Notification of a Friendship request.

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Miri

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oldethennew said:
seed_time,

it means that we chose not to have a 'list' on our home-page, but instead we send
a private message to those who want to be on our 'friends-list' and tell them that
we do indeed accept their offer of friendship but don't wish to make a visible list,
mostly to avoid hurting anyone feelings if something amiss should occur,,,

do you understand now?:)
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Na I dont like lists either, shopping lists, lists of chores,
lists of appointment, to do lists etc. Lol

There are benefits to having friend lists on here though. You can be nosy and
look up your friends activity. Maybe I'm just a nosy person. Lol


I get it though everyone would want to be friends with you so your
friend list would crash CC. ;)
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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seed_time_harvest said:
Do you click on reject their request?
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I do, if that person just joined, has only been here for two seconds and friends me right off. I don't know them, and they don't know me. Though that rule usually applies more to the men..lol
 
melita916

melita916

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if i haven't seen the person post in the forum, i don't accept the friend request.

unless i chatted with them in the chatroom several times. i don't go there often though.
 
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#64
Willie-T said:
I was serious with the question I asked.

The people you have 'friended' can't do anything to you, and you can't do anything to them. Their name just clutters a list on your computer, right?
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Hmmm, I'm thinking this question is sort of like my question about flirting. It's not so much judging people on what they do or don't do as it is trying to see how others think.
 
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jennymae said:
I think I would accept a friendship request from somebody I sort of knew a wee bit about. I don't know how this works for men, but as for me, I have sometimes gotten inappropriate private messages from male "friends".
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I've gotten inappropriate words from women too. Usually not sexually inappropriate, but inappropriate. I'm not dismissing all of a gender just because some are like that. I am, however, dismissing the ones who are like that. (Dismiss -- don't bother with.)

What I find different about this, (and just different, not good or bad), is about 80% of my friends in life have been guys. Now, I know I'm different for that, (again neither good or bad), but I just relate to guys better. I feel bad that a few idiots have turned you off to so many guys.

Look at our relationship. I'm pretty sure we're not ever going to be friends, (again not good or bad, we just clash), but that fact doesn't stop you from friending women. Dismiss me, because we clash. Don't dismiss all guys because some are more than dismissable!
 
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Yeraza_Bats said:
They could just as easily send you those whether or not they were on your friends list, though : p
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Yeah, if someone does that to me, I'd report and then set up ignore with that guy. Usually, I don't even have to keep him on ignore, because he's banned soon afterward.
 
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jennymae said:
Of course, but these people were on my friends list.
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And they'd be off it right after ignored. I'd actually use the friends list to get to the idiots page to ignore, or I would ignore first. The world is too big and wonderful to let a couple of idiots ruin it for any of us.
 
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Sirk said:
I find 3 people that know the person trying to friend me and their opinions of this person. I write all that down in a special little cc notebook that I carry with me and then I pray about for a minimum of two working days....weekends don't count. Then, I take three dice and each one is assigned a value. The first one is evenly split between the numbers as a yes or a no. I pray over that die for God to reveal to me which numbers are yes's and no's. The second die represents the person and their character....on a scale of one to six how much God likes them. It can be 1 being a lot or 6 being a lot.....I pray for this as well for God to reveal which is which. The third die represents the persons character and it is set up similar to the second die. I put a sharpie dot on each die to keep them straight. I then roll the dice and see how it turns out and then I pray for 2 more working days and then I make a decision.
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Try a quarter, a dime and a nickel. Each one only has two sides, so you don't have to waste so much time assigning things to SIX whole sides. Added bonus: you and son can play with the dice on your next game night.
 
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Rosesrock said:
Attn to who it may apply. This thread does not give you the go ahead to friend me. Please stop.
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Oops. I just realized you're not friended with this user name yet, so I just did.
 
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#73
Rosesrock said:
Red box called. They want their movies back. You'll have to find another to sing too.
Plus. The neighbors complained about you signing 'where is my hairbrush' too loud.
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Geckos need hairbrushes?
 
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Sirk said:
How dare you accuse and slander me concerning redbox. I returned all of my veggie tales movies and for you to suggest otherwise is venom filled snakery. Lol
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So, are Veggie Tale movies worth watching?
 
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#75
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Miri said:
Na I dont like lists either, shopping lists, lists of chores,
lists of appointment, to do lists etc. Lol

There are benefits to having friend lists on here though. You can be nosy and
look up your friends activity. Maybe I'm just a nosy person. Lol


I get it though everyone would want to be friends with you so your
friend list would crash CC. ;)
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That's what I thought. List require maintenance, which means work. Eeek!

And yup, their list would crash CC!
 
notmyown

notmyown

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i accept 'em all, pretty much.

it's not like you guys are real people. ;)
 
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