Job lived to be 210. His trial lasted about a year, according to the Jewish Encyclopedia. That means that 209 of his 210 years he enjoyed health and prosperity. In fact, Satan's whole point of contention was that Job only served God because God blessed him, so there's no denying that God did in fact bless His servant Job for 99.5% of his life.
The horrible things that happen here on earth are devastating. What happened to Job was devastating. Whether the horrible things are brought on by the world or the devil or our own flesh or even with our own foolish choices made on how to live. All are equally devastating. I was a saved wife and mother for many years and made many many wrong choices.
The Holy Spirit won't force us to follow Jesus. So I dealt with life based on my interpretations of who God was., I tried to protect myself and live by my own wits or leaned on other fallible people in my life. And eventually was always always disappointed and let down. I believed as I was taught that God helps those who help themselves. So I continued to help myself never giving God the opportunity to help me most. I leaned on myself and my human personality.
But when the days of self dependence finally ran their course., I lost it all., family., my position in the community., and eventually almost my sanity., I finally agreed with God that Jesus is the only way there was help for me. Then and only then did the Holy Spirit work in me... and opened my eyes to the love and grace of God in Christ. He never forces us to allow Him to work in our lives.
When you see life on earth as secondary to the love of God in Christ., it's true., the losses we sustain., although very great including family and many loved ones lost., you see that God can make all things new. He can fill in the empty places and give us more than we had before helping us forget the overwhelming sad memories of loss, regret and even horror of life. We remember but we are no longer slaves to our memories. The sting is gone.
And He begins showing us we are certainly not alone. Our perspective totally changes and Jesus becomes the focus and the answer for all the issues in your life. 2 Pet.1:3
[SUP]3 [/SUP]For His divine power has bestowed upon us all things that [are requisite and suited] to life and godliness, through the [[SUP][a][/SUP]full, personal] knowledge of Him Who called us by and to His own glory and excellence (virtue).
In Him is the power to get through it all as the Holy Spirit works in us those flowing living waters and we are filled to overflowing. And the JOY of the Lord does become our strength. We start learning not to depend on our wits or to go by our feelings. We begin learning not to walk in the flesh. And start seeing how to walk in the spirit. And the victory that comes is much better than any we could ever get on our own even if we were the smartest person on the planet or the richest.