Gay Marriage

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I'm in no place to judge, and won't. However, I do not remain silent on these issues, but rather post what I know scripture to say.
If you take offense to this, I am sorry, that was not my intent, but the truth in love is. I am still learning as are we all.

18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.
21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

28Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them. -Romans 1:18-32

1 The LORD said to Moses, 2 "Speak to the Israelites and say to them: 'I am the LORD your God. 3 You must not do as they do in Egypt, where you used to live, and you must not do as they do in the land of Canaan, where I am bringing you. Do not follow their practices. 4 You must obey my laws and be careful to follow my decrees. I am the LORD your God. 5 Keep my decrees and laws, for the man who obeys them will live by them. I am the LORD.
6 " 'No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the LORD.

7 " 'Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother. She is your mother; do not have relations with her.

8 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's wife; that would dishonor your father.

9 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.

10 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter; that would dishonor you.

11 " 'Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father's wife, born to your father; she is your sister.

12 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's sister; she is your father's close relative.

13 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your mother's sister, because she is your mother's close relative.

14 " 'Do not dishonor your father's brother by approaching his wife to have sexual relations; she is your aunt.

15 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son's wife; do not have relations with her.

16 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your brother's wife; that would dishonor your brother.

17 " 'Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. Do not have sexual relations with either her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter; they are her close relatives. That is wickedness.

18 " 'Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.

19 " 'Do not approach a woman to have sexual relations during the uncleanness of her monthly period.

20 " 'Do not have sexual relations with your neighbor's wife and defile yourself with her.

21 " 'Do not give any of your children to be sacrificed [a] to Molech, for you must not profane the name of your God. I am the LORD.

22 " 'Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.

23 " 'Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it. A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.

24 " 'Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled. 25 Even the land was defiled; so I punished it for its sin, and the land vomited out its inhabitants. 26 But you must keep my decrees and my laws. The native-born and the aliens living among you must not do any of these detestable things, 27 for all these things were done by the people who lived in the land before you, and the land became defiled. 28 And if you defile the land, it will vomit you out as it vomited out the nations that were before you.

29 " 'Everyone who does any of these detestable things—such persons must be cut off from their people. 30 Keep my requirements and do not follow any of the detestable customs that were practiced before you came and do not defile yourselves with them. I am the LORD your God.' " -Leviticus 18

Now, I am sure there are other passages which may deal with these issues, but these chapters, one from Romans and one from Leviticus, seem to specifically speak against types of sexuality. I'm not saying God doesn't love you. I'm not saying you have a demon. I'm not really trying to say anything negative to you at all. I would just encourage you to read these passages and think carefully about the choices you make. The forgiveness of sins does not give us the right to continue living in them.

I bet it would be in some ways frightening to have thoughts or feelings about the same sex. Many people may applaud you for it, and others condemn you for it. In either case, I am not one of them. For I try to neither accept nor condemn, for it is not my place. What I will ask and encourage of you though, is to seek God. In all things, put God before yourself, and he will make your paths straight. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.
This really brings it into perspective considering how our country was founded on religious principles. Well said Asifin and thank you.
 
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Ricke

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Bobie
How many on here knew The Judge in California who overturned Prop 8 is a Homosexual himself? This is like letting a Fox guard The Hen house...
He should have disqualified himself from making a Judgement on this. This is the World we live in Ladies And Gentlemen, a World Satan has Spiritual control over, That is why in these closing days left we had better Pray and move close to God.

Remember what God did to Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis Chapter 19)?
 
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Ricke

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The fact of The Matter is this; you cannot truly be Christian, and support any lifestyle that is sinful, and an Abomination unto God. All sin and ungodly behavior must be Repented of or you will go to The Lake of Fire, no its, ands or buts. If you are not a Homosexual but support their lifestyle., you are then telling us you agree that sin is ok... Is it OK?

Romans 1 verses 26-32

"For this cause God gave them up to vile affections: for even their WOMEN did change the natural use into that WHICH IS AGAINST NATURE.

And likewise also the MEN leaving the NATURAL USE of the woman, burned in their lust for one another.; men with men working that which is unseemly and receiving in themselves that recompense of THEIR ERROR which was due.

And even as they DID NOT like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a REPROBATE MIND ,-to do those things which are not convienent;

Being filled with all Unrighteousness, Fornication, wickedness, maliciousness ;full of envy, murder, DEBATE, DECEIT, malignity, whisperers.

Backbiters, HATERS of GOD, spiteful, PROUD, boasters, inventors of EVIL THINGS, disobedient to parents.

WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING, covenant breakers, WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION, implacable, unmerciful;

Who knowing The Judgement of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, NOT ONLY DOTH SAME, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM." Amen.
 
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Ricke

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The young people on this site;
You cannot support any ungodly behavior or participate in Any Sin that is Ungodly and be pleasing to God.

When some day we all must stand in The Judgement Day when this life is over...There will be no compromises, or Plea bargains, or " But I Thought....". Or second chance remember that. God is not willing any should Perish, but that ALL come into Repentance.

One last thing is this; I Corinthians 6 v 9 " Know you not that the Unrighteous shall not inherit the the Kingdom of God?
BE NOT DECEIVED, neither Fornicators, nor Idolaters, nor Adulterers, NOR EFFEMINATE, nor abusers with themselves with Mankind....(verse10)...Shall inherit the Kingdom of God. Amen.
 
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Well, sadly for gay couples, they cannot get the same benefits that hetrosexuals get with marriage, like being allowed in the hospital room, since they don't have the same rights they arnt considered family.
 

Red_Tory

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Gay marriage is not going to lead to incest. I don't know where people get those idiotic ideas.

They (should) get it from a logical process, actually.

One of the arguments frequently used in support of homosexual marriage (or decriminalization of homosexuality, depending on what era you're from) is that the state and/or religion has no business interfering in the relations between two consenting adults. Or perhaps the argument that marriage shouldn't be bound by gender but instead should be permitted between any two people who love each other.


Now if I was a campaigner for the legalisation of incestuous relations and marriages, what would I say?

- The state and/or religion has no business interfering in the relations between two consenting adults.

- Marriage should be permitted between any two people who love each other.




Some people might say that the concept of a "slippery slope" is a fallacy, but in the Common Law system (used by Canada/US/UK etc.) it really isn't.

If the two arguments above are accepted by a judge in a higher court and become precedent, then they will apply to subsequent arguments - incest, for example. I haven't actually read the ruling in question (it probably doesn't involve either of them), but the point still stands; approve one argument and it will be applied to other concepts by other groups. It would be hard to go to the whole marrying animals thing, but polygamy and incest? No problem.


A real life example, while not dealing with incest, is going on right now:
Tories prepared to stand ground on polygamy: documents


It's how Common Law systems work. It's not irrational or "idiotic" at all.
 
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incest can cause birth defects.

gays marrying or having sex doesn't.
 

Red_Tory

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incest can cause birth defects.

gays marrying or having sex doesn't.

So I suppose we should sterilize anyone who is likely to produce a genetically inferior child, e.g. people with hereditary genetic disorders/disability. I won't go any further at the risk of violating Godwin's Law.

To me, the argument "inceset can cause birth defects" indicates that the primary purpose of marriage is to conceive and raise a child (please tell me if I'm getting it wrong?). Now by that logic, homosexual marriage shouldn't be allowed at all, since such marriages don't produce any children.

You could argue that it provides more allowances for adoption, in vitro fertilization etc., but those could apply equally to an incestuous marriage.
 
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are you saying you want to continue the Eugenics movement?? Eeek.

No, I'm saying, if brother and sister had married wanted kids, had them, they could come out wrong,


gay guys can't make babies with gay guys, therefore no birth defect.

Why would the only purpose of marriage be babies? I don't think that at all.
 

Red_Tory

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- are you saying you want to continue the Eugenics movement?? Eeek.

- No, I'm saying, if brother and sister had married wanted kids, had them, they could come out wrong,
gay guys can't make babies with gay guys, therefore no birth defect.

- Why would the only purpose of marriage be babies? I don't think that at all.


- No, I'm saying that your arguments applying to incestuous marriage apply equally to the concept of Eugenics. If we don't allow brothers and sisters to marry because of potential genetic defects, why permit disabled people to marry?


- If homosexuals are allowed to marry and not have children, then similar incestuous relationships should also be able to have these privileges.


- What if a brother and sister want to get married, but don't want to have children? If raising children isn't the point of marriage, then they don't need to have children with each other. What rational barrier stands in their way?



As for your first point... I sometimes argue for things whether I believe them or not. Some of the things I'm saying here are purely for the sake of argument. It may seem like it, but I'm not a Nazi. Or at least I try to not be one. *Glory to Deutschland!*... Argh!
 
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Maddog

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No, I'm saying, if brother and sister had married wanted kids, had them, they could come out wrong.
Suppose my sister was infertile (no chance of pregnancy, therefore no chance of birth defects) and we decided we were in love and wanted to marry. Do you believe that we should be allowed to?

Two consenting adults, no one gets hurt. If the queers can do it we should be allowed to as well, right?

Or...I've got a better one: how about me and my brother?
 
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Maddog

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They (should) get it from a logical process, actually.

One of the arguments frequently used in support of homosexual marriage (or decriminalization of homosexuality, depending on what era you're from) is that the state and/or religion has no business interfering in the relations between two consenting adults. Or perhaps the argument that marriage shouldn't be bound by gender but instead should be permitted between any two people who love each other.


Now if I was a campaigner for the legalisation of incestuous relations and marriages, what would I say?

- The state and/or religion has no business interfering in the relations between two consenting adults.

- Marriage should be permitted between any two people who love each other.




Some people might say that the concept of a "slippery slope" is a fallacy, but in the Common Law system (used by Canada/US/UK etc.) it really isn't.

If the two arguments above are accepted by a judge in a higher court and become precedent, then they will apply to subsequent arguments - incest, for example. I haven't actually read the ruling in question (it probably doesn't involve either of them), but the point still stands; approve one argument and it will be applied to other concepts by other groups. It would be hard to go to the whole marrying animals thing, but polygamy and incest? No problem.


A real life example, while not dealing with incest, is going on right now:
Tories prepared to stand ground on polygamy: documents


It's how Common Law systems work. It's not irrational or "idiotic" at all.
I like Red Tory.
 

Red_Tory

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Sorry... I didn't realise I was stealing your post/idea from a while back (probably yesterday). I hadn't read the entire thread.
 
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iraasuup

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God made Adam and Eve NOT Adam and Steve.


That's all I have to say on the matter.
 
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Maddog

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Sorry... I didn't realise I was stealing your post/idea from a while back (probably yesterday). I hadn't read the entire thread.
That's quite alright, a good argument is worth is worth re-articulating.
 
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lightbliss

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God made Adam and Eve NOT Adam and Steve.


That's all I have to say on the matter.
That's how I think of creation.

When God said that it wasn't good for man to be alone, He didn't mean that all men are to get married.

He meant it wasn't good for there to be only one gender. So He made another that was/is the opposite, so they can "merge" together to form one (I guess this is also why so many people use this scripture whenexplaining their desire for a spouse).

Genisis 2:18
And the LORD God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
 
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I gotta admit I do get weirded out by seeing two dudes holding hands but thats probably just cause its so rare you sorta do a double take and say 'wait whaaat'

anyway I don't think it should be up to a vote when it comes to basic human rights like marriage. To deny that right to a person would be to say that they are second class citizens, that they are almost like us humans but not quite.

Incest is against the law for moral and practical reasons, children born of incestuous marriages have a exponentially higher rate of birth defects. This would be a correct use of 'unnatural'