Coz HE seemed to understand where i was coming from..
YOUR rebuttle to those points didnt even leave a scratch on my argument. Hence no reply.
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Since I haven't given you advice guinea aside from responses to other posts,I'll try to be simple and constructive,many suggested counseling, that can help,I would say just try not to worry so much about keeping from adultery,try to just focus on your husband as well as what you both "need" in life,food,money,water, and let God guide you to what to do instead of yourself,because every sin can have some degree of power over you but only if you let it by repeating that same sin,so I would also suggest thinking on "innocent" thoughts such as church song,a child hood kid show,because if you don't think so much on adultery then you can clear your mind of pursuing through the holy spirit,it's not an easy thing to just "get over" since you've committed this same sin repeatedly thereby it being strong and haunts you,but "with God all things are possible" just focus on doing right by God and your relationship and in time you will no longer think on seeking anyone else,but also no matter your relationship always put God first for if whether you are married or single overtime, if you do right by God then you will receive blessings,lust is quite an annoyance but you have God to help you through such times,hope this helps.
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