Why are Christians so obsessed with homosexuality?

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Blain

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By the way we are all sinners and thus deserve a righteous punishment, so he without sin throw the first stone.
 
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leonardronaldo

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Then I guess to you I am a liar for I neither judge nor condemn them as it is not my place It is God's and God's alone. It is so easy these days for people to judge or condemn someone for their actions, but the sword was never ours to swing. Do you know where most of the hate in this world comes from? Believe it or not christians or so called followers of christ.
well i would suggest you are the liar, because i don't think Holy Spirit will lie.
anyway, I don't say you are to judge or condemn others. let them do it to themselves.
you just need to remind and warn them, that God is both loving and righteous.
And He who began a good work, will finish it.
I am not condemning or judging here, but warning that Christians are not to be conformed to the world, but to the Christ Himself.
I agree only God can judge, therefore, I'll let you read the Bible for every matters. good to know that you can discern there are so called Christians. now make sure you are not one of them?
how? examine ourselves and test ourselves, whether our faith will stand or not before the Word.

Blessings
 
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leonardronaldo

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By the way we are all sinners and thus deserve a righteous punishment, so he without sin throw the first stone.
agree.
bring what God has said then, not what we think.
blessings
 

Blain

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well i would suggest you are the liar, because i don't think Holy Spirit will lie.
anyway, I don't say you are to judge or condemn others. let them do it to themselves.
you just need to remind and warn them, that God is both loving and righteous.
And He who began a good work, will finish it.
I am not condemning or judging here, but warning that Christians are not to be conformed to the world, but to the Christ Himself.
I agree only God can judge, therefore, I'll let you read the Bible for every matters. good to know that you can discern there are so called Christians. now make sure you are not one of them?
how? examine ourselves and test ourselves, whether our faith will stand or not before the Word.

Blessings
Okay well aside from me being a liar and all, I cannot tell a gay that they live a life of sin in all good conscience as I too am a sinner. If the question arises and I have to give an answer I will tell them but they have to find the point to where they question if their way of life is bad or not. I guess I am to gentle for my own good because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. but I certainly do not want to judge anyone for anything because In my opinion my hands are stained too.

And trust me I examine myself and test myself daily, there is a part of me that is truly follower of God in both Love and adoration but there is also the part of me that is of this world. The flesh part, and I constantly beg the Lord to burn everything inside of me that isn't him and fill me with himself. But it is a slow process and honestly it never seems quick enough. I hate the part of me that isn't of God, everyone has that dark side but I want it gone and I will seek the Lord and ask as long as it takes.
 
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I see more threads on this site about homosexuals and debates about whether they're going to heaven or hell than discussions about how good, kind and merciful our Lord and Savior is.
I believe that God created man, and when sin came in, the devil perverted many things within humanity. Satan took the concept of Christ marrying His church, and the natural order that God had intended for man to function and twisted it into something else. He does this with all good things that God had created.

LOL I just posted something EXACTLY about this..I love it. And I agree 110%


I want to make two statements, though.
a) Homosexuality is just as much of a sin as anything else.
b) Just because you are not attracted to the same sex, does not mean you know what the temptation feels like.

I'm not here to try and start a debate about whether it's wrong or right - because in the eyes of God it's wrong. Bang, there you have it. Nothing else needs to be said on that.
What I want to know is why are Christians so obsessed with condemning homosexuals?

To say that you are without sin, is to make Him out to be a liar. You are unrighteous, and ungodly, but you are made righteous by the blood of Christ. Sin is sin, God does not make a hierarchy of do's and don'ts. We have ALL fallen short of the glory of our Lord Jesus.
Can you remember the last time that you thought a bad thought about someone? The last time you had a lustful thought? What about the last time you cursed someone? Are you having a hard time forgiving someone?
GUESS WHAT. You are just as bad as a homosexual, I am just as bad as a homosexual.
I struggle, you struggle. I've probably sinned in 50 different ways today and I can't even recall it. I am so unrighteous and I deserve hell, you deserve hell, the pope deserves hell. I don't care who you are, you deserve the pit, no matter what you DO and no matter what you DON'T DO, you deserve no mercy.

I want to know why Christians are so damn obsessed with homosexuals. They will overlook their own greed, their own judgement and take the salvation that they did not earn and use it to tell a gay person that they're going to hell. Do you not realize that you deserve to go to hell?
You didn't wake up one day, accept Jesus, and then not deserve separation from our father. You still deserve separation. That's what grace is, the fact that you don't deserve to be with God, but He LOVED YOU enough to DIE FOR YOU so that you could be with Him. Yet so many people are taking this and act like they are righteous.

There is so much wrong with the world today, and not only is everyone taking their eyes off of Jesus to focus on the affairs of how well everyone else's moral performance is, of all things they choose one sin out of the possible thousands of others out there that you and I are probably committing every day and then pointing gays out to be the unrighteous.

There are adulterers, men who are married and have wives who absolutely love them and they go out and have sexual relations with other women on purpose. Men who shoot up schools.
Do you not see that even though you are JUST AS BAD as THOSE PEOPLE in the eyes of God, you choose to oppress one group of struggling people who cannot help but be under what Satan has done under sin. Yes, some people are born like that, and just because you can't possibly understand what it's like to struggle with that sin does not mean it's easy to deal with. They are committing suicide every day because of Christians who would rather make a sermon or forum thread about gay people condemning them, when they don't willingly choose to be the way that they are, as opposed to someone who chooses to shoot up a bunch of 7 year olds in a school.

I have seen about 20 discussions on homosexuality during my week on this forum, and not one about the people shooting up schools or men who cheat on others. There's no "MURDERERS" threads, or "ADULTERERS" threads, or "THIEVES" threads but countless ones about gay people.

Now I'm not telling you to go and take your eyes off of gay people and start judging murderers, because it's still the same concept. You and I are just as sinful as the guy who shot up the cinema - the difference between us and him is that we have been saved by Jesus Christ for our sins.

What I want to know is why are Christians so obsessed with homosexuals? It's a sin like any other sin, we sin every day. We're no better. We have Homosexual Christians, homosexual non-Christians.
You have Christians who think bad thoughts, and non-Christians who think bad thoughts. Sin is sin.
If you believe that Jesus died for you, you are made righteous by faith the same way that Abraham was.

So please tell me why Christians cannot seem to help themselves but continuously question and attack homosexuality in particular when we are just as bad as them in other areas of our lives?
Why can't we just accept that our beautiful, merciful Lord and Savior died for us, and focus on our relationship with Him and His almighty presence as opposed to spending all our time condemning others and monitoring their lives and actions?

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Romans 3:10
as it is written:
“None is righteous, no, not one;"
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LOL I just posted something EXACTLY about this..I love it. And I agree 110%
 
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leonardronaldo

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Okay well aside from me being a liar and all, I cannot tell a gay that they live a life of sin in all good conscience as I too am a sinner. If the question arises and I have to give an answer I will tell them but they have to find the point to where they question if their way of life is bad or not. I guess I am to gentle for my own good because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. but I certainly do not want to judge anyone for anything because In my opinion my hands are stained too.

And trust me I examine myself and test myself daily, there is a part of me that is truly follower of God in both Love and adoration but there is also the part of me that is of this world. The flesh part, and I constantly beg the Lord to burn everything inside of me that isn't him and fill me with himself. But it is a slow process and honestly it never seems quick enough. I hate the part of me that isn't of God, everyone has that dark side but I want it gone and I will seek the Lord and ask as long as it takes.
i understand and i agree.
are you sure you want all that is not of God burn?
ask the Holy Spirit to do that, but be cautioned, it may caused you to be hated (even by your family or community), persecuted, etc etc.

Christ is worth it though.
blessings
 

Blain

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i understand and i agree.
are you sure you want all that is not of God burn?
ask the Holy Spirit to do that, but be cautioned, it may caused you to be hated (even by your family or community), persecuted, etc etc.

Christ is worth it though.
blessings
LOL Yes I am sure. I know the cost and have accepted the fate of it long ago. I am afraid there will be no may in causing me to be hated, Jesus was not accepted by most people in his day and age so why would he be accepted in this one? I am not saying I will be Jesus I am saying I will be like him in nature heart and spirit, He is the ultimate role model
 

PennEd

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See this is what I am talking about, such hate in your words. look at your own sins first and search inside yourself then decide whether or not she will not receive grace.
The only sin I see here is those who are condemning not in her posts. maybe her last post may have had a little to much emotion in it but it was not a sin, sinner
I feel like I'm on Mars or something. If I said the little red martians like to play street hockey in a swimming pool filed with sand, that would make more sense then what you said.

What hate? You realize that when you accuse someone of hate that is actually a very hateful act in itself. Of course I'm a terrible sinner. That's the whole point in needing a Savior and accepting Jesus. But as stated about a billion times here, you can't justify your sin by saying it isn't sin!! What don't you understand about that? Homosexuality is a sin. If engaged in it needs to be acknowledged as sin, confessed as sin AND repented of. JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER SIN. God cannot forgive what you refuse to acknowledge as sin.
 
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leonardronaldo

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LOL Yes I am sure. I know the cost and have accepted the fate of it long ago. I am afraid there will be no may in causing me to be hated, Jesus was not accepted by most people in his day and age so why would he be accepted in this one? I am not saying I will be Jesus I am saying I will be like him in nature heart and spirit, He is the ultimate role model
well said.
the other way to see it is, if Jesus, as a sinless man was persecuted by the world, there must have been something wrong if we who claim to be Christians, are praised by the world.
 
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megaman125

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You said "people are obsessed with trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs" - this is untrue.
We have a free country where you can believe or not believe anything you want. Beliefs are inside
your mind and sorry but some people just don't care what you believe. Why should your own beliefs
dictate other people's lives?
I haven't said one word about dictating other people's lives. Way to misconstrue my position and assume some random position I haven't taken. Christians believing homosexuality is a sin is not dictating other people's lives. Get over it.

As for people not being obsessed with trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs, you don't pay much attention to what goes on in the world, do you. The media and activists groups are trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs and force them to say homosexuality isn't sinful. So how about you start by answering your own question. Why should other people's beliefs dictate the way Christians live?
 
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I haven't said one word about dictating other people's lives. Way to misconstrue my position and assume some random position I haven't taken. Christians believing homosexuality is a sin is not dictating other people's lives. Get over it.

As for people not being obsessed with trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs, you don't pay much attention to what goes on in the world, do you. The media and activists groups are trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs and force them to say homosexuality isn't sinful. So how about you start by answering your own question. Why should other people's beliefs dictate the way Christians live?
Ok, I give up. If anyone else wants to explain the Golden Rule to megaman please try.

Christians believing homosexuality is a sin is not dictating other people's lives. Get over it.
When Christianity starts influencing law, education, and government policies then it does dictate people's lives.

Since we live in a country that grants religious freedom how would you like it if people told you to live by
Muslim standards?
 
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As for people not being obsessed with trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs, you don't pay much attention to what goes on in the world, do you. The media and activists groups are trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs and force them to say homosexuality isn't sinful. So how about you start by answering your own question. Why should other people's beliefs dictate the way Christians live?
One last thing before I rest my case.

I think you are confusing "trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs" with people not wanting
religious beliefs/ideals passed into law. This in no way is trying to force you to deny your belief.

Again, how would you feel if someone made you live according to Muslim beliefs? When you
understand that then it may not be so hard to see why some people don't want Christian "beliefs"
telling them what to do.
 
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megaman125

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Ok, I give up. If anyone else wants to explain the Golden Rule to megaman please try.
Maybe someone should try explaining to you what a red herring is.

When Christianity starts influencing law, education, and government policies then it does dictate people's lives.

Since we live in a country that grants religious freedom how would you like it if people told you to live by
Muslim standards?
I didn't say one word about passing laws. This is a red herring.

One last thing before I rest my case.

I think you are confusing "trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs" with people not wanting
religious beliefs/ideals passed into law. This in no way is trying to force you to deny your belief.
My post about people trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs has nothing to do with laws being passed. It has everything to do with other people telling Christians to shut up and stop preaching that sin is sin, and people telling Christians how they have to believe.
 
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Shame about intersex people then eh...there's always gray area
What's an "intersex" person?

"Gray area"? There is no gray area. You refrain from having sex until you marry. If you do that, it all falls in place. There would be no homosexuality, venereal disease, or children born out of wedlock. Jesus taught us that. Too many people think they are smarter than Jesus Christ.
 
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[video=youtube;LRVbfEDTd_A]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRVbfEDTd_A[/video]
 
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Exoaria

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This is an ignorant post proving that you either didn't read or didn't understand what people said. IF YOU DON'T CONFESS YOUR SIN AND REPENT OF IT THERE IS NO GRACE!
The original Hebrew word used in "repent" throughout every Bible simply means "to change your mind".

Change my mind about what?
Well, I can be like the Pharisees and change my mind about my last sin until I sin again and then apparently change my mind on and on and so forth focusing on myself.
Or I can become occupied with the finished work of Jesus Christ and change my mind that I am unable to become Holy by my own accord but only by the blood of Jesus.

Also, I'm not attacking anyone that follows the Law. God said He will write His laws into your minds and hearts, so it's only natural for Holiness to become more attractive. Don't get me wrong; the Law is Holy, just, and good. However it has no power to make you Holy, just and good.

If I have to ask God for forgiveness every time I fell short of His glory, there probably wouldn't be enough oxygen in the Earth's atmosphere to supply me with the air I would need to speak the words. The Bible says that I am righteous by faith just as Abraham was because of what Jesus did. That doesn't make me not-a-sinner, I know I'm a sinner. But I also know that I'm just as much of a sinner as a homosexual is, and I deserve hell just as much as a homosexual and any of you do.

Good news to those who love Jesus, though! You're redeemed, praise Him and put him at the centre.
Jesus is the King and deserves to be the focus, not any sin of any kind. It's washed away.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Genuine Christians don't get their theology from a lost atheist and a lost homosexual Catholic. That was a dumb video of two lost ignorant people rambling.

Here's a video of a man who found his way out of the trap of homosexuality into a life of holiness in Christ. He's a happily married man today who counsels people lost in the trap of homosexuality and how the Church can help with that.

@ 8:17: "I heard from the Lord, it was very clear. He told me that I had a choice and that choice was that I could either choose the path He had for me or He would give me over to what it was that I was pursuing [e.g. a homosexual lifestyle]. One would lead to life and one would lead to death... that's when I really began trying to make a change or to discover if there was something else, an alternative to what I was feeling."

Jeff Buchanan - Finding Freedom from Homosexuality in the Church - YouTube


[dumb atheist video]
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Rest your case? That's funny because you appear to know almost nothing about the proper relationship between government and morality.

Let me give your first hint, government power is only legitimate when it acts for the moral benefit of the people not its opposites (e.g. immorality and/or amorality).

Secondly, whether or not you accept it, genuine morality has its basis in something other than your best thinking and how you feel. It has it's basis in the character of God.

A good deal of that morality is already passed into law for the benefit of people.

What we don't want is people like you hypocritically forcing your atheistic beliefs, ungodly immoral ideals, and wrong thinking into law as a substitute for moral law.

Obviously, we don't want false religious systems like Islam doing that either.


One last thing before I rest my case.

I think you are confusing "trying to force Christians to deny their beliefs" with people not wanting
religious beliefs/ideals passed into law. This in no way is trying to force you to deny your belief.

Again, how would you feel if someone made you live according to Muslim beliefs? When you
understand that then it may not be so hard to see why some people don't want Christian "beliefs"
telling them what to do.
 
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Graybeard

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I see "Yahwhat" has finally been banned!......what took you mods so long?...:)
 
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Alfa

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Whoa, whoa that's a very insensitive statement man. I go to a church that follows both new and Old Testament so what you just said is invalid. So actually you can have it both ways.