Homosexuality and The Church: Gay Bashing From The Pulpit

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Fire7

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I have a lot to say about this subject, but for the sake of time, or lack thereof, I have to condense my ideas in order to make this as short as possible. I'm working on a sort of expose' of this subject, but I probably won't be able to get a lot of material in one post or even this thread alone...I may be able to express more at a later date. But for now, I just want to present my feelings and get some diverse feedback. Whether you agree with me or not, all feedback is welcomed here.


I have for some time been concerned about the state of the church--not in a cynical spirit--because I don't believe that cynicism, negativity, or suspicion has any place in the Kingdom of G-d. There are so many questions that I have about G-d which I can't even begin to fully express here. And some things that take place in the church make me not want to be a part of this thing called "Christianity". But I am a part of it, and since I am, some issues hit close to home for me. And certain issues hit even closer to home. One of these issues is the issue of Homosexuality. And if you are wondering now if I'm homosexual, I don't encourage you to even guess at that because this isn't about me but about the body of Christ as a whole--bigger than me and you.

I feel that the church does not adequately deal with the subject of sex, in general. And because the "Gay" lifestyle has obviously become a big political issue in society, the church is forced to deal with it. How she deals with it is the issue that concerns me. A lot of people attack the church, but that's not what I believe in. The bible clearly addresses this issue and states in more than one passage that it's sinful. So, it's only natural and understandable that the church would identify sin and fight against it. However, I'm wondering how equiped the church is to handle such a major issue. I think it is unbalanced--mainly because we are too opinionated. We, as Christians and ministers are so proud of our "interpretations". But in reality, interpretation is just a fancy word for opinion, and opinions are like noses--everybody has one.



However, this (sex) is one issue (among many) that I don't think the church can afford to be opinionated on, because it is so central to the life and soul of an individual. The very first statement that's made about us when we are born is a sexual statement--"It's a boy!", "It's a girl". Just as we can't separate our identity from our sexuality, we cannot separate sexuality from spirituality. Therefore, I believe that if we are ever going to be a powerful church, operating in the fullness of what what we claim we believe, we need healing and understanding in this area. I personally think that the church has fallen short of this.


I can give so many examples and illustrations, but I can show you faster than I can tell you. Following this are videos--along with a description of three different ministers preaching on the subject of homosexuality, and I'll briefly tell you what I think about the material.


Prophet Todd Hall Speaks Against Homosexuality
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JA_cz34sY3U
I assume by the title and the style, that this is a COGIC preacher declaring that you cannot be a "sissy" and have the H-ly Ghost. COGICs are known for being a roudy bunch. They preach passionately and don't mind making you feel the flames of hell while making you feel good at the same time. It's ironic that they preach so strongly against homosexuality when so many of the clergy in that denomination get caught with their pants down. And so many who haven't been caught are living secret homosexual lifestyles. the ones who are really clean are very proud about it and will let you know with the quickness how heterosexual they are compared to those "nasty" dirty homosexuals. As far as this particular scene, I was disheartened with the manner in which the preacher went about handling the subject. While many saw it as "holy boldness", some saw it as arrogance--I happen to be one of those.


Prophet Brian Carn on Homosexuality In The Pulpit/Church
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WYGmHcVgVQ
I paraphrazed the title, because the title that's posted on youtube I think is presumptuous ("...Eddie Long Scandal...")
This preacher uses an example of another high profile minister, without saying his name, to illustrate the problem of gays in the church. In one breath, he says, as many preachers do, that "the church is a hospital". In the next breath, he delivers some painful medicine--which could possibly be poison--when he explains how calling people out of their name is good for them. Declaring them to be "sissies", "fags", "booty-bandits", etc... he seems to be having a lot of fun as the croud cheers him on. But I'll let you watch and come to your own conclusion before I give more of my opinion on this.


G Craig Lewis Exposes Homosexuality
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jv0psJWtFHg
This is the same preacher who exposed the "evils" of the Hip Hop religion/culture and its illegal infiltration into the church--declaring that one cannot mix the secular with the holy--"worldly" music with the gospel message. G Craig has been called the "Malcom X of Christiandom" because of his bold in-your-face style of preaching. He doesn't beat around the bush or bite his tonuge, and he's not afraid to call names (which is why he has been sued by numerous artists and ministers...which in turn he tells them to "join the list"). This video clip is obviously and edited excerpt of the sermon, because they edited out the part where he says "You sissy!," in referring to another minister who was apparently advocating a kind-and-loving approach to homosexuals.

So I would like to know what you think about this material and this subject all together.
 
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Jimmy47

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I completely agree with you on this. The church has handled the issue of sexuality very badly and it needs to be addressed as soon as possible. Personally i don't think there's anything wrong with being homosexual and the church needs to realise that there are lots and lots of gay christians all over the world and they love god ust as much as straight people!
 
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Sweetheart1987

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I hate to tell you,but you're wrong.There IS something wrong with being homosexual,and it IS wrong. The Bible clearly states that homosexuals will NOT enter/inherit the kingdom of God. There's no and,if,or but about it. God's word stand true and speaks for itself. You can't be gay and be a Christian. How so? well,it's an abomination.It is wicked,it's not of God at all,I mean it's clearly against God's word. There's so many verses on it. Now can someone become a Christian that's homosexual? yes,how? they must repent,in other words turn away from it,do not practice or live in the homosexual lifestyle. To deny that it's wrong to be homosexual,and to say that one can be homosexual and a Christan,is to deny the true word of God,and it's a slap in the face to Him as well. It's just wrong as can be.Also, who says that you can't separate our identity from our sexuality,or our sexuality from our spirituality is a load of bull! We have a choice things,a will. We choose if we want to do or participate in something or not. If you know the word of God clearly speaks against such a thing,yet you choose to do it,you're treading on mighty dangerous ground. To say such a thing as we can't separate things,is simply an excuse for not wanting to take responsibility for the choices that we make. Something that's wicked,sinful,etc. is clearly not of or from God. I can't believe how many so called ''Christians'' are accepting homosexuality so openly,and the homosexuals are so proud of themselves and the choice they make. It's disgusting,it makes my stomach turn!(that being how proud they are of it,not the fact they're homosexual). I know Jesus died to forgive all sin,but here's the thing,you can NOT live in and practice sin,and yet call yourself a Christian. You aren't being one,as a Christian is a follower of Jesus Christ,the Word of God....it's surrendering to God,and turning away from all old ways,sinful desire,etc. Someone obviously isn't doing that if they continue to live in and do what they know is wrong and a sin,that God's word is so strongly against. Look at Sodom and Gomorrah in the Bible,self explanatory. Anyone can love God,that does NOT however mean they're a Christian. I loved God when I was a kid,and in my teen years before I got saved. Oh I was passionate about Him,I just loved church so much,and everything else. I even went around singing worship/praise and Christian songs pretty much all the time,but I wasn't saved at the time. Just like Satan himself,and his ''fallen angels" aka demons, they even know the word of God. How else would they use it to twist it around,pollute it,change it around,etc? All right then,enough said.
 
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New4Christ

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well I think that there is nothing wrong with being gay. Because originally that word means to be happy. And it wasn't until in recent years did that word become slang for homosexuals. Personally, I've been dealing with this issue. I have chosen to be celebent until God delievers me from this issue. I've dealt with it since I was about 14. I used to have kids that made fun of me. And it wasn't easy growing up. My parents divorced and it was very hard at times. I stuggle, but I know that God loves me and that Jesus died for me. And "Christians" sin as well. But God knows my heart and I am striving to be better everyday.
 
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Jimmy47

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I hate to tell you,but you're wrong.There IS something wrong with being homosexual,and it IS wrong. The Bible clearly states that homosexuals will NOT enter/inherit the kingdom of God. There's no and,if,or but about it. God's word stand true and speaks for itself. You can't be gay and be a Christian. How so? well,it's an abomination.It is wicked,it's not of God at all,I mean it's clearly against God's word. There's so many verses on it. Now can someone become a Christian that's homosexual? yes,how? they must repent,in other words turn away from it,do not practice or live in the homosexual lifestyle. To deny that it's wrong to be homosexual,and to say that one can be homosexual and a Christan,is to deny the true word of God,and it's a slap in the face to Him as well. It's just wrong as can be.Also, who says that you can't separate our identity from our sexuality,or our sexuality from our spirituality is a load of bull! We have a choice things,a will. We choose if we want to do or participate in something or not. If you know the word of God clearly speaks against such a thing,yet you choose to do it,you're treading on mighty dangerous ground. To say such a thing as we can't separate things,is simply an excuse for not wanting to take responsibility for the choices that we make. Something that's wicked,sinful,etc. is clearly not of or from God. I can't believe how many so called ''Christians'' are accepting homosexuality so openly,and the homosexuals are so proud of themselves and the choice they make. It's disgusting,it makes my stomach turn!(that being how proud they are of it,not the fact they're homosexual). I know Jesus died to forgive all sin,but here's the thing,you can NOT live in and practice sin,and yet call yourself a Christian. You aren't being one,as a Christian is a follower of Jesus Christ,the Word of God....it's surrendering to God,and turning away from all old ways,sinful desire,etc. Someone obviously isn't doing that if they continue to live in and do what they know is wrong and a sin,that God's word is so strongly against. Look at Sodom and Gomorrah in the Bible,self explanatory. Anyone can love God,that does NOT however mean they're a Christian. I loved God when I was a kid,and in my teen years before I got saved. Oh I was passionate about Him,I just loved church so much,and everything else. I even went around singing worship/praise and Christian songs pretty much all the time,but I wasn't saved at the time. Just like Satan himself,and his ''fallen angels" aka demons, they even know the word of God. How else would they use it to twist it around,pollute it,change it around,etc? All right then,enough said.
I am sorry but i completely disagree with you. God loves us ALL. He in his infinite wisdom gave us free will as you state. Being homosexual doesn't hurt anybody. It makes a lot of people happy and im sure god would want all of his children (us) to be happy. Im almost certain that god would NOT send you to hell for being gay.
 
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Sweetheart1987

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Disagree all you want,that means you're disagreeing with God's written word. You're right God wont' send you to hell for it,you send yourself. Cause you decide if you partake in something or make the right choice to not partake in it,and trust God to deliver you and everything. Gay meaning happy of course that's not wrong,but homosexuality is absolutely wrong. The word of God is clear as day on that. Being homosexual does hurt people as well,because they hurt God most of all as He said Himself that they shall NOT inherit the kingdom of God,they shall NOT enter it. God himself said it. Therefore,that's His own words. So who is anyone else to say oh sure it's okay,you can do what God strictly forbids,but go to heaven. WRONG! Yes God does want all of His children to be happy,however not in the sense and context of them purposely and willfully doing what He commands they not do,or what they know is wrong and sinful. You can't ''have your cake and enjoy it too'' so to speak.you can not be a Christian,and still indulge in sin,live like a hellion as the saying goes,just taking God's grace and mercy for granted,and then think yep I'm good,I'll just do whatever I want,and go to heaven. That's against the word of God! Don't get me wrong,I don't have a problem with homosexuals,I do however have an issue with them just doing whatever they want when God says no to it. Not just them however,anyone and everyone,including myself...if I do something I know is wrong,you best bet I have an issue with that and I repent and God to forgive me. We can't do corrupt things and live in a corrupt life,doing what contradicts God's word,or the life we profess or confess to live. We have to walk the walk,and not just talk the talk. If you claim you're a Christian,then you just can not continue to live in a homosexual lifestyle. Meaning you partake in a relationship,or relations with someone of the same sex as you. Now I don't mean any offense in what I'm saying,I'm just telling the truth here,of what God's word says. It speaks for itself,I just share what it says about things is all. So please don't take it the wrong way here. God bless each of you.
 

shemaiah

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Sweetheart, may God bless you.
Guys i know you want to give hope to gays, but we have a guideline that is the bible.
Gays are not to be resented yes, but they need prayer and help from God. Treating homosexuality as ordinary and normal is something new that has never been supported in scripture but always condemned. God bless
 
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Phoebzter

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While we can all make blanket statements about homosexuality and the church, I do not think they serve a good purpose in most circumstances. I am sure I may make some of those statements here, but please try to see the heart of what I am writing.

First of all, like Fire7 stated we all come up with our own opinions about this subject and this is mine. If someone really wants to know the truth about homosexuality, I suggest the seriously seek the Holy Spirit's truth on the matter. If your motives are pure He will surely guide you in all Truth.

This is my condensed story and opinion on this matter:


All far back as I can recall I have been physically and emotionally attracted to girls. It's not such a big deal for me to admit this now, but believe me the first time I admitted to myself that these feelings were not leaving, but in fact only growing stronger, I wanted to run until my feet fell off or my heart exploded, which ever came first. I was actually in the middle of a jog my sophomore year in college, when this reality that I had been pushing down and fighting for so long suddenly exploded in my thoughts. I started bawling durring my run and laid my hand on a huge oak tree and asked and pleaded with God. I just remember praying "Whatever it takes Jesus, please just take this away from me. I don't want it anymore!" I had managed to hide this part of my life from my close-nit family for the last 21 years of my life and that night I called my mom over Skype and anxiously spilled the beans to her. I thought my heart would pound out of my chest when i laid out the truth for her. All she said was, "Ok Phoebe, whatever it takes we are gonna get through this together." To make a long story short, over the next year or so I slowly leaked out the news to the rest of my family. My younger and only sister was furious with me, not because I was struggling with homosexuality, but because I hadn't told her all these years. Since then I have been to three different christian counselors. Currently my latest counselor is a prominent international speaker on this issue and I have learned soo much in the many months I have been seeing him. I know for a fact that it is not a battle I would wish on my worst enemy, not because it is any worse than any other enduring temptations that christians face. Only because it is such a raw pain right now in my own struggle. I have wanted to end my life on various occasion to end my struggle with it and get on with eternity, hoping that God will understand somehow. But ALWAYS He has sent people into my life at the moment when I needed them the most. Never once have I chosen to feel attracted to women. Never once have I doubted that God could have turned this silly world on it's head to keep me from circumstances that influenced my attractions. No, i don't believe I was born gay. Yes I was molested at a young age once by a babysitter. But regardless of the circumstances or reason for why I have these enduring attraction, here they are. I have explored so many of the reason behind my attractions and have come the conclusion that the past is useful up to a certain point. But this is now, and this is what I struggle with. Some would say to me, "Well your just not trusting God to 'heal' your brokeness." I say you can't fix something that is not broken. Some would say to me that I'm just not believing that God can change you. I say God can do whatever He pleases. I do have hope that God can change my attractions. I pray that His will be done in my life. But everyday still feels the same as the one before. There is much more to this story, but this is the short version.


So, what do I believe about homosexuality?

For one, in my case and in other individuals who share their story it is never the case that they chose to have the attractions that they do. This leaves the church in a sticky place. How do you tell people they shouldn't be attracted to something they never chose? The answer is kind of simple. YOu Don't.
You can't keep a thought from flying into your brain. For example: "Oooh, that chocolate bar looks sooo good!" But you can choose to dismis the thought and say "Ok that chocolate bar looks good, but I don't need it right now. I may want it but I don't need it." Of course this example has a few flaws, but I think you get the point. It is not the attraction that is the sin. We can not control what our sinful nature is attracted to. Not until Christ returns will that situation be levitated. But we CAN choose what happens with the thought that pops into our head. We can choose to dismis the thought and make it submissive to Christ.

Two: Jesus never once said anything about the subject of Homosexuality. He did speak on many issues. He was counter cultural on so many controversial issue and flipped people realities on their heads. But on this issue : Silence. I believe that if Christ wanted to condone homosexuality He would have. But He didn't.

Three: If you really want to get your hands dirty with this issue, stop arguing with other Christians who don't know or care enough to get out of their comfort zone and get busy talking with the people who know this struggle first hand. You may be surprised to find we are not much different than you. We all desperately need a savior who sympathizes with our weaknesses.

Four: I am sorry this is so long. :)
 
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This is one of the two big issues that's a diversion.

Satan uses the political topic of Homosexuality and abortion to keep Christians busy.

It's how he uses Christians, to divert their energy, their attention. He gets you to vote for his politicians because you (The generic Christian) is focused all on these issues.

Meanwhile:
Illegal wars with in excess of 1 million people dead. (Think about that number).
Torture is okay in the free world?
Illegal offshore prisons that are mocking Constitutions and mocking the rule of law that we value.
American Wall street deregulated so much it causes a World Wide Economic recession (and people commit suicide).
The US states are in debt to the tune of 136 billion, yet Wall Street will hand out 140 billion just in bonuses this year.

But of course, lets focus on hating on Homosexuals and getting Big Government into Women's wombs.

Personally I feel the more someone is obsessed with Homosexuals, the more I suspect they are closeted.

"The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision.” ~ Lynn Lavner
 
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Maddog

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Thanks for sharing your story and your thoughts, Phoebzter.
 
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Sweetheart1987

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Sorry to burst your bubble here,but yes you do have a choice. God isn't going to allow someone to be ''born'' homosexual,when His word speaks against it. Jesus may not have spoken directly about it,however,that does not mean it's not a sin. Especially when God spoke to others and told them the things to speak and write. I'm sick of the lie ''I was born this way'' or ''I didn't choose this'' cause while people may not have complete control over it,they do choose what they like and dislike. Just like food,you choose if you do or don't like something. You can look at it and say ''well that looks good think I'll try it'' or ''oh that looks bad I don't think I'll try it'' or even ''well that looks good,but is it good for me,or should I pass on it?" you get the point. Lastly,no one is arguing on here so you shouldn't take it wrong. God bless.
 
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Shield

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To say that something is "wrong" is also saying "what I am too". We have to be aware of our own brokenness to relate to homosexuals more in their brokenness then behaviors they need to change first. Condemnation is saying "you're wrong get away from me", conviction is saying "you're wrong, come close to me."

The way I see it, since God has both male and female traits (which every study shows that differences exist physically in the brain and not just culturally), if we have trouble loving the 'other' we will run into trouble loving God fully. That narrows things down to trans-gender people that believe it was a genetic mistake that gave them the wrong gender, which it would seem impossible to find another trans-gender partner in such a situation because it seems rare to fully love the opposite gender but prefer the body of the same gender (such claims probably have limits in accepting the full set of traits in the opposite gender). Then it becomes a question of if it is brokenness with their soul or with their body and which is more likely and which are they more hesitant to give to God.
 
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Sweetheart1987

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Okay,see here's the thing. I never said ''get away from me'' nor has anyone else on here. However,the Bible says it's wrong,therefore it's wrong. Saying something is wrong isn't condemning anyone. I'm more than happy to share the word of God and show love,compassion,etc to anyone that's gay. That's not an issue,I'm just tired of those that lie about things. They make choices,they choose if they're with someone of the same sex or not. Simple. The issue is, when they read and know for a fact God's word speaks against it,yet they don't care. Now if they don't know that,then it's a different story. The issue at hand is how so many just basically say ''well I don't care what it says,I'll pick and choose what I want to believe,follow,and say is okay and right,to make it seem less wrong and to justify what I want to do''. Yes many have actually said that and worse before. Not all do,don't get me wrong,but a very large,in fact majority wise homosexuals say that sort of thing. I love everyone,truly I do. I just don't love or agree to their choice to live in sin. We all have our opinions,and we all have the truth...which I speak of both. As does everyone else on here....even if some twist the truth around. I'm not saying don't allow homosexuals in the church(es),I believe with all my heart,they need to be in church. That's the best place to be. Just I don't believe they should be allowed to be in a leadership/authority type position. Absolutely show them the love of God and everything. Just don't be like ''sure you can continue to live whatever lifestyle you want,it's great,we encourage it''. Cause that happens all too often in the church(es) these days. No we should not hate them at all,but no we should not tell them it's okay to be homosexual cause they'll get into heaven when the Bible clearly says they won't....unless they repent,which means to completely turn away from,and give up a sin...then they will of course. Not just homosexuals,every single human being. We have to repent of our sins,and do our best to avoid it happening again. Only the blood of Jesus will wash us whiter than snow,and once that happens, you're free. You'll be delivered/healed,whatever you want to call it. You'll no longer have those desires for such things. It's not complicated as so many try to make it seem that it is.
 
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princessbella

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Sweet you know i dont think it is as simple as your making it out either, until youve actually battled and struggled with this issue i dont think you can speek with true authority , you know i think the problem we have as christians is looking at the big glaring sexual sins like homosexuality that we say will prevent the person from going to heaven, without first putting ourselves in their shoes, that many christians with homosexual desires those genuinly struggling with homosexuality sexual or porn addiction in fact any addict ion including eating disorderss live with fear, guilt, and end up leaving the church because they dont get the love and healing they need their, if healing and deliverance is needed many many have deep rooted issues trauma things happening going back to childhood which take time counselling l prayer love, every person is unique different and God deals with them individually... We forget the other insidious sins in the church which keep us busy doing satans work for him, like gossip, unforgivness, anger, lack of love and compashion. i think we sometimes forget those others which do more damage and which grieve God too... lets not forget those when where looking at big glaring outward sins, that God looks at the heart knows the person intimatley grieves over those things what have changed that individuals sexuality and how they stuggle with it, we look at things as we see them through our own blinkered eyes ... i think many more people would be honest if they felt free to talk about their struggles without fear of condemnation or been told you can just change like that if you want to and if you dont you wont get to heaven so ..many angry disolusioned people have left the church for that reason because they dont want to live with the isolaton, fear,guilt, condemnation... thats my view anyway
 
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Sorry to burst your bubble here,but yes you do have a choice. God isn't going to allow someone to be ''born'' homosexual,when His word speaks against it. Jesus may not have spoken directly about it,however,that does not mean it's not a sin. Especially when God spoke to others and told them the things to speak and write. I'm sick of the lie ''I was born this way'' or ''I didn't choose this'' cause while people may not have complete control over it,they do choose what they like and dislike. Just like food,you choose if you do or don't like something. You can look at it and say ''well that looks good think I'll try it'' or ''oh that looks bad I don't think I'll try it'' or even ''well that looks good,but is it good for me,or should I pass on it?" you get the point. Lastly,no one is arguing on here so you shouldn't take it wrong. God bless.

I did not choose to be 100% heterosexual. I was born this way.

I have no interest in having sex with men. I have no physical reaction to them.

So I disagree with you.

Homosexuality is not a choice for me, because it's not. I'm not gay, never was, never will be.
 
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GreenNnice

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I think it's important to realize that God has an individual plan for each and every one of us and ultimately we should not judge another for whatever they are doing let God. you think the Bible says one thing about something like homosexuality or Or sex before marriage or anything else that is contrary to the Bible but Get again God has an individual plan for each and every one of us you know what Jeremiah 29:11 says, right? If not it says for I know the plans for you plans to prosper and not harm you for you to have a future and a whole so everyone has something in their lives. No one is perfect. I'll have fallen short of the glory of God. Romans 828 and we just should not judge each other. God individually as well for the tapestry for lives and it hasn't known what we were going to do in our lives if we were going to be molested if we were to have something happen that would maybe turned us from liking the opposite sex he knows. psalms 139 talks about that. I think that fires thread here is well-thought-out I think those that are speaking their points of view our well-thought-out. But ultimately it's God who deals with us individually as we choose. somebody above mentioned freewill, sweetheart or someone else , but , anyway, God gives us our own free will . I think it important verse or two that can help us with doing things that are maybe not right according do how God set up things biblically as he doesn't have any homosexual relationships that I know of in the Bible but to go to Romans 12: 1,2, saying 'to be transformed by the renewing of you mind...' and you need to ask God to renew your n
mind from sinful nature thoughts EVERYmorning. God wants us to talk to Him every chance we get too.
 
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Phoebzter

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Sorry to burst your bubble here,but yes you do have a choice. God isn't going to allow someone to be ''born'' homosexual,when His word speaks against it. Jesus may not have spoken directly about it,however,that does not mean it's not a sin. Especially when God spoke to others and told them the things to speak and write. I'm sick of the lie ''I was born this way'' or ''I didn't choose this'' cause while people may not have complete control over it,they do choose what they like and dislike. Just like food,you choose if you do or don't like something. You can look at it and say ''well that looks good think I'll try it'' or ''oh that looks bad I don't think I'll try it'' or even ''well that looks good,but is it good for me,or should I pass on it?" you get the point. Lastly,no one is arguing on here so you shouldn't take it wrong. God bless.

I'm sorry if I offended you, which clearly I have. But I am pretty sure you did not understand some of what I was saying. The reason I posted my story was to make it clear that there are christians, true born again christians who are walking the walking and not making fasle claims of christianity, who struggle with homosexuality. As with the issue of being born gay or not, I do not believe people are born gay, meaning they come out of the womb with same-sex attractions. But I do believe there are a few contributing factors, that are beyond our control. Also, there is a gene for alcoholism which raises a few questions about whether or not God allows people to be born with something they didn't choose and then Him give a command that goes against what their inborn nature desires.... Wait... isn't this all of us? :) Doesn't our sinful nature always desire the things that are contrary to His word? Of course this is where the choice part comes. And this is where people confuse things. YES, we absolutely have a choice over what we do with our actions and thoughts, BUT I want you to tell me the last time you CHOSE to have a thought pop into your head. Do you see the difference? I am daily making a choice not to act on my attractions. But daily I have no choice when it comes to the thoughts that fly into my brain. Lastly, I am certain that homosexuality is not part of God's original design, and unless He states otherwise it never will be. And I never agree with others that make up excuses for their actions, who claim to be christians and are living in sin. Non-christian are never held to the standard that we as children of God are held to, so I don't go there. We as brothers and sister should never shy away from holding each other accountable, wining them over gently without condemnation. Jesus did not come into this world to condemn it. But we are not called to judge each other, we leave that up to the real Judge. Confront gently with the intention of wining them back, yes. Condemn no. Anyways, sorry for that rant. One last thing: I wish I could wake up tomorrow and not have the attractions I do, and be done with fighting this battle. And maybe tomorrow will be the day. But until that day comes, I am CHOOSING to trust Christ through all this. He never gives us more than we can endure with His help. We all have our own crosses to bear, not trying to sound dramatic, but whatever that cross may be, we are to take it up and follow Him. Regardless of how heavy, or light it may be at the time.
 
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Fire7

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Sorry to burst your bubble here,but yes you do have a choice. God isn't going to allow someone to be ''born'' homosexual,when His word speaks against it. Jesus may not have spoken directly about it,however,that does not mean it's not a sin. Especially when God spoke to others and told them the things to speak and write. I'm sick of the lie ''I was born this way'' or ''I didn't choose this'' cause while people may not have complete control over it,they do choose what they like and dislike. Just like food,you choose if you do or don't like something. You can look at it and say ''well that looks good think I'll try it'' or ''oh that looks bad I don't think I'll try it'' or even ''well that looks good,but is it good for me,or should I pass on it?" you get the point. Lastly,no one is arguing on here so you shouldn't take it wrong. God bless.

All I had to do was read your first sentence to come to the conclusion that you're wrong. But I did go ahead and read the rest, as not to be presumptuous. However, you are completely wrong about people not having been "born homosexual." I know it's the classic belief among christians that "God is not going to allow anyone to be born gay since it's against is will." There are so many flaws in that philosophy that it's sad that intellegent, well schooled christians actually believe it.

When you do some research on sexuality (not just human sexuality) from a scientific and biological standpoint, then we can have a fair discusion. Until then, everything that I say to you is just going to go over your head. Because you are set in your ways of religious thinking.
 
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Fire7

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I did not choose to be 100% heterosexual. I was born this way.

I have no interest in having sex with men. I have no physical reaction to them.

So I disagree with you.

Homosexuality is not a choice for me, because it's not. I'm not gay, never was, never will be.

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