The Bible is very clear. If you set aside any of God's word at all you cannot pretend that God will conform to your idea of how things ought to be. Denying something neither changes it or does away with it.
As far as the unchsngeableness of God's word;
Ecclesiastes 3:14 KJVS
I know that, whatsoever God doeth, it shall be for ever: nothing can be put to it, nor any thing taken from it: and God doeth it , that men should fear before him.
There are multiple scriptures witnessing the finality of hell. You have a Bible what does it say. Just like those that are practicing homosexuality, adultery and other uncleanness that twist the word of God to attempt to make evil good and good evil. They deceive themselves and receive the punishment for that. They are without excuse who attempts to change the meaning of any scripture.
A false definition of God's love says God will not punish those that defy Him and live in sin contrary to His word.
Galatians 6:7 KJVS
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
There will not be a rainbow at life's end for those that practice things against the commandments and written word of God.
Choose this day whom you will serve. Hell indeed is forever just as is written.
Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
I would look at the second death and the rising of a new spirit that will never die a little differently.
Second death...Dead is dead .Life is life
Can't clump together obvious sin like homosexuality or other visually identified doctrines with you own private interpretation of what you think hell is . That would be like comparing sexual preference to slavery which had to do with treating people differently because of how much melon as skin pigmentation they had.
I would think the bible would define the words and phrases used within. God’s law book the Bible spells it out real clear using the Jonas parable. Hell is the living suffering and tribulations we go through in this life when a person denies the faithful Creators perfect law called sinning .
Jon 2:2 And said, I cried
by reason of mine affliction unto the LORD, and he heard me; out of the
belly of hell cried I, and thou heardest my voice.
The word hell is used 54 times and not once to indicate someone was literally dead and still suffering..
But hell is always used in respect to the land of the living. Dead people cannot do the work of suffering. Even though some invented away to ease the sufferings of hell of this life, not trusting in Christ but a place called purgatory or limbo. How low can they go?.
When mankind suffered to do the will of another (the serpent) Adam and Eve tried to take away the suffering and attempted to cover their own hell. Their covering was not sufficient..
Hell is naked before him, and destruction hath no covering. Job 26:6
When the waves of death compassed me, the
floods of ungodly men made me afraid;The sorrows of
hell compassed me about; the snares of death prevented me; 2Sa 22:5
If a person has not received the new eternal Spirit of Christ, the born again Spirit of God therefore having passed from death to new life . When they experience the second death their temporal spirit (70-80 years ) returns to the father who gave it .
The flesh and blood return to the lifeless, spiritless rudiments of this world it was taken from
Christ as the Son of man died the second death to show his living sufferings of hell satisfied the just demands of the perfect law of God. it is why the flesh was used was typified as sinful in so much that it was corrupted, aged in a decaying process leading to total destruction.
Romans 8:3 For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh:
The phrase “the heart of the earth” speaks of the “belly of the whale” the tribulations of this life. God is not pictured as dying for our sins. He cannot die. he remains without mother or father beginning of Spirit life or end thereof. Death as an outward demonstration showing he poured out His Spirit life in jeopardy of His own Spirit.
Dead is dead never to rise to new spirit, new heart life forever more. .
God does not punish people because he did not have mercy and grace on them . Its the father of lies that accuses the brethren day and night. He is the god of the dead.