Which brings me to this next post, which is basically, Word Faith doctrine, that you owe them nothing!
I hope I am understanding you correctly when I answer this, if not break it down for me. The only thing you owe them is your apology and whether they took/take it or not is not for you to worry about. You repented tot hem and asked for their forgiveness. If they fail/failed to receive this from you, there is nothing left for you to do. The onus would be on them to forgive you, but you did the only thing that was required.
In the Old Testament, (and I will post again below) someone who said “Thus saith the Lord” and it did not come to pass, was not slapped on the wrist and told to apologize. Nor was it on the dead person to accept that forgiveness. (Using the scenerio the Lynn brought up in the OP, which is the topic of this thread - someone was prayed for, told they were healed, and yet they died!)
The point being is that happens to people who are sick, like me, who are prayed for and pronounced healed and then, when I was NOT healed, it was my fault - not enough faith, needed more magic incantations, visitations from wingless angels, etc, etc.
The interesting thing that happened in my case was that the woman who told me it was my fault I was not healed by her prayers got breast cancer, refused medical treatment (because she was healed!) and died within the year. I don’t think God sent that as a punishment, really, it was her fault for refusing medical treatment for an illness which can be helped by modern medicine. (My SIL is going on 5 years cancer free, which they say is an important milestone in the cancer not recurring.
So was my friend able to apologize to herself? Not likely! What about Kenneth Copeland Ministries, where she was an ordained minister? They prayed and declared her healed, and she was not. Should they they apologize?
I THINK NOT!!! They should be shut down for being false prophets, certainly in the case of my friend, and probably the thousands of others pronounced healed who were not. At all costs, THE SICK SHOULD NEVER BE BLAMED FOR THEIR LACK OF FAITH!!
The other Word Faith friend who pronounced me healed, also almost died, but got medical help, when a non-Word Faith person intervened and took him to the hospital. Suprisingly, it took him a long time to admit he had prophesied incorrectly, on me, himself and others. he still quotes Isa. 53:5d out of context, but acknowledged God made doctors.
Oh Lynn, don’t get me started on WoF. And the interesting thing is I did get back on my feet, years later, when I got on better meds. Now, I am not healed, but at least I am functioning and able to do things for God.
Oh, before I close, let me also mention natural healers, who have even written me on this site, telling me if I take quack nostrum this or that, change my diet to this or that, my body will heal itself, and I will be well. Which shows no understanding of the mechanism for the type of Rheumatoid Arthritis. I have. I don’t think you can find someone who eats better than I do, and have since I was 17, 27 years before RA. No sugar, gluten free, and totally organic, vegetarian, grew a lot of my own food, make everything from scratch, and still do! So, no, God did not tell you to write me and tell me to get on the Paddison diet and I would be well. At a cost, of course! (Why do these quack nostrums and healing diets seem to cost so much??)
Sorry for wandering far from the topic of the OP again. Here are those verses I promised you. Please read the bolded words, that is the crux of the issue.
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But if any prophet presumes to speak anything in my name that I have not authorized him to speak, or speaks in the name of other gods, that prophet must die. 21 Now if you say to yourselves, ‘How can we tell that a message is not from the Lord?’— 22 whenever a prophet speaks in my name and the prediction is not fulfilled, then I have not spoken it; the prophet has presumed to speak it, so you need not fear him.”
I am not saying God does not heal, when it is his will. But pronouncements of healing from God, which do not come to pass define what a false prophet is!