Luke 16:18 (NIV)
18 “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Mark 10:11-12 (NIV)
11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”
If all Christians firmly believed in those two verses, and took them at face value...If they were taught to single people in the church from an early age, would the divorce rate be lower amongst those claiming Christianity? I say yes.
I don't expect them to be taught like that though because even if pastors and teachers do take them as I see them, they are too afraid of offending someone to preach it or teach it.
I know the following verse is tossed around plenty:
Matthew 5:32
32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
All of those are noted as spoken by Jesus himself. That last one does look differently than the first two. It seems to add an exception the way I first read it.. That's a bit confusing. I wonder if something just got changed up a bit in translation there. Hmm.
I guess, for me, it comes down to it's 2-1 so to speak..as the first two verses seem very clear.
This is just something weighing heavily on me right now, one of those things that I feel like I have to get out there or it's just going to keep nagging me.
It's a complicated and touchy issue, no doubt. I often keep quiet about this particular subject for the above reasons..which makes make me no different than those in teaching positions who believe the same thing yet won't speak it I guess... I think it needs to be presented, knowing full well those of us who hold to it are in the minority.
The only thing I wonder about, with my view, is if it makes a difference whether or not the person was a professing Christian or not when events were taking place.
As a bit of a disclaimer: No, I'm not looking down on divorced people who may be reading this and I don't think I'm any better than you are. I'm not. Rather my heart goes out to you, especially those of you who wanted to make it work but your spouse quit on you...and those who were mistreated.
I've never experienced that particular type of pain. I know God and God alone can bring healing and restoration though. You can find peace in Him.
18 “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Mark 10:11-12 (NIV)
11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”
If all Christians firmly believed in those two verses, and took them at face value...If they were taught to single people in the church from an early age, would the divorce rate be lower amongst those claiming Christianity? I say yes.
I don't expect them to be taught like that though because even if pastors and teachers do take them as I see them, they are too afraid of offending someone to preach it or teach it.
I know the following verse is tossed around plenty:
Matthew 5:32
32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
All of those are noted as spoken by Jesus himself. That last one does look differently than the first two. It seems to add an exception the way I first read it.. That's a bit confusing. I wonder if something just got changed up a bit in translation there. Hmm.
I guess, for me, it comes down to it's 2-1 so to speak..as the first two verses seem very clear.
This is just something weighing heavily on me right now, one of those things that I feel like I have to get out there or it's just going to keep nagging me.
It's a complicated and touchy issue, no doubt. I often keep quiet about this particular subject for the above reasons..which makes make me no different than those in teaching positions who believe the same thing yet won't speak it I guess... I think it needs to be presented, knowing full well those of us who hold to it are in the minority.
The only thing I wonder about, with my view, is if it makes a difference whether or not the person was a professing Christian or not when events were taking place.
As a bit of a disclaimer: No, I'm not looking down on divorced people who may be reading this and I don't think I'm any better than you are. I'm not. Rather my heart goes out to you, especially those of you who wanted to make it work but your spouse quit on you...and those who were mistreated.
I've never experienced that particular type of pain. I know God and God alone can bring healing and restoration though. You can find peace in Him.