tattoed women at church ?

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Ellsworth1943

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Fashion is the traditions of men, and the church may be following the traditions of men with their dress code.

I agree these traditions change with the times, I think their is wisdom in every scripture of the Old Testament and in the "ordinances in the Law given to Israel".

James 1:23-25King James Version (KJV)


[SUP]23 [/SUP]For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass:


This is new testament, not "ordinances in the Law given to Israel". Think about that when you are styling your mustache you may or may not wear anymore in the glass mirror.
Do the women in your church wear jewelry and makeup?

Would I be welcomed dressed as I am in my photo?
 
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honest opinions ...

do you judge tattooed women going to church?

the reason I ask is, I'm tattooed, I go to church (not long started my Christian life) I've worn a cardigan each time I go and wont take it off. mainly the older generation attend the church where I go to, and I feel like they will look down on me if I were to reveal my arm, how do I manage this? will I still be looked at the same? will I still be allowed in church?!
You may be in the wrong church. Be smart, and leave there if you are certain about what you fear.
 
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pckts

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Do the women in your church wear jewelry and makeup?

Would I be welcomed dressed as I am in my photo?
Stop jumping all around changing the subject like a liberal.

First we were talking about tattoos, then you asked me about my beard, then I answered that and challenged your vanity stache, and now you want to talk about what the world is doing at my church.

I wanted to talk about what we should do, not what others are doing.
 
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Ugly

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Why is it fine, because you have them and people in the world have them?

Is it compatible with scripture?

I'm talking about choosing to get them, not what has already been done.
Yes, it's compatible with scripture.

And why do you assume i was talking to you in my posts to begin with? You're talking about whatever... i'm answering the OP. Get over yourself. It's not all about you.
 
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Ellsworth1943

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Stop jumping all around changing the subject like a liberal.

First we were talking about tattoos, then you asked me about my beard, then I answered that and challenged your vanity stache, and now you want to talk about what the world is doing at my church.

I wanted to talk about what we should do, not what others are doing.
What should we do?
As for your own personal conduct, do what you believe will please God.
As for the way others dress their bodies, do not judge.
Preach the Gospel to them and let God take it from there.
 
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pckts

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Yes, it's compatible with scripture.

And why do you assume i was talking to you in my posts to begin with? You're talking about whatever... i'm answering the OP. Get over yourself. It's not all about you.
When you post in an open forum, it's for all to discuss. If I can read it I can comment on it. Get over yourself thinking your open conversations are sacred. Send a PM if you don't want your flawed wordly logic challenged.
 
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Ugly

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Stop jumping all around changing the subject like a liberal.

First we were talking about tattoos, then you asked me about my beard, then I answered that and challenged your vanity stache, and now you want to talk about what the world is doing at my church.

I wanted to talk about what we should do, not what others are doing.
He asked you a fair question and you ignored it, falsely accused him and called him a liberal? Pot, meet kettle.
And there's that 'i' word again. Seems to be what you want is your number one priority. I answered the OP and my responses had nothing to do with any other person in this thread. Even you /gasp
And if you can't answer a simple question then you've already lost, liberal.
 
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pckts

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What should we do?
As for your own personal conduct, do what you believe will please God.
As for the way others dress their bodies, do not judge.
Preach the Gospel to them and let God take it from there.
Ok so you never wanted to talk about the topic. Don't pretend you do. If this is what you wanted to say start with that and end there.
 
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Ugly

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When you post in an open forum, it's for all to discuss. If I can read it I can comment on it. Get over yourself thinking your open conversations are sacred. Send a PM if you don't want your flawed wordly logic challenged.
Whatever you say liberal boy.
 

Magenta

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I'm not embarrassed about my past, I've always been in and out of faith (but now m here to stay :)....), I just feel like a have to prepare in case something is said, I don't know I just feel like I wont be no longer spoken to or banished :/ ..
No matter where you are, or who you are with, someone is bound to say something at some point. Your reactions can set the tone for what follows any line of inquiry. If you are anxious about it, you may be leaving yourself to unpleasantness. Relax. If people are going to judge you for them, that says more about them than you. Still, surely there are stories attached to each tat? People are going to be curious about them, and you should welcome that :D Maybe they can be a way of testifying to others, of all that God has seen you through, and how He is now using you for His glory. If people are going to mean to you about it, learn how to laugh it off, even if it hurts. We did not get this far in life without having a sense of humor :)
 
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pckts

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He asked you a fair question and you ignored it, falsely accused him and called him a liberal? Pot, meet kettle.
And there's that 'i' word again. Seems to be what you want is your number one priority. I answered the OP and my responses had nothing to do with any other person in this thread. Even you /gasp
And if you can't answer a simple question then you've already lost, liberal.
:confused::rolleyes:
 
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Ellsworth1943

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Ok so you never wanted to talk about the topic. Don't pretend you do. If this is what you wanted to say start with that and end there.
Actually I believe I did.
I Gave my opinion on tattoos and then compared it to those who judge what a person wears.
What is the difference in what is the subject of judgement? Tattoos, mustache, beard, hair, clothes.
It is the attitude of a Pharisee to think one better than another because of the things I mentioned.
 

dailybread

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What about God's opinion? Do you care about that?

Leviticus 19:28

Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print any marks upon you: I am the LORD.


Any future tattoos is a choice to disobey the law. Do you want to keep the law, or use a shallow attempt to make yourself more interesting or be "creative"?


Sorry, not the easy answers and words of encouragement you want, it's the Truth.

You beat me to it! With that being said, I always bear in mind:

Matthew 7:1-3

[FONT=&quot]Judge not, that ye be not judged.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?[/FONT]
 
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pckts

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Actually I believe I did.
I Gave my opinion on tattoos and then compared it to those who judge what a person wears.
What is the difference in what is the subject of judgement? Tattoos, mustache, beard, hair, clothes.
It is the attitude of a Pharisee to think one better than another because of the things I mentioned.
I see no spiritual benefit to tattoos. I don't think the act should be practiced.

I was talking about the acts, not judging the people doing them.

You would agree men shouldn't dress as women and women as men though, so I don't want to argue these issues with people with incompatible beliefs they won't acknowledge.
 
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Ellsworth1943

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I see no spiritual benefit to tattoos. I don't think the act should be practiced.

I was talking about the acts, not judging the people doing them.

You would agree men shouldn't dress as women and women as men though, so I don't want to argue these issues with people with incompatible beliefs they won't acknowledge.
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Isny

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#36
honest opinions ...

do you judge tattooed women going to church?

the reason I ask is, I'm tattooed, I go to church (not long started my Christian life) I've worn a cardigan each time I go and wont take it off. mainly the older generation attend the church where I go to, and I feel like they will look down on me if I were to reveal my arm, how do I manage this? will I still be looked at the same? will I still be allowed in church?!
I believe our primary concern is how God sees us. He does not see what we have on the outside but inside us: what we have in our heart. If the church objects to your presence through their haughtiness, gossip etc, there are other churches who will accept you just as you are.

Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God.

Best Wishes, Lizzie.
 

tanakh

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Its the members of the congregation that have the problem. If the situation gets too serious I would start looking for another Church. An alternative is start your own. ''The Tattoo Tabernacle'' could be a suitable name for it!
 

Pipp

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To me this is one of those "will it matter in eternity" things and the answer is no.... it doesn't prevent a sinner from getting saved and other people can keep their opinions to themselves cause no amount of shaming is gonna make it come off of her skin. What's done is done. .. serve the Lord and forget them. People will always have opinions.
 

Adstar

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#39
honest opinions ...

do you judge tattooed women going to church?

the reason I ask is, I'm tattooed, I go to church (not long started my Christian life) I've worn a cardigan each time I go and wont take it off. mainly the older generation attend the church where I go to, and I feel like they will look down on me if I were to reveal my arm, how do I manage this? will I still be looked at the same? will I still be allowed in church?!
Let the Bible Judge the tattooed ones... If people disbelieve and disregard the Words of the Bible then what is the point of a human being bringing judgement upon someone..

If they refuse to listen to God on the issue then will they listen to another human being? Nope...

I doubt anyone would ever kick you out of a church for having tattoos.. But if you walk around puffed up with pride about your tattoos showing them off and demanding that everybody affirm and praise you for your tattoos then maybe you might get an adverse reaction..
 
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Karraster

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Hi, sister. For the most part, I think us older ones have seen quite a bit, would not be shocked or look down on you for tats. However, in 1 Timothy we are instructed to dress modestly, etc. What does this mean? I think it means we should not draw attention to ourselves. We are not to be a stumbling block to others, in church who knows if someone is about to make a decision to follow Jesus? Would we want our appearance to be speaking more loudly than that soft whisper, that gentle tug on their hearts?

Honestly, if you feel the need to ask, perhaps you should rethink your intentions to get more. As Pckts points out, the scriptures say not to mark your body. Please at least do more research. Learn what effect ink has on the immune system, how the lymph nodes are permanantly altered. Science doesn't have all the answers yet, as long term studies aren't available, and the pigments used are evolving.

Last but not least, that research should include God's Word. We must read all of that love letter. It reveals the heart of our Creator. God bless you in your walk, and strengthen you sister.