Gay Marriage

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Jullianna

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Actually Shard, if you study their lives...in their Deism, they were more Christian than most today who call themselves Christian.

And thanks Jullianna, but there was a part when you said sister...and I'm a guy. Lol. I think the pic is throwing people off.
ooops....soooo sorry! LOL :) Yes, it's the avatar that threw me off, but I should have noted that your nick was blue :)
 
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Jullianna

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You do know that just because your gay doesn't mean you cant abstain, you don't have to be having sex to be gay, bi , pan, or transgendered.

It's irrelevant for this thread, but they were not abstaining. Don't want to get off point.
 
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That's like saying God created you to be a liar or a murderer.
No, not really. But as I've seen in other threads, we don't agree on everything, and that's okay, I don't want to talk to cookie cutters anyway.

G'day

:{D
 
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vahn

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No, not really. But as I've seen in other threads, we don't agree on everything, and that's okay, I don't want to talk to cookie cutters anyway.

G'day

:{D
WWJD............

So wait you believe God created you to be gay, even though he makes it clear that is as wrong as lying or stealing?
 
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It was really doesnt matter if he created us gay or its a choice. Who are we to tell people who they can and cant love? Why should we force christian beliefs on non-christian people? And really like does seeing two dudes walking down the stet holding hands bother you? Are you that insecure?
 
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shame on gays for not eccepeting the way god create them

Shame on the Christians that act ignorantly and discriminate against the LGBT community. If you think your more Christlike than "a gay", reevaluate your life. Do you think Christ would treat homosexuals in such a way some do now??
 
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god didnt create u as gay he create u as a girl u dont fool me
 
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BellaFlor

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The world is going towards an end, where God will judge those who did obey and follow Him(also through His Word), and those who didn't. Today's morality is going more and more down the drain, only those who stays strong in the Lord will succeed at last. Those who did what God told, not the world's view and perspectives. It is clearly written in God's Word that homosexuality is wrong, and since Jesus was and is God, I beleive that He doesn't goes away from the truths also written before He came to earth as a human being. ;)

-God Bless-
 
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Amen!! Rightly spoken.

How is that rightly spoken? I never tried to tell anyone I wasn't a girl, and I've never pretended to be a boy. or tried to fool her into thinking I was.
 

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Shame on the Christians that act ignorantly and discriminate against the LGBT community. If you think your more Christlike than "a gay", reevaluate your life. Do you think Christ would treat homosexuals in such a way some do now??

Umm nothing about homosexuality is Christlike, and God's word is clear that the gay community as you call it are not Christians. Were is past tense. They had repented of the sin to inherit the kingdom.

9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Cor 6:9-11 (KJV)
 

Crypto

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How is that rightly spoken? I never tried to tell anyone I wasn't a girl, and I've never pretended to be a boy. or tried to fool her into thinking I was.
I was meaning the first part of her statement, not the second.
 
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vahn

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Who are we to tell people who they can and cant love?
We aren't. God did.

24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.


 
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We aren't. God did.

24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.


exactly so leave it up for God to decide in the end. We know his decision if we tell them and they continue to defy god's will then they get what they get, but why waste energy trying to regulate it.
 
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vahn

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true that..
 
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bonnie2

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I'm in no place to judge, and won't. However, I do not remain silent on these issues, but rather post what I know scripture to say.
If you take offense to this, I am sorry, that was not my intent, but the truth in love is. I am still learning as are we all.

18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.
21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

28Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them. -Romans 1:18-32

1 The LORD said to Moses, 2 "Speak to the Israelites and say to them: 'I am the LORD your God. 3 You must not do as they do in Egypt, where you used to live, and you must not do as they do in the land of Canaan, where I am bringing you. Do not follow their practices. 4 You must obey my laws and be careful to follow my decrees. I am the LORD your God. 5 Keep my decrees and laws, for the man who obeys them will live by them. I am the LORD.
6 " 'No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the LORD.

7 " 'Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother. She is your mother; do not have relations with her.

8 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's wife; that would dishonor your father.

9 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.

10 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter; that would dishonor you.

11 " 'Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father's wife, born to your father; she is your sister.

12 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's sister; she is your father's close relative.

13 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your mother's sister, because she is your mother's close relative.

14 " 'Do not dishonor your father's brother by approaching his wife to have sexual relations; she is your aunt.

15 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son's wife; do not have relations with her.

16 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your brother's wife; that would dishonor your brother.

17 " 'Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. Do not have sexual relations with either her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter; they are her close relatives. That is wickedness.

18 " 'Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.

19 " 'Do not approach a woman to have sexual relations during the uncleanness of her monthly period.

20 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your neighbor's wife and defile yourself with her.

21 " 'Do not give any of your children to be sacrificed [a] to Molech, for you must not profane the name of your God. I am the LORD.

22 " 'Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.

23 " 'Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it. A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.

24 " 'Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled. 25 Even the land was defiled; so I punished it for its sin, and the land vomited out its inhabitants. 26 But you must keep my decrees and my laws. The native-born and the aliens living among you must not do any of these detestable things, 27 for all these things were done by the people who lived in the land before you, and the land became defiled. 28 And if you defile the land, it will vomit you out as it vomited out the nations that were before you.

29 " 'Everyone who does any of these detestable things—such persons must be cut off from their people. 30 Keep my requirements and do not follow any of the detestable customs that were practiced before you came and do not defile yourselves with them. I am the LORD your God.' " -Leviticus 18

Now, I am sure there are other passages which may deal with these issues, but these chapters, one from Romans and one from Leviticus, seem to specifically speak against types of sexuality. I'm not saying God doesn't love you. I'm not saying you have a demon. I'm not really trying to say anything negative to you at all. I would just encourage you to read these passages and think carefully about the choices you make. The forgiveness of sins does not give us the right to continue living in them.

I bet it would be in some ways frightening to have thoughts or feelings about the same sex. Many people may applaud you for it, and others condemn you for it. In either case, I am not one of them. For I try to neither accept nor condemn, for it is not my place. What I will ask and encourage of you though, is to seek God. In all things, put God before yourself, and he will make your paths straight. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.
Good post. I appreciate your spirit, this is very tactful and wise :)
 
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jimmydiggs

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God created him with the intention of him being a serial killer.


God created him, with the intention to decieve others.


God created this man, with the intention to confuse and test our faith.
 
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Maddog

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Gay marriage is not going to lead to incest. I don't know where people get those idiotic ideas.
Maybe not, but if one accepts the premise it stems from (ie. evething's okay as long as it's between consenting adults) then one has little argument against incestuous relationships.

I am happy that Prop 8 was decided to be unconstitutional, because it is.
I am sad it was decided to be unconstitional, because it isn't. Not really, I don't know a lot about US law so I honsetly couldn't say either way. What I can say is that the state has a duty to uphold and support the family, which is the core unit of society. Blessing same sex relationships is a failure of this duty. Furthermore, no government can ever change the definition of marriage to one which encompasses same-sex unions and they would be in error if they attempt to do so. Maybe they could get around it by calling them 'civil partnerships' as they've done in the UK, but a marriage between two men or two women is a literal impossibilty.

all the "Save Marriage" campaigns kinda make me giggle, what are we saving it from? Straight people can barely get it right.
I think they were probably wanting to save the bastardisation of the definition of marriage.