God's nature is to heal, so when you get God you get healing. What you get out of God is what you believe about Him, more often than not. So it isn't "what a person can get out of God" but understanding who He is, and then receiving that which He freely offers.
As for your passive-aggressive accusation, that you can't let go of, if you continue down this path I'm going to have to put you back on ignore. Discuss the topic, stop using ad hominem attacks.
It isn't your place or job to point out the supposed faults of others (when in fact you are horribly mistaken). I understand correction, and helping fellow brethren to repent, with a trusted friend (or leader in the Church), but that isn't your angle. You have a pessimistic view of things, and others, I get that. Why? Well, its not my job to put you on blast before everyone and defame you. Please stop with the character assassinations.
Ben, very much agree with what you said here on all counts of your post. What we believe about God is how we will proceed in our faith. If we believe Him to be a harsh unkind Father that is how we will approach Him and others for that matter.
There is a direct correlation and effect when a person realizes and believes God loves them. There is a security and a rest that comes. It is then we can love Him back and have the ability to love others. We love Him because He first loved us. Herein is love... not that we loved God but that He loves us. 1 John 4:10 It is God who does the loving first. He shows us what this love and grace is all about.
I believe the love of God gets a bad rap in the church today. Many believers I've met get all worried when we talk about the love and grace of God and rush back to the law. Instead of preaching and sharing about how the Holy Spirit witnesses to our spirit about Jesus and the grace and truth He brought., the church is often times talking and studying the law and what we are supposed to be doing and not what God has done in and through His son on our behalf.
As you said here., when we are depending on the finished work of Christ and responding to that love by freely receiving from Him each day. That is a very good thing and what God wants us to do. It's all about Jesus. Knowing we are loved and cared for gives security and confidence in our faith as beloved sons. Something the world., the flesh and the devil never want us to be confident in.
It's not about what we can do for God it's what God did for us. When we respond to His love we have a natural desire to love Him back and want to serve Him. It's natural to our new man in Christ. The new creation that responds to God. If a man loves his wife he isn't feeling forced to serve her and she feels the same way. This is a joyful relationship. And so much the more with God. Those that can't fathom this kind of love and instead find fault with it have not known or walked it out IMO.
When we know we are loved we don't fear anything from God. We know He is for us and not against us. 1 John 4:8
[SUP]18 [/SUP]There is no fear in love [dread does not exist], but full-grown (complete, perfect) love [SUP][
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b][/SUP]brings with it the thought of punishment, and [so] he who is afraid has not reached the full maturity of love [is not yet grown into love’s complete perfection]
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[SUP]7 [/SUP]Beloved, let us love one another, for love is (springs) from God; and he who loves [his fellowmen] is begotten (born) of God and is coming [progressively] to know
and understand God [to perceive and recognize and get a better and clearer knowledge of Him].
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8 [/SUP]He who does not love has not become acquainted with God [does not and never did know Him], for God is love.
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9 [/SUP]In this the love of God was made manifest (displayed) where we are concerned: in that God sent His Son, the only begotten
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f][/SUP]unique [Son], into the world so that we might live through Him.
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10 [/SUP]In this is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation (the atoning sacrifice) for our sins.
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11 [/SUP]Beloved, if God loved us so [very much], we also ought to love one another.
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12 [/SUP]No man has at any time [yet] seen God. But if we love one another, God abides (lives and remains) in us and His love (that love which is essentially His) is brought to completion (to its full maturity, runs its full course, is perfected) in us!
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13 [/SUP]By this we come to know (perceive, recognize, and understand) that we abide (live and remain) in Him and He in us: because He has given (imparted) to us of His [Holy] Spirit.